{"id":2264,"date":"2011-09-15T07:13:14","date_gmt":"2011-09-15T13:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=2264"},"modified":"2011-09-14T13:13:54","modified_gmt":"2011-09-14T19:13:54","slug":"ask-fanny-finding-time-for-romance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2011\/09\/ask-fanny-finding-time-for-romance\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Finding Time for Romance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In \u201cAsk Fanny,\u201d a regular Fatale Media newsletter column, G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\"><img class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-168\" title=\"Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation Expert\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/10\/deborah_sundahl_bw_150w.jpg\" alt=\"Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation Expert\" \/><\/a>Dear Fanny,<br \/>\nI have<strong> three kids in grade school<\/strong> and to be honest our <strong>lovemaking<\/strong> is taking a beating. There just is no time for quality time together sexually, much less<strong> learn about female ejaculation<\/strong>, which seem to take a lot of time to learn.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have any suggestions?<\/p>\n<p>Signed,<\/p>\n<p>Swamped in Pennsylvania<\/p>\n<p>Dear Swamped,<br \/>\nEvery parent I know has the same problem, and yet the answer is what parent guides have been saying for years: you must <strong>take time for your relationship<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>I firmly believe that once a month you MUST <strong>schedule a weekend together<\/strong>, alone and uninterrupted. Sexuality and lovemaking and time together form the glue that keeps your relationship strong. If you starve it, you end up hurting the entire family in the end. You must<strong> put your relationship first<\/strong>, and you must spend the money to invest in this.<\/p>\n<p>Often, the <strong>grandparents<\/strong> are all too happy to babysit the kids. One couple I know had 10 brothers and sisters and grandparents all in town, happy to watch the kids, but he didn&#8217;t want to \u201cimpose.\u201d For one thing, cousins want to see each other, and second, to the vast majority of grandparents, their grandkids are the most important thing in their life and gives them great joy. I told him he was not only robbing his immediately family but his extended family as well.<\/p>\n<p>No family around?\u00a0 You must develop your neighborhood network of swapping and watching one another\u2019s kids.<\/p>\n<p>Logistics and commitment aside, once you have a weekend together, believe me you will have plenty of time to learn <a title=\"How to Female Ejaculate\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/how_to_female_ejaculate.html\">how to female ejaculate<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Practice<\/strong>, practice, practice. That\u2019s the key, in my experience, to learning <strong>new sexual techniques<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>When you see how good you feel and how restored your relationship is, you won\u2019t hesitate to make time for you and your sweetheart.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck!<\/p>\n<p>Fanny<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1093\" title=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples DVD\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200-103x149.jpg\" alt=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples DVD\" width=\"103\" height=\"149\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200-103x149.jpg 103w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/fe_couples_dvd_200.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 103px) 100vw, 103px\" \/><\/a>P.S. Want to find out more about female ejaculation?<\/p>\n<p>Check out Deborah Sundahl\u2019s popular sex-education DVD <a title=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\">Female Ejaculation for Couples<\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In \u201cAsk Fanny,\u201d a regular Fatale Media newsletter column, G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. Dear Fanny, I have three kids in grade school and to be honest our lovemaking is taking a beating. 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