{"id":293,"date":"2009-02-17T00:01:51","date_gmt":"2009-02-17T07:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=293"},"modified":"2009-02-13T11:57:41","modified_gmt":"2009-02-13T18:57:41","slug":"ask-fanny-obsessed-with-the-idea-of-female-squirting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/02\/ask-fanny-obsessed-with-the-idea-of-female-squirting\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Obsessed with the Idea of Female Squirting"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Deborah<\/a>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.<\/p>\n

Dear Fanny,
\nI am asking for your advice on where we go from here. My girlfriend and I have been obsessed with the idea of female squirting<\/strong>. We have watched the DVD Liquid Love<\/em> and have purchased other information talking about the art of the female orgasm<\/strong>. We have since purchased your DVD How to Female Ejaculate<\/a> with the hope that it will provide additional insight.<\/p>\n

Everything that we have read all indicates that every woman can achieve this type of orgasm<\/strong>. First, is that true or not? Second, if everyone can achieve this sensation, then why don\u2019t more people talk about it? <\/strong><\/p>\n

My girlfriend has a friend who can do this and at first she was ashamed<\/strong>. She thought that there was something abnormal<\/strong> about her and felt uncomfortable addressing the issue until we talked to her about it. She now talks to us openly about it<\/strong> and in a way we have made her feel better about herself and more comfortable with it when it does happen.<\/p>\n

We, however, are still chasing a beat that we can\u2019t catch. What can we do<\/em>?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We live in North Carolina and are wondering if you knew anyone in or close to this area who can coach us through it<\/strong>, through counseling or any other form of instructional therapy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

We have a wonderful relationship and a great sex life<\/strong>, and we know this is not a deal breaker. Everything that we have read, however, indicates that this is the complete orgasm for a woman<\/strong>. Being her lover, and the joy that she brings me, I want to do whatever I can do. Believe me, I am not complaining but female ejaculation has to be the icon of taking it to the next level<\/strong>. Any advice or help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.<\/p>\n

Thank you.<\/p>\n

Regards,<\/p>\n

Alan from North Carolina<\/p>\n

Dear Alan,
\nAll women can ejaculate<\/strong>, because all women have the anatomy to do so; that is, the female prostate<\/strong>, which is what the G-spot is. Most people still don’t know about female ejaculation because the culture has been certain that it does not exist, or has mistaken it for urine.<\/p>\n

We have been told by the medical profession that the female prostate, the G-spot<\/strong>, is vestigial, dried up and nonfunctioning. Well, it is alive and fully functioning<\/strong> and overflowing with that lovely feminine fountain<\/strong> that is female ejaculation!<\/p>\n

Correct information goes a long way in getting this charming delight working again. I am an expert on the subject and make it very accessible for women and their partners to understand and to achieve. My book<\/a> and videos will help you a lot toward that goal.<\/p>\n

There are no teachers that I would recommend in your area. Sex education and places to hold such informational workshops are still only available primarily in the Northeast and on the West Coast. I am holding a workshop for couples<\/strong> in Santa Fe, New Mexico, over Labor Day Weekend, September 5-7, 2009. Find out more here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And I am available by telephone for coaching<\/strong>. Usually, great progress can be made with one phone call.<\/p>\n

This unique and special joy awaits you<\/strong>, don’t despair. But pressure to perform<\/strong> will shut it down, so please enjoy your relationship<\/strong> and what you do have.<\/p>\n

Fanny<\/p>\n

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Do you have a question for Ask Fanny? Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com<\/a><\/p>\n

Find out more about Deborah Sundahl\u2019s How to Female Ejaculate<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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