{"id":29,"date":"2007-09-01T00:31:18","date_gmt":"2007-09-01T04:31:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2007\/09\/01\/sex_tips_and_tricks_flirting_with_your_lover\/"},"modified":"2007-09-01T00:31:18","modified_gmt":"2007-09-01T04:31:18","slug":"sex_tips_and_tricks_flirting_with_your_lover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2007\/09\/sex_tips_and_tricks_flirting_with_your_lover\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips & Tricks: Flirting with Your Lover"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve written before about The Art of Flirting<\/a>, but how do you flirt with your own sweetheart?<\/p>\n

You might wonder, why bother flirting with your own lover? Isn\u2019t flirting only for strangers?<\/p>\n

No way! Flirting leads to dirty talk<\/a>, which leads to steamy, passionate sex.<\/p>\n

Plus, flirting with your sweetie\u2014especially if you\u2019ve been together a long time\u2014shows her how much you love and respect her, you think she\u2019s sexy<\/strong> and you want her more than anybody else.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t vary your usual behavior too much at first. If you\u2019re a gruff, \u201cdon\u2019t bug me\u201d type of person when you get home from work, suddenly acting the Casanova when you pop in the door will arouse her suspicions.<\/p>\n

Instead, start simple. Get out of the house. Take her out for a drink or dinner. Make sure the place has a warm, romantic atmosphere<\/strong>. <\/p>\n

Dress nice. If you\u2019re a studly butch, wear a jacket. If you\u2019re a naturally flirty femme, show a little cleavage. Turn on your charm<\/strong>. Remember when you and she were just dating? Sure, you know all her flaws now, but you\u2019re going to forget them completely.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ogle the other girls in the room or put your money down for the next round at the pool table. Pay attention to her, give her a sexy smile<\/strong>, touch her, listen to her.<\/p>\n

When the time is right\u2014and you\u2019ll know it is when dinner\u2019s over, you\u2019re sharing a creamy dessert or you\u2019re walking home\u2014start murmuring dirty tidbits. \u201cI love you\u201d can take you to \u201cI want you more than anything in the whole world\u201d and \u201cYou know I\u2019m a slut at heart, don\u2019t you?\u201d<\/p>\n

Undress each other and keep talking. Let the dirty talk escalate until you\u2019re slammed against the wall, or lying on the bed, or sprawled across the floor in each others\u2019 arms. Don\u2019t stop talking, because that\u2019s where the flirting was meant to take you. Loving your sweetie<\/strong> means finding all the nooks and crannies of passion. So just do it.<\/p>\n

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To learn how to take flirting to new heights, check out Shar Rednour in Talk to Me Baby<\/em>.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve written before about The Art of Flirting, but how do you flirt with your own sweetheart? You might wonder, why bother flirting with your own lover? Isn\u2019t flirting only for strangers? No way! Flirting leads to dirty talk, which leads to steamy, passionate sex. Plus, flirting with your sweetie\u2014especially if you\u2019ve been together a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}