{"id":3242,"date":"2012-12-14T07:14:30","date_gmt":"2012-12-14T13:14:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=3242"},"modified":"2012-12-11T12:39:19","modified_gmt":"2012-12-11T18:39:19","slug":"sex-tips-how-to-play-with-wax","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/sex-tips-how-to-play-with-wax\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips: How to Play with Wax"},"content":{"rendered":"

Wintertime is the perfect time to sit by the fire and play footsie, or dine by candlelight on a cold night. If you\u2019re like us and light candles every night\u2014for dinner, or just because it looks nice and feels romantic\u2014then maybe you\u2019ve thought of playing with candle wax.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The main thing to remember if you want to explore what candle wax feels like on bare flesh is that the higher up you hold the candle, the cooler the wax will be<\/strong> when it touches skin.<\/p>\n

Use plain unscented tapers<\/strong>, not pillars or votives.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s best to begin by having your lover lie on her belly, then hold the candle high above her hips or butt, the fleshy places<\/strong> on her are best<\/strong>. And it\u2019s best to save the upper thighs for later, after she\u2019s gotten used to the sensation of the hot wax dripping.<\/p>\n

Go slow<\/strong>, one drip at a time, and talk to her about how it feels. You can also test it out on yourself first too, on your forearm or on your thigh above your knee. If you drip wax on a hairy part of her body, know that the hair will rip out (and probably hurt) when you later remove the wax.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the bottom and want to \u201cget waxed,\u201d remember to breathe deep and talk to your lover. If the first drop or two are too hot, say so. Relax your butt<\/strong>, too, and really allow the sensations\u2014like pinpricks at first\u2014to penetrate.<\/p>\n

As you get more adventurous, try dripping wax on her breasts<\/strong>, down her belly and around her upper thighs. We don\u2019t recommend wax play directly on her clitoris unless you\u2019re well advanced in the art.<\/p>\n

Add a blindfold<\/strong> to the erotic play and you can really have fun!<\/p>\n

\"The<\/a>For a delicious hot-wax sex scene, very advanced and not for the faint-hearted, check out Maria Beatty’s The Black Glove<\/em><\/a>, sold on DVD with\u00a0The Elegant Spanking<\/em> as Fetish Films Volume I<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n

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(This post is drawn from the Fatale Newsletter archives andwas originally published in Fatale’s newsletter.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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