{"id":4217,"date":"2014-07-18T07:25:00","date_gmt":"2014-07-18T13:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=4217"},"modified":"2014-07-17T17:39:53","modified_gmt":"2014-07-17T23:39:53","slug":"ask-fanny-how-to-discover-your-g-spot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2014\/07\/ask-fanny-how-to-discover-your-g-spot\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: How to Discover Your G-Spot"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Deborah<\/a>G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl<\/strong>, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.<\/p>\n

Dear Deborah,<\/p>\n

I’d like to learn more about female ejaculation, but I’m not sure how to start<\/strong>. Should I try to find my own G-spot first, before talking to my partner?<\/p>\n

Baffled in Baton Rouge<\/p>\n

Dear Baffled,<\/p>\n

The best way to begin to discover your own G-spot<\/strong> is to treat this important excursion as a relaxing hour of self-care.<\/p>\n

\"Cleopatre\"As we all know by now, that means: uninterrupted quiet time<\/strong> where you have treated yourself to a long bath, candles, music and other things you truly like and want to partake in that you know relax you.<\/p>\n

Then, use lubricant<\/strong> (olive oil works just fine if you don’t have anything else; if Cleopatra<\/strong> used it, you can, too!).<\/p>\n

Before proceeding any further, do 12 rounds (in and out) of slow, deep breathing<\/strong>, filling your lungs completely and exhaling completely.<\/p>\n

Next, place your finger at the entrance to your vagina and keep it there with very gentle insistence<\/strong>, waiting until your vagina practically scoops your finger inside. Continue to relax and breathe deeply. Don’t push yourself in and don’t push yourself deep. Stay just inside the opening an inch or two, that’s all.<\/p>\n

Turn the pad of your finger toward the roof of your vagina. Breathe and relax. Then, millimeter by millimeter, explore all the crevices and folds<\/strong>, caves and ridges of your G-spot. Yes, that’s it.\u00a0 Right there!<\/p>\n

But if you don’t approach it in this relaxed and loving manner, you can breeze right by it. Not because it is small, but because we are too busy, in this culture, looking for the Big Prize<\/strong>. It is indeed a Big Prize, but it is wrapped in delicate paper at first, and sometimes we can think we don’t feel anything, or that it hurts, or that it should send us off the planet in instant exquisite pleasure.<\/p>\n

Remember, breathe and relax and notice what you feel.<\/p>\n

Once you have explored your G-spot once or twice, invite your partner<\/strong> to explore with you. In this way, you will have a new sexual frontier<\/strong> to explore together.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019d like more information, the revised, second edition<\/strong> of my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot<\/a>, is now out and available for sale at Fatale Media<\/a>. I hope you like it.<\/p>\n

Best wishes,<\/p>\n

Deborah Sundahl<\/p>\n

P.S. Here are Deborah\u2019s upcoming workshops<\/a> and webinars<\/a>\u00a0about female ejaculation and the G-spot:<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0\u201cTalk for Men: Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot<\/a>\u201d is a 2-hour evening webinar<\/strong> that runs the first Tuesday of each month. The next \u201cTalk for Men\u201d is Tuesday, August 5, 2014 at 9:00 p.m. EDT. Click here for more information<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0Deborah\u2019s next live \u201cWeekend Workshop for Women<\/a>\u201d\u00a0will be held in Muenster, Germany<\/strong>, October 10 – 12 , 2014.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe workshop was a precious experience of deep intimacy with myself<\/strong>. Beside meeting beautiful and curious women (and having a lot of fun), the group’s experience allowed me to let go, in a trusting atmosphere, supported by the other women’s experiences and energy.\u201d – Maeva, Grenoble, France<\/p>\n

Click here to learn more and read other testimonials<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022\u00a0Want to learn what happens in an in-person female ejaculation workshop? Read \u201cWorkshop Etiquette<\/a>\u201d by Deborah Sundahl.<\/p>\n

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