Q&A: Ask Fanny – Best Sex Toys for Female Ejaculation

Many of you know g-spot expert Deborah Sundahl as Fanny Fatale. In “Ask Fanny,” an exclusive column created just for this newsletter, she answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

What is the best toy for female ejaculation?

Just Wondering

Dear JW,

The best toy for female ejaculation is a glass toy with a pronounced “lip” at the end—specifically, a slender handle with a “ball” at the end is best. The reason for this is that many woman who are first learning to ejaculate need extra stimulation, and jelly rubber, silicon or other material is too soft. Mind you, this is not a toy to be banging away with. This toy is for delicate exploration that requires you lie back and try to feel erotic sensations on the tail of your G-spot that you may have not felt before (or only every once in a while.)

Throw out all vibrators when exploring your G-spot. Because the G- spot has a different nerve than the clitoris, it therefore has a different orgasmic sensation. And, therefore, requires a different method of stimulation: more emotional, energetic connection: opening and surrendering into feeling the sensations of your body. This is the opposite of the stimulation we are accustomed to doing with the clitoris–ramping up more and more stimulation, tensing and holding our breath.

Use gentle and firm strokes, relax and breathe. This is the general technique and the best way to approach and awaken your G-spot and that will bring you the most pleasure over the long run.

Glass toys are expensive, but they are safe (if you buy quality and not cheap knock-offs), last a lifetime and are easy to clean. I recommend AsstroKnots, and you can check out their Web site through my Web site at http://www.isismedia.org/products.htm.

Keep gushing!

Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.

To learn more about G-spot orgasms, see Fanny’s How to Female Ejaculate DVD.

One Response to “Q&A: Ask Fanny – Best Sex Toys for Female Ejaculation”

  1. Rabbit Man says:

    The best toy to make a woman squirt is the G Spot stimulator it hits the cervix and the pubic top inside you this will make you gush. Best seller .

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