Anal sex for women who want to do their men has become a phenomenon since we at Fatale first produced Bend Over Boyfriend.

When you’re ready to open yourself up to anal eroticism, also known as pegging, there are a few tips you should know to maximize your pleasure—and your partner’s.

Plan ahead. You’ll and lots and lots of lube and a glove to start. You’ll also want condoms and a small dildo especially for anal sex.

Relax. You’ve planned ahead and talked with your partner about trying anal sex. There’s nothing to worry about. If it happens, great. If it doesn’t happen, don’t worry. You’ll have another opportunity.

Add some romance. Kiss and cuddle, fuck if you want, touch each other, stroke and lick and tease and talk dirty to each other.

Strap it on. If you know how to use a strap-on, you’re one step ahead. If you don’t know how, practice ahead of time, then ease into the leg straps, tighten the straps so that the dildo is against your pubic bone. An added bonus, you’ll feel it on your clit, too!

Finger his butt. Put on your glove and squeeze lots of lube on your gloved hand. You might want to put a pillow under his hips so you have better access. Gently explore his butthole and ease your finger inside a little bit. Just a little bit. Allow him to relax.

Bend Over, Boyfriend. There are several positions for anal sex that work well. One of the best ways to start is to have him kneel on the bed, and you can kneel up behind him. Guide the strap-on dildo to his anus and gently tease his butthole. You must talk to each other so you know what feels good to him.

Listen. It shouldn’t hurt. If he’s uncomfortable he should say so. And you should ease out. Just leave the tip in as long as he says it’s okay.

Pump and stroke. You can reach around and stroke his penis, drag your nails down his back, grab his hips and have a good ol’ time as you pump away!