{"id":72,"date":"2008-02-29T13:30:46","date_gmt":"2008-02-29T17:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/29\/sex-tips-tricks-how-to-strap-on-2\/"},"modified":"2008-02-29T13:30:46","modified_gmt":"2008-02-29T17:30:46","slug":"sex-tips-tricks-how-to-strap-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/sex-tips-tricks-how-to-strap-on\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips & Tricks: How to Strap On"},"content":{"rendered":"

We received an interesting letter from a reader who asked, “I have a question about strapons. Is it possible for a woman to wear a strapon underneath her pants or jeans<\/strong>, as long as they’re not too tight? I’ve seen pics of boyshorts<\/strong> for women at Victoria’s Secret that might enable a woman to wear a strapon. But I wanted to know for sure. Could a strapon fit into a woman’s underwear and pants? Would it depend on the size of each item?”<\/p>\n

Carol Queen does a great job showing women how to strap it on in Bend Over Boyfriend<\/a>, and lesbians have many, many role models in lesbian DVDs.<\/p>\n

Here are some more strap-on tips:<\/p>\n

— Buy a strapon that fits<\/strong> you. If you’re lucky enough to live in a city with a sex-toy store, go there and try on the harness in the dressing room…over your underwear. If you don’t live near a store where you can shop in person, go to a reputable Web site, look around and be sure to check their returns policy. Check out Toys in Babeland’s “How to Choose a Harness” page here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

— If you intend to wear it under jeans or pants, make sure the pants are big enough<\/strong> and have enough give in the butt so that you don’t get the equivalent of panty lines…in this case, strap-on lines.<\/p>\n

— You can wear a strapon underneath or over your underwear<\/strong>, but we don’t recommend wearing a strapon with a thong or g-string because the straps can get caught in the thin fabric.<\/p>\n

— Strap it on tight! <\/strong> This is important. The strapon needs to sit flat against your skin or underwear.<\/p>\n

— If you’re packing<\/strong>–wearing the strapon with a hard or soft dildo–pick a dildo that’s small enough so that your jeans or pants don’t feel too tight. You want to consider if you’re going out in public<\/strong> too. Do you want everyone to see a long hard schlong down your leg? Or don’t you care? As long as you can walk comfortably, suit yourself.<\/p>\n

— If you’re packing underneath a pair of underwear, consider wearing boxer shorts or men’s underwear<\/strong>, which has a place for you to pull out your piece and display it. If and when you’re ready, that is.<\/p>\n

— Some women like something inside them while wearing a strapon, but in our experience, this is the exception. Those internal muscles are necessary for making love to your partner. Enjoy the clitoral stimulation<\/strong>, and the sheer excitement of sex with a strapon–pleasing your partner.<\/p>\n

— Experiment! <\/strong> Most women have more than one harness and use them for different purposes, and to suit their moods. Two-strap harnesses give flexibility, but you might want to try a one-strap harness. You might have a favorite dildo for a girlfriend and another one for packing and hot dates at the local bar.<\/p>\n

To see how several different couples make love with strapons, check out Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We received an interesting letter from a reader who asked, “I have a question about strapons. Is it possible for a woman to wear a strapon underneath her pants or jeans, as long as they’re not too tight? I’ve seen pics of boyshorts for women at Victoria’s Secret that might enable a woman to wear […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,14,10],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=72"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=72"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=72"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=72"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}