{"id":4211,"date":"2014-07-16T13:28:58","date_gmt":"2014-07-16T19:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=4211"},"modified":"2014-07-16T13:28:58","modified_gmt":"2014-07-16T19:28:58","slug":"ask-fanny-workshop-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/ask-fanny-workshop-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Workshop Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_the_workshop.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-215\" alt=\"Deborah Sundahl G-spot Expert\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/deb_at_ces_2_opt1-225x300.jpg\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/deb_at_ces_2_opt1-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/deb_at_ces_2_opt1.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Deborah,<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m curious to attend a workshop on female ejaculation, but what is it like? I&#8217;m wondering if it\u2019s uncomfortable to be in a group and try to find your G-spot. <strong>Do I have to take off my clothes?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Signed, Not Really Sure<\/p>\n<p>Dear Not Really Sure,<\/p>\n<p>There are <strong>four reasons<\/strong> why some people have reservations about attending a workshop:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You may be <strong>too shy<\/strong> to be in a group and discuss your private sexuality<\/li>\n<li>Perhaps you can&#8217;t imagine trying to look at your private parts with other people around \uf09f<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re afraid other women are going to touch you, or solicit you in a situation where you already feel vulnerable and are more likely to succumb to peer pressure, or group ostracism \uf09f<\/li>\n<li>You worry you might be made to do something you don&#8217;t want to do.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are pretty scary reasons to not go to a workshop. But this is what really takes place at a workshop:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You get to <strong>hear the stories<\/strong> of other women, often finding inspiration or validation for your own situation \uf09f<\/li>\n<li>You get a chance to see other women\u2019s pubic areas, and often their G- spots, and this education goes a very long way in understanding your own body. (<strong>No one will touch you<\/strong>; only you touch yourself.) \uf09f<\/li>\n<li>You get a chance to be in a room with women who all have the same goal: discovery of and improving upon their <strong>sexual knowledge<\/strong> and fulfillment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Rather than a workshop being a place to get hit on without consent, it is just the opposite. <strong>Privacy is paramount<\/strong> and respect for individual boundaries <strong>Rule Number One<\/strong>. You wear a sarong and all women have their private space within the group space; this boundary is first and foremost respected.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rule Number Two<\/strong> is that women do only what they feel comfortable doing.<\/p>\n<p>For example, <strong>you wear a sarong<\/strong>, the room is kept comfortably warm and you can bring your own toys or not. The goal is to experience and learn in a congenial, safe atmosphere.<\/p>\n<p>With the rules in place, most women feel extremely comfortable after a few hours and get swept up in the excitement of discovery with women who, just like them, are nervous and excited.<\/p>\n<p>Deborah Sundahl<\/p>\n<p>Send your questions to <a href=\"mailto:askfanny@fatalemedia.com\">askfanny@fatalemedia.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Be sure to check out Deborah\u2019s DVD, <a title=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_the_workshop.html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/female_ejaculation_the_workshop.html\" target=\"_blank\">Female Ejaculation: The Workshop<\/a>, to see a workshop in action.<\/p>\n<p>Originally published\u00a0as &#8220;Ask Fanny: What Happens at a Workshop?&#8221; this encore column addresses what to expect from a female ejaculation and G-spot workshop.\u00a0<a title=\"http:\/\/isismedia.org\/workshops\/\" href=\"http:\/\/isismedia.org\/workshops\/\" target=\"_blank\">Check out\u00a0all of Deborah&#8217;s forthcoming webinars and workshops<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. 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