{"id":4334,"date":"2014-11-07T07:45:53","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T13:45:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=4334"},"modified":"2014-11-06T12:22:31","modified_gmt":"2014-11-06T18:22:31","slug":"ask-fanny-confused","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2014\/11\/ask-fanny-confused\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Fanny: Confused"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-4337\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/d_sundahl_bw_150w.jpg\" alt=\"d_sundahl_bw_150w\" width=\"150\" height=\"218\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/d_sundahl_bw_150w.jpg 150w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/d_sundahl_bw_150w-103x150.jpg 103w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>G-spot expert and author Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Fanny,<\/p>\n<p>I read your book <a title=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/books\/female_ejaculation_gspot.html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/books\/female_ejaculation_gspot.html\" target=\"_blank\">Female Ejaculation &amp; the G-Spot<\/a> (btw&#8230;<strong>great book<\/strong>!).<\/p>\n<p>So this morning I tried<strong> ejaculating without an orgasm<\/strong> (I&#8217;ve never had an orgasm&#8230;but that&#8217;s a different topic).<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s where <strong>I&#8217;m confused<\/strong>. I&#8217;m not sure if I had FE or not. I think I did based on what you described the fluid to look like and smell like (clear &amp; not an acidic smell) in the book but after I think I had a FE, I didn&#8217;t have to urinate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do women always urinate after they had a FE?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Also, I didn&#8217;t feel an overwhelming feeling of success or euphoria&#8230;I was confused with myself. Is this a normal reaction?<\/p>\n<p>Any insights would be greatly appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>Confused in Spokane, Washington<br \/>\n. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .<br \/>\nDear Confused,<\/p>\n<p>Congratulations! You had <strong>your first ejaculation<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t always have to urinate after having an ejaculation.<\/p>\n<p>Any kind of reaction is normal, because each woman has <strong>her own unique response<\/strong>. If your confusion bothered you, then ask: why were you confused with yourself?<\/p>\n<p>You haven&#8217;t had an orgasm yet; therefore, are you going to move farther into the book and try to have a G-spot orgasm? I suspect you experienced confusion because you were stimulating your G-spot, and this is <strong>an emotional orgasm<\/strong>. Sometimes the emotions are unpleasant, especially if women have \u201cissues\u201d with their sexuality, present or past. Confusion is a good way to cover up deeper emotions\/feelings.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d say the most important task for you now is to attempt to have an orgasm. Make sure you read the chapter on the <strong>G-spot massage<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Please let me know your progress.<\/p>\n<p>Deborah<\/p>\n<p>P.S. 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