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Never tried anal with anything bigger than your pinkie?

If you’ve never tried anal with your girlfriend, be reminded of the cardinal rule of anal and women: You can go from her vagina to her butt, but never go from her butt to her vagina. You can change condoms on a dildo, or change the glove on your hand, but when it comes to bare fingers, you must wash your hands!

Lube lube lube! Don’t forget it. Her wetness is not enough to handle a dry butt.

Start with a finger—wear a glove—if you’ve never tried it. Work your way up to a small dildo, sometimes called a butt plug. You may have to experiment to find the most comfortable position for her and for you.

When you’re ready for explosive sensations, try a slightly larger dildo. Remember the lube because you can tear the sensitive skin around the anus without a lot of lube.

Lube her up, go slow and ease the dildo inside her butt. Play with her clit, if she likes that, and try a finger or two or three inside her pussy too.

Talk to each other. If she doesn’t like the sensations, stop and gradually ease back out. Next time, if she agrees, go back to the smaller butt plugs or your (gloved) finger.

Remember, change that condom or glove before you go back inside her pussy.