G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Deborah,
Is it true that a woman’s G-spot is like a muscle and that if you don’t exercise it then you can’t ejaculate?
Caroline, New York
Dear Caroline,
In general, yes to your question. Use it or lose it, as they say.
But as I have been saying for many years now, the G-spot is not a muscle or a wildly erotic spot on the vagina. The G-spot is the female prostate, which we feel through the roof of the vagina, and all women of course have a prostate just like all men do!
“Not using it” is a female ejaculation slumber that most women are now waking up from, thank goodness! All women can ejaculate, by the way, if they want to. Please don’t pressure yourself to ejaculate if you don’t want to. And also apply the no-pressure rule if you are learning. Relax and enjoy the process.
Good luck!
Deborah
Want to find out more about female ejaculation?
Check out Deborah Sundahl’s popular sex-education DVD Female Ejaculation for Couples and her equally popular book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot.
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