{"id":3048,"date":"2012-10-02T14:50:08","date_gmt":"2012-10-02T20:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=3048"},"modified":"2012-10-02T14:50:08","modified_gmt":"2012-10-02T20:50:08","slug":"7-tips-for-how-to-talk-to-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2012\/10\/7-tips-for-how-to-talk-to-her\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tips for How to Talk to Her"},"content":{"rendered":"

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When it comes right down to talking, and talking sexy<\/a><\/strong>, to a potential new girlfriend, try these seven tips:<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0Think flirting<\/strong>. Don\u2019t push the \u201cI\u2019m so sexy\u201d persona unless you want to risk turning her off. Keep it light.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0Ask about her<\/strong>, then listen. What does she like to do when she goes out? What\u2019s the sexiest party she ever went to? When you get to know her better, ask her if she\u2019s ever thought about role-playing, or if she likes to talk dirty in bed.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0Eavesdrop<\/strong>, then pick up on her conversations. If you overhear her talking to her girlfriends or other friends (and this applies to her Facebook and Twitter postings too, for assessing her interests), pick up on what she\u2019s saying, and how she\u2019s saying it. Is she cooing away about a new pair of high heels? You know enough to ask which new style she likes best.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0Timing<\/strong> makes a difference. You can eavesdrop, but don\u2019t bust in on her conversations. Wait till there\u2019s an opening, then talk to her.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0Don\u2019t ignore her friends<\/strong>. If you\u2019re in a public or even semi-private place, include her friends in the conversation. Even if you\u2019ve only got eyes for her, how you treat her friends reflects on your character.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0Tongue-tied?<\/strong> Admit it. Say, \u201cI\u2019m usually kind of shy,\u201d then ask to buy her a drink or coffee. As long as your timing is good, most people won\u2019t say no.<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0Want to talk dirty<\/a>?<\/strong> Tell her she\u2019s sexy, and tell her exactly what you want to do with her once you\u2019re in bed.<\/p>\n

There are lots of ways to talk to women<\/strong>, and to engage them socially. Getting up the nerve is the hard part. Talking comes naturally once you relax<\/strong>. Flirting with her opens you up to talking dirty in bed and on the phone.<\/p>\n

We owe a nod of thanks to Nick Savoy\u2019s Love Systems<\/a> for ideas that informed this article.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Read more about Talk to Me Baby<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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When it comes right down to talking, and talking sexy, to a potential new girlfriend, try these seven tips: 1.\u00a0Think flirting. Don\u2019t push the \u201cI\u2019m so sexy\u201d persona unless you want to risk turning her off. Keep it light. 2.\u00a0Ask about her, then listen. What does she like to do when she goes out? What\u2019s […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14,15,10],"tags":[401,402,198,22,551,55,199],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3048"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3048"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3048\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3082,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3048\/revisions\/3082"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3048"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3048"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3048"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}