{"id":2498,"date":"2012-01-12T07:34:54","date_gmt":"2012-01-12T13:34:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=2498"},"modified":"2012-01-11T19:07:33","modified_gmt":"2012-01-12T01:07:33","slug":"ask-fanny-lubrication-with-oil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/ask-fanny-lubrication-with-oil\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Lubrication with Oil?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\"><img class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-168\" title=\"Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation Expert\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/10\/deborah_sundahl_bw_150w.jpg\" alt=\"Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation Expert\" \/><\/a>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Deborah,<\/p>\n<p>Is<strong> lubrication with oil<\/strong> a must or should we reserve it for those times when the surfaces are not that moist? I shall be grateful for your clarification on this rather basic point.<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you a very Happy New Year.<\/p>\n<p>Best regards,<\/p>\n<p>Curious in India<\/p>\n<p>Dear Curious,<\/p>\n<p><strong>Olive oil<\/strong> is nourishing to the skin, as Queen Cleopatra from ancient Egypt knew. Use lubricant that is nourishing to the vagina, like<strong> natural oils<\/strong> of any kind (jojoba, almond, avocado, etc.).\u00a0 View the vagina as skin that needs or likes \u201cfood,\u201d rather than using a lubricant to \u201cmake\u201d her ready.<\/p>\n<p>As you will learn when you read my book, <a title=\"Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/books\/female_ejaculation_gspot.html\">Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot<\/a>, I encourage every woman to know her body. This is more than finding a technique or \u201cprescribing\u201d lubricant. You will know when you want to use lubricant, and when you do not need or want to. In this way, you will have more than enough <strong>natural lubrication<\/strong>, too!<\/p>\n<p>Again, the more you can listen to your own body, specifically your vagina and what she needs and likes, the more success you will have with the <strong>G-spot orgasm<\/strong> and with female ejaculation. And in the end, the more <strong>intimate connection<\/strong> you will have to yourself and to your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Have fun!<\/p>\n<p>Deborah<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1345\" title=\"female_ejaculation_couples_pic0506\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/female_ejaculation_couples_pic0506-150x104.jpg\" alt=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples\" width=\"150\" height=\"104\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/female_ejaculation_couples_pic0506-150x104.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/female_ejaculation_couples_pic0506-300x209.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/female_ejaculation_couples_pic0506.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>P.S. If you plan to be in the Pacific Northwest this spring, sign up for Deborah Sundahl\u2019s female-ejaculation women\u2019s workshop scheduled for the weekend of April 20-22, 2012. A workshop for couples runs April 27-28, 2012. View more information here at <a title=\"IsisMedia.org\" href=\"http:\/\/www.isismedia.org\/workshop_registration.html#seattle1\">Deborah&#8217;s Web site<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Check out <a title=\"Female Ejaculation for Couples DVD\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_couples.html\">Female Ejaculation for Couples<\/a>\u00a0by Deborah Sundahl to see how couples can stimulate the G-spot and achieve female ejaculation in a workshop setting.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. 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