Archive for January, 2012

New Poll: Is Romance for You?

Tuesday, January 31st, 2012

Last month, we asked about your plans for the new year 2012. More than 100 people clocked in with their votes. Check out the results.

There’s lot of romance in the air this time of year, and we wondered:

Is romance for you?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

P.S. Don’t forget to check out the new Courtney Trouble DVD Live Sex Show, starring Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee.

Etta James

Saturday, January 21st, 2012

Etta JamesEtta James died yesterday. She was part of the soundtrack of our lives, and of our life together. We are grateful for her music. As Gwendolyn Thompkins noted in her beautiful tribute to Etta James on NPR this morning, Etta James kept love going through good times and bad.

Last Weekend for Free First Class Shipping

Thursday, January 12th, 2012

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And in case you’re wondering, we had a lovely New Year’s celebration. On New Year’s Eve we headed to a friend’s place for an early get-together. About a dozen people were there, and the food was divine! We brought gougères, little French cheese puffs made with glorious Gruyére. Yum!

On New Year’s Day we went to an afternoon party, a more traditional fête with a couple dozen people, lots of sparkling wine and Champagne, gorgeous bowls of beans for good luck, and most of all good company.

It’s an auspicious start to 2012.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. The top lesbian DVDs this holiday season were Carolyn Caizzi’s Coming Home and Courtney Trouble’s new Live Sex Show, which stars Nina Harley and Jiz Lee.

P.P.S. Don’t forget—free First Class shipping (half-price outside the U.S.) is good through January 15, 2012.


Ask Fanny: Lubrication with Oil?

Thursday, January 12th, 2012

Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Deborah,

Is lubrication with oil a must or should we reserve it for those times when the surfaces are not that moist? I shall be grateful for your clarification on this rather basic point.

Wishing you a very Happy New Year.

Best regards,

Curious in India

Dear Curious,

Olive oil is nourishing to the skin, as Queen Cleopatra from ancient Egypt knew. Use lubricant that is nourishing to the vagina, like natural oils of any kind (jojoba, almond, avocado, etc.).  View the vagina as skin that needs or likes “food,” rather than using a lubricant to “make” her ready.

As you will learn when you read my book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, I encourage every woman to know her body. This is more than finding a technique or “prescribing” lubricant. You will know when you want to use lubricant, and when you do not need or want to. In this way, you will have more than enough natural lubrication, too!

Again, the more you can listen to your own body, specifically your vagina and what she needs and likes, the more success you will have with the G-spot orgasm and with female ejaculation. And in the end, the more intimate connection you will have to yourself and to your partner.

Have fun!


Female Ejaculation for CouplesP.S. If you plan to be in the Pacific Northwest this spring, sign up for Deborah Sundahl’s female-ejaculation women’s workshop scheduled for the weekend of April 20-22, 2012. A workshop for couples runs April 27-28, 2012. View more information here at Deborah’s Web site.

P.P.S. Check out Female Ejaculation for Couples by Deborah Sundahl to see how couples can stimulate the G-spot and achieve female ejaculation in a workshop setting.

Poll Reminder: Your Sexy 2012 Plans

Wednesday, January 11th, 2012

This month, we ask:

What are your sexy plans for 2012?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

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