{"id":834,"date":"2009-08-28T06:30:16","date_gmt":"2009-08-28T13:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/?p=834"},"modified":"2009-08-28T10:22:56","modified_gmt":"2009-08-28T17:22:56","slug":"sex-tips-back-door-positions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/sex-tips-back-door-positions\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex Tips: Back-Door Positions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a lazy late-summer day, so we thought we\u2019d bring back a classic Sex Tips column that originally appeared in the March 2007 issue of the newsletter. It\u2019s as relevant today as it was then <strong>for anyone who likes anal pleasure.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Back-Door Positions<\/strong><br \/>\nAnal sex isn\u2019t as complicated as it might seem when you\u2019ve never tried it, but <strong>discovering the pleasures of anal sex<\/strong> is an unexcelled delight.<\/p>\n<p>For women who like to take it, there\u2019s nothing quite like the feeling of fingers inside and another finger poking in the back door. It\u2019s also an utter turn-on for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/how_to_female_ejaculate.html \">stimulating the G-spot<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For those who like it with a dildo, there are three main positions that come in handiest when you\u2019re in the mood.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Missionary position<\/strong>: Anal sex in the missionary position (one of you lying on your back, the one with the dildo facedown on top) takes lifting your legs higher in the air, and some strategic kneeling if you\u2019re on top. Put a pillow under your butt. This helps raise your pelvis and provide a \u201cgood opening\u201d for that anal dildo.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend2.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-838\" title=\"Bend Over Boyfriend 2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/08\/bob2_pic02-113x150.jpg\" alt=\"bob2_pic02\" width=\"113\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/08\/bob2_pic02-113x150.jpg 113w, http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/08\/bob2_pic02.jpg 153w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 113px) 100vw, 113px\" \/><\/a>Doggie-style<\/strong>: This position is the easiest for first-timers. That butt is right in front of you and you can stand up while your partner leans over the edge of a bed, couch, chair&#8230;or even the kitchen table! Try it. If you\u2019re the bottom and trying this for the first time, spread your arms out and grab hold of whatever you can find. And relax! This is the easiest entry for mind-blowing fun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sitting up and facing backwards<\/strong>: This position doesn\u2019t really have a name. We used to think of it as \u201cgirl on top,\u201d but really if you\u2019re the one who\u2019ll be getting it, you\u2019ll be facing away from your partner, not facing each other. We think this works best if you\u2019re using a butt plug or dildo\u2014they have good smaller ones for this type of activity\u2014but it\u2019s great for a finger or two, too.<\/p>\n<p>Gay guys no doubt have a zillion more positions to enjoy this most enjoyable sex act, but these three are, in our opinion, good for starting out.<\/p>\n<p>And remember the three bending over \u201cbare necessities\u201d whether you\u2019re on the top or the bottom:<br \/>\n1. A condom or latex glove<br \/>\n2. Lots and lots and lots of water-based lube<br \/>\n3. Relax and talk to each other<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html\"><img class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-183\" title=\"Bend Over Boyfriend\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/bend_over_boyfriend_88w.jpg\" alt=\"Bend Over Boyfriend\" \/><\/a>To learn more about anal pleasure, check out <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fatalemedia.com\/videos\/bend_over_boyfriend.html \">Bend Over Boyfriend<\/a>.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a lazy late-summer day, so we thought we\u2019d bring back a classic Sex Tips column that originally appeared in the March 2007 issue of the newsletter. It\u2019s as relevant today as it was then for anyone who likes anal pleasure. 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