{"id":24,"date":"2007-08-01T00:26:00","date_gmt":"2007-08-01T04:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/01\/sex_tips_and_tricks_create_your_own_love_nest\/"},"modified":"2007-08-01T00:26:00","modified_gmt":"2007-08-01T04:26:00","slug":"sex_tips_and_tricks_create_your_own_love_nest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2007\/08\/sex_tips_and_tricks_create_your_own_love_nest\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips &#38; Tricks: Create Your Own Love Nest"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you think of a love nest, you might be picturing some exotic, red-draped canopy bed&#8230;or a basement dungeon outfitted with the latest in S&amp;M gear. In reality, you can make a space from a bedroom or an extra space that\u2019s not being used. You can make it as <strong>lush or as spare as you like<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>A love nest is a special place you create only for you where you and your sweetie or sweeties can <strong>enjoy delicious sex<\/strong>.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If you have the luxury of an extra room in your apartment or home, take advantage of it and make it <strong>your personal, sexy hideaway<\/strong>. This could be a den, extra bedroom, finished attic or basement space or even an atrium or other \u201cextra\u201d available space in your home.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t have the luxury of extra space, use your bedroom or a nook off the living room. No matter what, create the sexy atmosphere you want.<\/p>\n<p>For a love nest to succeed you must feel comfortable with the design and look of the space. If you prefer a modern, contemporary look, go for it! Prefer Victorian intrigue? Study different <strong>design styles<\/strong> and pick one or two that suit your taste.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a good site that distinguishes different period interior design styles:<br \/>\n<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/homes\/design\/period_index.shtml\">http:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/homes\/design\/period_index.shtml<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Remember, though, <strong>this room is for you and your lovers<\/strong>. If you find yourself leaning toward an ornate look befitting a fairy princess, remember that your lover may feel a tad overwhelmed by all the flourishes. Tone it down slightly and use your imagination when you\u2019re alone.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of your personal style, here are some <strong>basics<\/strong> all love nests should include:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"body\">\n<li>A <strong>place to lie down<\/strong> and make love. Even if you love making love standing up, make sure you have a place to stretch out and relax. This could be a bed, a futon, a raft of down pillows or the like.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Storage<\/strong> for your sex toys, condoms, latex gloves and lube. Don\u2019t forget to stock it well! A cabinet or bookshelf works well, ditto a hinged ottoman or other closed compartment.<\/li>\n<li>A <strong>door<\/strong> or other method to close off your love nest from prying eyes.<\/li>\n<li>Light. Windows are ideal, and don\u2019t forget the curtains or other window treatments, but some sort of <strong>light<\/strong> will help you see what you\u2019re doing while making love.<\/li>\n<li>If you have the room, add a couple <strong>chairs<\/strong> to sit and relax afterwards. Otherwise you can move to another room for your apr\u00eas amour.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Optional but fun<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"body\">\n<li>Music &#8211; even a radio will work in a small space<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sexy art<\/strong> or framed prints on the walls<\/li>\n<li>A mini-<strong>fridge<\/strong> tucked away in a corner and stocked with your favorite beverages and nibbles<\/li>\n<li>Rugs on the floor&#8230;just in case you feel like getting down and dirty but not splinters in your knees<\/li>\n<li>A TV and DVD player. If you\u2019re like us, <strong>porn rules<\/strong>!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/the_crash_pad.html\">To see a simple love nest to service a variety of dykes and their girlfriends, check out <em>The Crash Pad<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you think of a love nest, you might be picturing some exotic, red-draped canopy bed&#8230;or a basement dungeon outfitted with the latest in S&amp;M gear. In reality, you can make a space from a bedroom or an extra space that\u2019s not being used. 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