Archive for March, 2008

Strap-on Turn-on? * Water Sex

Monday, March 31st, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: Do strap-ons turn you on?

Quite a turnout on this deeply personal poll question! Girlfriends, it seems, are the winners. See all the results here.

There’s a really great comment from Jeff in here too—check it out.

This month we ask: Do you have sex in the tub?

Vote now!

The poll is on Fatale’s home page. And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

On Our Backs

Friday, March 14th, 2008

We promised you a while back that we’d try to find out some more information about the status of On Our Backs. We have some good news.

As you may know, H.A.F. Publishing sold On Our Backs and Girlfriends magazines in 2004. You can still check out On Our Backs’ Web site,, but both magazines ceased publishing at that time.

According to Heather Findlay, the publisher, she is “still considering relaunching both Girlfriends and OOB online.”

Until that time, if you want back issues of On Our Backs, you can order them for $8.95 per copy, which includes shipping. She has issues available from 1998 through 2004. Simply e-mail Heather with the subject line “OOB Back Issue.” Heather’s e-mail address is hfindlay at (her address is written out here for security).

Want to know more about the history of On Our Backs, how it was founded by Nan and her partner at the time, Deborah Sundahl, and edited by Susie Bright? Check out Susie’s loving history here:

Fatale started as an offshoot of On Our Backs. We care about On Our Backs because our histories are forever entwined. There’s more about Nan, On Our Backs and Fatale here under “Who We Are and What We Do”:

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan and Christi

The March Poll

Friday, March 14th, 2008

You can comment on any story in the newsletter. You should still feel free to e-mail us, but we encourage you to share your stories and experiences with others at the blog.

Don’t forget to check out the March 2008 poll, in which we ask:

Do strap-ons turn you on?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results in April.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

Amid Sex Scandal, Spitzer Resigns

Wednesday, March 12th, 2008

Amid a sex scandal that has New York reeling, Governor Eliot Spitzer has resigned. We were most curious about comments cited in the New York Times this week.

Governor Spitzer was called “difficult” by Temeka Lewis, one of the bookers at the Emperor’s Club. He asked the prostitutes “to do things you might not think were safe,” according to Ms. Lewis.

Kristen, the hooker in question, didn’t have a problem with the governor’s requests, though, and in fact liked him. According to the court papers, Kristen said to him, “Listen, dude, you really want the sex?”

Which got us wondering…What kind of sex did Governor Spitzer want that made it appear “difficult”? Is he a bottom? Of course it’s a stereotype, but people in positions of power, people who get off on law and order, people at the top, in our experience they like taking it lying down now and then. Maybe Kristen’s really a good dominatrix waitrix.

And then we thought, perhaps he likes it up the butt. Hmm. Is he a bend-over-boyfriend kind of guy?

What do you think? Click “Post a comment” and let us know!

Nan and Christi