Sex Tips & Tricks: Bend Over Your Boyfriend
Anal sex for women who want to do their men has become a phenomenon since we at Fatale first produced Bend Over Boyfriend.
When you’re ready to open yourself up to anal eroticism, also known as pegging, there are a few tips you should know to maximize your pleasure—and your partner’s.
Plan ahead. You’ll and lots and lots of lube and a glove to start. You’ll also want condoms and a small dildo especially for anal sex.
Relax. You’ve planned ahead and talked with your partner about trying anal sex. There’s nothing to worry about. If it happens, great. If it doesn’t happen, don’t worry. You’ll have another opportunity.
Add some romance. Kiss and cuddle, fuck if you want, touch each other, stroke and lick and tease and talk dirty to each other.
Strap it on. If you know how to use a strap-on, you’re one step ahead. If you don’t know how, practice ahead of time, then ease into the leg straps, tighten the straps so that the dildo is against your pubic bone. An added bonus, you’ll feel it on your clit, too!
Finger his butt. Put on your glove and squeeze lots of lube on your gloved hand. You might want to put a pillow under his hips so you have better access. Gently explore his butthole and ease your finger inside a little bit. Just a little bit. Allow him to relax.
Bend Over, Boyfriend. There are several positions for anal sex that work well. One of the best ways to start is to have him kneel on the bed, and you can kneel up behind him. Guide the strap-on dildo to his anus and gently tease his butthole. You must talk to each other so you know what feels good to him.
Listen. It shouldn’t hurt. If he’s uncomfortable he should say so. And you should ease out. Just leave the tip in as long as he says it’s okay.
Pump and stroke. You can reach around and stroke his penis, drag your nails down his back, grab his hips and have a good ol’ time as you pump away!
March 17th, 2008 at 1:32 am
Thank you for the info. We have been doing this for some time now. Always wondered if anyone else did too! The sexual response he gets is incredible! And I know he is not gay. We just discovered an awesome sexual experience that has taken us to an other level.
Dana and John
March 19th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
I’d love to try this sometime with a secure and willing partner – uh-hum, . . .
March 19th, 2008 at 5:13 pm
quid pro quo, of course, as I loved being held down against my will . . .
I REALLY like that aspect of male dominance – just make some time for me and I’m sure that we’ll be happy at the end of the evening , , ,
May 4th, 2008 at 6:11 am
It is fun especially with the right partner with a good attitude . Shall we explore more ?
May 10th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
my wife and i have explored anal sex, i am a straight male and it has opened new doors to our life
May 17th, 2008 at 11:20 am
I want my boy friend to fuck him from behind, but dildos are not avaialbe in Pakistan. how can i fullfill my desire.It is intereastin to say that he often his member in my anal canal that is very pleasant and sensational- nargis
May 17th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
Nargis, use your fingers. Just make sure you use lubricant. Good luck!
October 17th, 2008 at 11:28 am
i want to try this with my boyfriend i am a older woman and he is younger do u think he will let me
October 17th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
Hey, Dorothy,
Ask him. See what he says. If he’s open to the idea.
If he’s a little shy, here are some tips from a recent blog post–
http://www.fatalemedia.com/blog/2008/10/15/sex-tips-learning-to-enjoy-the-bum/
Christi
January 19th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
my wife fingered my ass while giving me head and tried to stick a vibrator in it but couldn,t get it in i told her that i wanted her to penetrate me as much as she wanted that i want to be her sex slave
January 19th, 2009 at 1:57 pm
oh yeah since that happen my ass feels like there is something missing she hs a short small double dildo which i sneak off and stick in my ass and masturebate imagineing she is penetrateing me with a strap on i hope in the near future she carrys out mt fantasy
January 23rd, 2009 at 8:29 am
My girlfriend took some of your advice. I don’t know how she did it, but we were doggy style with me inside her anus. She reached back and inserted her fingers in my anus. She used her two fingers to control my speed and thrusting in her. I became her “puppet” It lead to the most intense orgasm I have ever had. Thank you VERY much
February 18th, 2009 at 11:19 am
I recently told my girlfriend that i wanted her to penatrate me, she has already had her fingers in my ass, which i loved the orgasms were incredible. ever since we have been talking about doing this I have been on the edge of my seat. From the reading that I have done it states this doesn’t make you gay which i do strongly believe. but my question is, is that she is wanting me to wear some of her outfit and underwear. is this still in the same catergory as not being gay?
February 21st, 2009 at 12:48 pm
my wife and are going try this tonight. I too have been on the edge of my seat since she said she wanted to do this. I’ve had her finger in my ass and that felt great. Now that the strap on she ordered has arrived were going to take it to the next level.
March 5th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
I wonder if Susan C. will ever read this… Look no further here I am ..
March 13th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
Oh God,one thing I love is to see that other people are just like me and my girl.My girlfriend is 19,I am 37..I know,I know.What ever.Im not rich,she isn’t either so there is gold diggin going on,we just are in love..anyway,we have both been in some drug related dark places,which for this particular forum doesn’t matter.The point,I am straight..I tried boy on boy sex about 3 or four times..didn’t like it,butt
ha ha(butt)I absoultely LOVE my baby fucking my ass and I have been playing with my ass for years cause it uhhh?feels good!!!point,we both know I am not gay and we do role playing when one of us comes up with something we havent done or want to try.I have been a 14 year old girl,with panties on.(no bra)but panties and had her “molest me”,during that molsetation she of course put on our strap-on and fucked me silly.OMG(oh my god)It was fucking hot,hot,HOT..when we met she had never had a bend-over-boyfriend and it was weird for her at first she says,but then she found that she started to like the control,calling me her little bitch eventually and puttin me on my back or turnin me over on my stomach.Anyway..POINT…NO..there is no problem,and NO your not gay or weird.You got to remember,if you like something,so do a million other people but with stuff like this,(sexual stuff)it is personalt than god for tes like these where we can all talk.
HAVE FUN,WEAR SOME OF YOUR GIRLS PANTIES,LET HER BANG YOUR ASS AND CALL YOU HER BITCH AND KNOW THAT YOUR JUST AS NORMAL AS THE GUY WHO IS TO SCARED TO SAY THAT IS WHAT HE WANTS AND WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED..POOR GUY.I AINT SCARED ANYMORE BUT I GOT A GIRL WHO DOESNT CARE,KNOWS ABOUT THE PROSTATE G SPOT FOR MEN,LOVES ME TO WEAR A PAIR OF HER PANTIES AND BANG YOU..”YOU LITTLE BITCH”LOL..ENJOY
April 11th, 2009 at 6:41 am
I have been bending my husband over for a few months and he loves it. We have just ordered more things to try out. I’m trying to get info from others just to get ideas to make him and myself enjoy it. I think I’ll let him do me and then I’ll treat him. We are having fun trying out new ins and outs.