G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.<\/p>\n
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Dear Fanny,<\/p>\n
Since I turned 30 I’ve ejaculated a lot–maybe my previous girlfriends didn’t quite know how to reach my G-Spot–but sometimes it just doesn’t happen<\/strong> even when I masturbate. Is it possible female ejaculation is related to my cycle? When I can’t ejaculate it’s usually around my period.<\/p>\n Thank you for your good work!<\/p>\n A fan<\/p>\n . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .<\/p>\n Dear Fan,<\/p>\n Female ejaculation doesn’t always happen for various reasons. A menstrual cycle could be one reason, but usually female ejaculation is mostly plentiful<\/strong> around the time of a woman’s period. It could be you unconsciously hold back during your period due to too much fluid being released from your body.<\/p>\n Another is the physical position women are lying in. Notice what position you are in when you do and don’t ejaculate. Another reason could be the sex toy or fingers<\/strong>… notice if you ejaculate when they are out of your vagina and if you don’t ejaculate when they are in your vagina.<\/p>\n Female ejaculate flows most easily when there is no expectation.<\/p>\n Rarely does any woman ejaculate all the time. I suggest letting go of having to ejaculate. We don’t want to put any kind of performance pressure on something that is inherently\u2014at its source\u2014an expression of love and joy<\/strong>. Better to spend the time self-pleasuring as a chance to love yourself<\/strong>, and let nature take its course.<\/p>\n Fanny<\/p>\n . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .<\/p>\n