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Fatale Media Newsletter January 2004
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Happy New Year!
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Dear Friend,
Sometimes, in the middle of winter, it's hard to feel sexy when flannel pajamas and a cup of cocoa beckon. It's been cold here in the American Southwest, up in the mountains where we live. Some snow, the distinct smell of piñon pine burning in neighbors' fireplaces.
Then again, cold winter nights can also inspire the imagination. It was Christi's birthday this last month, on the 14th, and when she returned from a shopping jaunt in New York City, Nan wined and dined her in her favorite local restaurant, then brought her home for chocolate mousse cake and a surprise present:
Real silk panties, one pair pink and one black. Suddenly, feeling sexy underneath all those heavy clothes was real. Romance came calling.
And while thongs are great for summertime, there's something about the whipped-cream-like brush of the silk all across your backside that makes it the perfect wintertime come-on, the perfect prelude for a long, slow evening in bed.
Stay warm.
Happy New Year!
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In "Ask Fanny," an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Dear Fanny,
Yesterday morning I was surprised to feel a warm fluid coming from my vagina... I am in my first year of menopause and thought I had begun menstruation. I was shocked to find a clear mucous-like fluid flowing out in copious amounts. This was not a sexual moment. No signs of infection--I am healthy and have wonderful orgasms but with no sacred fluid. Have attended a tantric retreat for women and loved that--always wanted to find this fluid--what do you think? Can this fluid be spontaneous outside of a sexual situation?
Many thanks and blessings to you,
Beth
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Dear Beth,
Few people know that ejaculate is constantly emitted from the G-spot (female prostate). The glands and ducts of the prostate continually create and expel tiny amounts of ejaculate. Any kind of movement, from walking to athletic activity, even urination, helps to expel the ejaculate. Normally, these amounts are so small, we don't notice it.
But occasionally, women expel greater amounts of ejaculate without sexual activity, just as a woman may be wet enough vaginally to drip vaginal juices without sexual arousal. In addition, I have heard many stories of women attending Tantra retreats who ejaculate for the first time, and very easily, afterwards.
However, ejaculate is clear and not mucousy. Therefore, in your case, I suspect that your emotional experience at the Tantra retreat, combined with your menopausal hormonal fluctuations, caused ejaculate to mix with vaginal lubrication to create that wonderful gush.
Isn't it nice that this happened during a time in your life when we hear so much about a woman becoming "dried up" and waning in her sexual physical abilities? You are flowing the goddess's own fountain in your mid age! Congratulations! You must be living (and loving) right!
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
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