{"id":201,"date":"2009-01-01T00:03:21","date_gmt":"2009-01-01T04:03:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/01\/ask-fanny-tantra-for-the-new-year\/"},"modified":"2009-01-01T00:03:21","modified_gmt":"2009-01-01T04:03:21","slug":"ask-fanny-tantra-for-the-new-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/ask-fanny-tantra-for-the-new-year\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny – Tantra for the New Year"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some of you are interested in slowing down<\/strong> and going deeper into your sexuality, your erotic desires and your intimacy with a partner. For those of you who are ready or curious, Tantra is your ticket<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Here for the New Year are Five Principles of Tantric Sex<\/strong> to contemplate:<\/p>\n

Breathe<\/strong>
\nThe vast majority of people hold their breath when they are sexually excited or about to have that orgasm. Tantra teaches the opposite: breathing will lengthen and heighten your sensual pleasure<\/strong> and your orgasm.<\/p>\n

Relax<\/strong>
\nMost folks tense up when they are trying to have an orgasm – especially when we use a vibrator. Tantra teaches how to have exquisite orgasms<\/strong> by doing the opposite: relaxing.\u00a0 Relaxing into pleasure. Breathe. Relax.<\/p>\n

Open Your Body to Sensation<\/strong>
\nWhen we tense and don’t breathe, we feel fewer sensations, and therefore need more stimulation (like a vibrator or harder cracks on the ass) to become aroused. Tantra teaches the body to become nearly electric with sensation<\/strong> when it is touched.\u00a0 Breathe. Relax. Feel More Pleasure.<\/p>\n

Circulate Erotic Energy throughout Your Body<\/strong>
\nWhy let that large pool of erotic sensation stay in the genital area? That aroused state is energy, and it is delicious<\/strong>. Tantra teaches how to expand that energy beyond your genitals and into the rest of your body. That feel-good pleasure is healing to every cell, as well.\u00a0 Breathe. Relax. Feel More Pleasure. Have a BodyGasm<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Resources
\n<\/strong>My two favorite books:
\nTantra Between the Sheets by Val Sampson<\/a>
\nThe Essential Tantra by Kenneth Ray Stubbs and Kyle Spencer<\/a><\/p>\n

My favorite video<\/strong>:
\nA two-set by Margot Anand<\/a>, the French-born and Sorbonne-bred lady who brought the old ancient Tantra tradition to America in a modern form: Secret Keys to the Ultimate Love Life.<\/p>\n

My favorite educational Web site: Tantra.com<\/a><\/p>\n

May your new year find you slowing down, vibing in<\/strong> and turning on with greater depth and pleasure.<\/p>\n

Fanny
\naskfanny@fatalemedia.com<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Tantric<\/a>For tips on Tantra and Tantric sex, check out Deborah Sundahl\u2019s DVD, Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm: Unveiling the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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