{"id":3000,"date":"2012-09-21T08:05:11","date_gmt":"2012-09-21T14:05:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=3000"},"modified":"2012-09-21T07:40:29","modified_gmt":"2012-09-21T13:40:29","slug":"sex-tips-how-to-introduce-kink","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/sex-tips-how-to-introduce-kink\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips: How to Introduce Kink"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whether you\u2019ve been together for decades or just hooking up, introducing kink<\/strong> to your relationship shouldn\u2019t be embarrassing or difficult. We recommend going slow<\/strong>, and depending on how serious you are, it may involve some lessons.<\/p>\n

Lesson #1<\/strong>. Put away 50 Shades of Grey<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Assuming kink hasn\u2019t been in your sex life from the beginning, adding kinky sex to your arsenal can spark a relationship<\/strong> and ensure you\u2019re never bored. Lesbian bed death?<\/strong> No way!<\/p>\n

\"Crash<\/a><\/p>\n

Do you know what you want? Perhaps you\u2019ve seen pictures or videos of lovers tying each other up<\/a> or you like the idea of spanking<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t know what you want, take some time to look around the Web<\/a> and watch videos<\/a>. No question, we always recommend watching porn<\/a>!<\/p>\n

\"Madison<\/a><\/strong>Lesson #2. Express yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are myriad ways to tell your sweetie you want to kink it up in bed<\/strong>. Here are two that work: 1) Just do it<\/strong> while you’re making love. Spank her lightly. Pull out that new whip<\/strong> you just bought and tap her bum. Wear the latex brassiere. Start sucking her toes. Act out your fetish<\/strong> and see what her reaction is. 2) Ask her<\/strong>, whether or not you’re in bed.<\/p>\n

Lesson #3<\/strong>.\u00a0Take your kink out of the bedroom. Are you pierced<\/strong>? Take it up a notch and wear a heavier ring to work. Try wearing nipple clamps<\/strong> to a party. Corsets<\/strong> are nice under work clothes too.<\/p>\n

Lesson #4<\/strong>. Less is more. Play safe<\/strong>. If you’re unsure of what you’re doing, stop.<\/p>\n

Lesson #5<\/strong>. Enjoy the ride<\/strong>. Listen to your body, love yourself and your partner.<\/p>\n

\"The<\/a>And if you want to read a book\u00a0to get that pussy wet<\/strong>, try The Marketplace <\/em>by Laura Antoniou<\/a><\/strong>. There\u00a0may be\u00a0lots of other places to start, but this one is the<\/em> classic BDSM novel, and our favorite<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

It’s the first in a trilogy, and there are links to read the first chapters, get books, e-books and more at Laura’s blog<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Whether you\u2019ve been together for decades or just hooking up, introducing kink to your relationship shouldn\u2019t be embarrassing or difficult. We recommend going slow, and depending on how serious you are, it may involve some lessons. Lesson #1. Put away 50 Shades of Grey. Assuming kink hasn\u2019t been in your sex life from the beginning, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8,15,6,10,35],"tags":[391,156,400,556,140,139,551,399],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3000"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3000"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3000\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3036,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3000\/revisions\/3036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}