{"id":191,"date":"2008-12-01T00:03:47","date_gmt":"2008-12-01T04:03:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/01\/ask-fanny-love-juice\/"},"modified":"2008-12-01T00:03:47","modified_gmt":"2008-12-01T04:03:47","slug":"ask-fanny-love-juice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/ask-fanny-love-juice\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: “Love Juice”"},"content":{"rendered":"

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. \"Deborah<\/a><\/p>\n

Hello, Fanny,<\/p>\n

I was wondering if it is possible to improve the taste\/smell of my ejaculate<\/strong>. My partner says that it is quite acidic and burns her throat<\/strong>. Upon tasting it myself I quite agree, and now understand why she chokes sometimes. Also, the scent is quite strong, bordering on unpleasant for both of us.<\/p>\n

I am aware that my ejaculate should be light and fresh, and mine is not even in the ballpark. I am also quite positive it is not urine<\/strong>, since I have tasted that as well. I don’t push really hard (when I ejaculate), because I don’t have to (so I am not leaking urine). Mostly, I am receiving oral sex<\/strong> when I ejaculate (hence her choking). Sometimes it squirts out a bit, and other times (my female ejaculate) just gushes out.<\/p>\n

I ejaculate almost every time I orgasm. I can have many orgasms in a session, so therefore I ejaculate a lot<\/strong>. I’m 39 now, and started to ejaculate in my 30s.<\/p>\n

I have taken prescription medication<\/strong> for many years, but none of it is new, nor has it changed in many years, except Cymbalta, which I started in April, 2007. I don’t use illicit drugs. Of course, my diet could use improvement, but it’s not terrible.<\/p>\n

The medications I currently take are:<\/p>\n

Cymbalta 60 mg – depression
\nZoloft 75 mg – depression\/anxiety
\nAvapro 75 mg – high blood pressure
\nLipitor 80 mg – high cholesterol
\nTrazodone 50 mg – sedative for bedtime
\nClonazepam – anxiety for bedtime
\nMulti-vitamin
\nAcidophilus – GI infections<\/p>\n

I wouldn’t even say that urine smells as unpleasant as my ejaculate. What can I do or try?<\/p>\n

Sincerely,<\/p>\n

Jane & Natalie<\/p>\n

Dear Jane and Natalie,<\/p>\n

I have not heard of this problem before, so initially I was completely stumped. Female ejaculate, like other bodily fluids such as tears, vaginal lubrication, etc., have certain tastes and smells that are \u201cnormal\u201d<\/strong> or have a normal range. Your ejaculate falls out of the normal range. Therefore, what’s wrong?<\/p>\n

I suspect the prescription drugs<\/strong> you are taking. It is an extensive list and you have been taking them for quite some time. I would see your doctor<\/strong>, and tell him or her about this side effect of burning, acidic ejaculate that you are experiencing. Also, consider getting a second and third opinion on your medical diagnoses and treatment plan\u2014a standard practice in the health care industry.<\/p>\n

I’m sorry, I don’t know of any natural remedy, food, tea or hydrosol<\/strong> to correct this problem. Should I stumble upon one, I will let you and the Fatale readers know. If anyone has any suggestions, please write in.<\/p>\n

I feel compelled, as an herbalist, feminist and Goddess feminist, to comment here about pharmaceutical drug use<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

1) As Goddess juice<\/strong> (female ejaculate), your ejaculate is, I believe,\u00a0telling you\u2014quite loudly\u2014that these drugs aren’t that great for your body.<\/p>\n

2) As a feminist, I believe it is worthwhile for us as a culture to take a look at the drugs we are taking in record numbers today. In the 1950s, women were popping sedatives in unprecedented numbers. Marilyn Monroe’s pill popping<\/strong> was not unusual for her gender and her time. As well, women were also undergoing lobotomies<\/strong> in record numbers<\/strong>. The complaints were for a \u201cproblem that has no name\u201d as Betty Friedan made famous in her book, The Feminine Mystique<\/a>. This is the book that started the 1960s feminist movement.<\/p>\n

3) As an herbalist, these days the future is about going Green, and that includes what we put into our bodies. Natural alternatives<\/strong> support the body like food does, rather than overburden it with pharmaceutical chemicals<\/strong>\u2014possibly destroying the utterly divine, fresh and light smell that is our female ejaculate.<\/p>\n

In next month\u2019s column, we will talk about toxic sex toys, plastics and phthalates<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Fanny
\naskfanny@fatalemedia.com<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Female<\/a>For tips on how to female ejaculate, check out Deborah Sundahl\u2019s new DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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