As one commenter noted in response to The Advocate<\/em>\u2019s article \u201cClay and Lindsay are Gay — Shock!\u201d<\/a>: \u201c[O]ne should be allowed to self-identify. No one has the right to make that announcement for anyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n We couldn\u2019t agree more. All those queers still in the closet have a right to be there, just as each of us has a right to come o<\/strong>ut if and when we want to. We do understand that coming out is a luxury for those not living in tolerant circumstances<\/strong>. Hollywood is tolerant place.<\/p>\n “There are many who are not marriage material and are doing things to impress others,\u201d he continued.\u00a0\u201cThere are those who try to impress family members and friends.\u201d<\/p>\n October 11, 2008, is National Coming Out Day<\/a> here in the U.S.<\/p>\n Our friend Chris told Nan he wanted to wear her Take Her Down<\/a> production T-shirt on that day! We\u2019ll see if we can dig a clean one up for him.<\/p>\n However you celebrate National Coming Out Day, it\u2019s worth remembering that those who don\u2019t come out, who you just know are gay, probably have a reason for staying the closet.<\/p>\n We salute Hollywood stars and ordinary people alike for their courage in coming out<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Yours in good love and sex,<\/p>\n Nan & Christi P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or with PayPal. And remember, you get free shipping when you order 3 or more DVDs. See all Fatale\u2019s DVDs<\/a>.<\/p>\n![\"Clay](\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/clay-aiken-on-people-magazine.thumbnail.jpg\")
\u201cClay felt that it was right to come out to get it off of his back. He felt the need to no longer live a lie<\/strong>. This goes for gay or straight. It does not have to be about being a homosexual,” says\u00a0our friend Chuck in Louisiana.<\/p>\n
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