{"id":1356,"date":"2010-05-01T07:05:07","date_gmt":"2010-05-01T13:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=1356"},"modified":"2010-04-29T17:55:51","modified_gmt":"2010-04-29T23:55:51","slug":"ask-fanny-exercising-your-g-spot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/ask-fanny-exercising-your-g-spot\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Exercising Your G-Spot"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/books\/female_ejaculation_gspot.html\"><img class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-168\" title=\"Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation Expert\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/10\/deborah_sundahl_bw_150w.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to <a href=\"mailto:askfanny@fatalemedia.com\">askfanny@fatalemedia.com<\/a>; please put FE Q&amp;A in the subject line.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Deborah,<br \/>\nIs it true that a woman&#8217;s G-spot is like a muscle and that<strong> if you don&#8217;t exercise<\/strong> it then you <strong>can&#8217;t ejaculate<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Caroline, New York<\/p>\n<p>Dear Caroline,<br \/>\nIn general, yes to your question. <strong>Use it or lose it<\/strong>, as they say.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But as I have been saying for many years now, the G-spot is not a muscle or a wildly erotic spot on the vagina. The G-spot is the<strong> female prostate<\/strong>, which we feel through the roof of the vagina, and all women of course have a prostate just like all men do!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Not using it\u201d is a female ejaculation slumber that most women are now waking up from, thank goodness!\u00a0 All women can ejaculate, by the way, if they want to. Please <strong>don\u2019t pressure yourself to ejaculate<\/strong> if you don&#8217;t want to.\u00a0 And also apply the no-pressure rule if you are learning. <strong>Relax and enjoy the process<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>Deborah<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1093\" title=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples DVD\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200-103x149.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"103\" height=\"149\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200-103x149.jpg 103w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 103px) 100vw, 103px\" \/><\/a>Want to find out more about <strong>female ejaculation<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>Check out Deborah Sundahl\u2019s popular sex-education DVD <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\">Female Ejaculation for Couples <\/a>and her equally popular book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/books\/female_ejaculation_gspot.html\">Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot<\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. 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