{"id":347,"date":"2009-03-16T00:01:31","date_gmt":"2009-03-16T07:01:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=347"},"modified":"2009-03-13T15:21:12","modified_gmt":"2009-03-13T22:21:12","slug":"sex-tips-how-to-ask-for-anal-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/03\/sex-tips-how-to-ask-for-anal-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips: How to Ask for Anal Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn&#8217;t have to hurt! <strong>It shouldn&#8217;t hurt<\/strong>. That is the #1 reassurance you need to give your partner if there is even a hint of fear.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Carol Queen<\/strong>, in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html\">Bend Over Boyfriend<\/a>, emphasizes talking about anal sex before you do it. One way to bring up the subject is to <strong>talk about your fantasies <\/strong>with your partner, preferably while you\u2019re fully dressed, but after making love is a good time too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s hard to talk first. Reader Gaye from New York City writes to suggest <strong>rolling over on to your belly<\/strong> while making love, then <strong>sticking your ass up in the air<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Later on, say to your lover, \u201cI really liked it when you touched my ass.\u201d See what your partner&#8217;s reaction is, and use that as a basis for later conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, a customer called to say that he\u2019d heard about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html\">Bend Over Boyfriend<\/a> because a friend of his wanted him to \u201ctry it, and be open to it.\u201d She told him to <strong>watch the DVD<\/strong> and then they\u2019d talk about it. Good idea, we told him.<\/p>\n<p>Another idea is to <strong>write a love letter<\/strong> to your honey, and just say, \u201cI want it!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html\"><img class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-183\" title=\"Bend Over Boyfriend\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/bend_over_boyfriend_88w.jpg\" alt=\"Bend Over Boyfriend\" \/><\/a>Find out more about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html\">Bend Over Boyfriend<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend2.html\">Bend Over Boyfriend 2<\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn&#8217;t have to hurt! It shouldn&#8217;t hurt. That is the #1 reassurance you need to give your partner if there is even a hint of fear. Carol Queen, in Bend Over Boyfriend, emphasizes talking about anal sex before you do it. One way to bring up the subject is to talk about your fantasies [&hellip;]<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,8,10],"tags":[552,551],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=347"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":350,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347\/revisions\/350"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=347"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=347"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=347"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}