{"id":241,"date":"2009-02-01T00:02:59","date_gmt":"2009-02-01T07:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=241"},"modified":"2009-02-01T11:23:45","modified_gmt":"2009-02-01T18:23:45","slug":"what-women-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/what-women-want\/","title":{"rendered":"What Women Want"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-260\" title=\"theothersideofdesirebergner1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/02\/theothersideofdesirebergner1.jpg\" alt=\"theothersideofdesirebergner1\" width=\"99\" height=\"150\" \/>We were curious to see Charles McGrath\u2019s review of Daniel Bergner\u2019s new book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/01\/24\/books\/24berg.html?partner=permalink&amp;exprod=permalink\">The Other Side of Desire<\/a> (Ecco, $24.99). Subtitled <em>Four Journeys into the Far Realms of Lust and Longing<\/em>, the book is about \u201cpeople most of us would call perverts or weirdos.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ah! <strong>Pervs and weirdos<\/strong>. That\u2019s us.<\/p>\n<p>So imagine our surprise to see the next day, a week ago, the cover story of the <em>New York Times<\/em> Magazine: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/01\/25\/magazine\/25desire-t.html?partner=permalink&amp;exprod=permalink\">\u201cWhat Is Female Desire?\u201d<\/a> by the very same Daniel Bergner.<\/p>\n<p>Our first thought: <strong>Nobody asked us!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But after reading this fascinating article about <strong>women sexologists<\/strong> exploring the inner reaches of female sexuality, we were sold that <strong>they\u2019re doing good work<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>But we know there are lots and lots of <strong>women who know exactly what they want<\/strong>. Is this still an issue? Apparently so.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the letter Nan sent to the <em>New York Times<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p>To the Editor:<br \/>\nAs someone who has catered to women\u2019s tastes for sexually explicit material for 25 years, I read with interest Daniel Bergner\u2019s article \u201cWhat Is Female Desire?\u201d and applaud the work of Meredith Chivers and the other sexologists. Although I am not a scientist, I nonetheless have observed over these past 25 years that women <em>will<\/em> seek out and spend money on sexually explicit material that they <em>know<\/em> turns them on. In other words, there are plenty of women who know exactly what they want.<\/p>\n<p>Sincerely,<\/p>\n<p>Nan Kinney<br \/>\nPresident<br \/>\nFatale Media, Inc.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/01\/what-women-want\/#respond\">Tell us what you think women want!<\/a><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We were curious to see Charles McGrath\u2019s review of Daniel Bergner\u2019s new book, The Other Side of Desire (Ecco, $24.99). Subtitled Four Journeys into the Far Realms of Lust and Longing, the book is about \u201cpeople most of us would call perverts or weirdos.\u201d Ah! Pervs and weirdos. That\u2019s us. So imagine our surprise to [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=241"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":288,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/241\/revisions\/288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}