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Fatale Media Newsletter October 2004 |
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In This Issue:
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What You Want
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Dear Friend,
Last month, we discussed that age-old question: What do women want?
Well, you told us! We just knew that our readers—you, dear reader—are an independent, opinionated group. It’s heartening, especially when sometimes it seems nobody wants to talk about sex. Not you! You wanna talk.
Dawn in Florida wrote:
“To answer the question of what I would like to see in that specific genre of videos, would be just realistic romantic, story plot sex. Bodies rubbing, lips kissing, fingers probing, etc., all built around a very good story line like perhaps the kind of daydream you have when just catching sight of a beautiful woman who crosses your path in life, and your mind just goes off into space thinking about how your lives can intertwine and all the great things sexually you both could do together, or perhaps what she may be able to teach you!!
“I have many different types of porn in my collection, and what they have on the Spice Channel is very soft in comparison. I don't even purchase PlayGirl because I could stand on the corner or go to the beach in Miami and get those sightings for free. I would like to see real story lines, real people & REAL SEX that is going to stimulate me to try whatever they are doing, ya know?
“Well, that’s what I think.... I hope it helps! You both take care and happy free love!!”
Here is an excerpt from a long, fascinating letter from Karen in England:
“One of the most incomprehensible things about videos is that whilst it’s okay to show women doing all kinds of things to other women, e.g., fingering and fisting, 69, strap-on, etc. (Fatale’s videos), indeed women to men (your BOB video), and men to women and men to men (gay videos), any video showing a woman massaging another woman invariably shows not only straight massage but also ‘proper’ massage, i.e., the woman’s interesting areas are covered all the time with towels (towel etiquette, they call it!). The masseuse’s hands never even approach those areas, let alone massage them....
“I’m sure that [there] is a crying need for a massage video that goes beyond this: one that at the very least shows the women having the massage totally naked and not covered in any way....The woman being massaged, once aroused, could even respond ‘in kind.’ As long as it’s a ‘Fatale’ massage, I feel that this video will sell like hotcakes!”
And a friend in Ireland, with whom we’ve been corresponding and who asked that we not use her name, wrote this, which we think speaks for all of us:
“I like a production to have such intensity that every viewer who sees it will have an orgasm whether watching it alone or with a friend.”
Thank you. As we move forward into the 2005 production season, we are taking your suggestions very seriously. Your opinion matters.
Just a reminder: December 1st is the deadline for Fatale’s Real Lesbian Sex contest.
Please keep writing and e-mailing with your suggestions and ideas and what you like.
Yours in good sex and love,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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We’ve written about “kitchen arts” before, but we wanted to share with you an amazing...and totally unexpected...experience we had last weekend.
A neighbor’s pear tree has started bearing hundreds and hundreds of beautiful 3" pears, some still green, some ripening into that particular yellow of pear skin. The neighbor kindly offered us as many as we could collect. Three bushels later, we trudged home wondering what on earth we were going to do with all these pears!
The obvious solution was to can them. Our grandmothers canned fruit, but our mothers tended to freeze produce and fruit. So how to begin? Another neighbor lent us a canner, and courtesy of an old Fanny Farmer cookbook, we set about peeling and coring pears, boiling new quart jars and concocting a light syrup.
Hours later, we had filled the last jar, and there were still some pears in the large pot on the stove.
At first it was just “tasting” them, thinking we’d save them for later, after dinner.
Ooh, the pears were soft yet still firm, not mushy. The syrup was sweet but not too sweet, light and drippy. We kissed, and before long, Christi was on the bed, perfect pear halves cupping her nipples while Nan was down below, dripping syrup and trailing another pear up and down, up and down.
The moral of the story? Don’t underestimate the “lost arts.” Aphrodisiacs abound.
And, you can never have too many pears!
E-mail your tips and tricks to christi@fatalemedia.com. You could be published here!
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Many of you know G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.
Dear Fanny,
If the G-spot needs internal stimulation (finger-fucking or a dildo) to gush, how come sometimes I can get a really gushing orgasm just with my vibrator and nothing inside?
Thank you,
Pam in Upstate New York
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Dear Pam,
You are likely stimulating not only your clitoris but the G-spot's “head,” which surrounds the urethral opening. In fact, many women like hard slapping against the vulva in order to orgasm and/or ejaculate, because this stimulates their prostate/G-spot.
Once we understand exactly where this organ lies in our body and how big it really is, especially when aroused, the more we can understand this amazing female sex organ and increase our pleasure.
I learned from Dr. Milan Zaviacic's 20-year cellular study of the female prostate that the G-spot begins at the urethral opening and extends about two inches inside (in most women). Because the urethral canal parallels the vaginal canal, this means that the G-spot begins and can be felt at the vaginal opening (and in for about two inches). In my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-spot, I call this the head, the body (where the ridges are) and the tail of the G-spot.
The tail of the G-spot--the area of the G-spot that is felt approximately two inches inside the vagina, past the ridges and where it ends and therefore curves upward--is the area most sensitive for women first learning how to ejaculate and awaken the sensation of their G-spot. But in some women, the head is most sensitive. Hence, your ability to ejaculate with what you think is clitoral stimulation is in actuality stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot combined.
I wanted to let you know I'll be in London, England, giving a talk about female ejaculation at the prestigious Coco de Mer boutique in October. Below is the “salon” description and information where to sign up.
October 17 & 24: G-Spot Orgasms: The Deepest, Wettest & Wildest Ever!
Can’t find your G-spot? Wish you understood what a G-spot orgasm is? Is your sex toy doing a lackluster job for you? Want to know what all the fuss over female ejaculation is all about? Want to see a live demonstration of female ejaculation? Come learn how to get your feminine fountain flowing!
You'll learn: Where the G-spot is located; how to stimulate the G-Spot to create ejaculate; how to determine what kind of orgasm you are having--clitoral, G-spot or uterine; the best sexual positions for stimulating the G-spot and how to massage it to life. Also to be discussed: men’s role--how to help your partner have a G-spot orgasm and ejaculate.
To sign up, please contact Michelle Cornell, Coco de Mer, 0207-267-9700 or e-mail michelle@coco-de-mer.co.uk.
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
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In each issue of Fatale News, we want to hear your ideas, opinions, comments.
Here in the U.S., the Bush Administration has been dealt a blow in its efforts to “fight terrorism” by undermining the rights of Americans to the privacy of their own Web surfing.
Under a provision of the USA Patriot Act, passed not long after 9/11, the FBI can demand from Internet Service Providers the names, addresses, e-mail addresses, credit card information, Web-surfing activity and all other data an ISP has on its subscribers.
The ISP was not permitted to reveal to anyone—not their customers, not their lawyers—that they were giving this information to the government.
We applaud District Judge Victor Marrero in his decision. The Bush Administration is expected to appeal this verdict. Let’s hope they lose.
Attorney General John Ashcroft is set on invading your privacy in all arenas. We urge you to register to vote, find out about the issues, and get to the polls on November 2nd.
Enjoy your privacy while it lasts.
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
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