Archive for February, 2012

Sexy February

Saturday, February 18th, 2012

Was February ever this romantic and sexy? It feels like a thaw, some sort of easing of tension. Everything is relaxed suddenly. How did that happen?

We had a lovely Valentine’s Day – here’s our Valentine’s Day blog posting, short and sweet about how we celebrated.

Then we watched two new DVDs just in from France. Oooh-la-la. Nice. They’ll be available soon, and we’ll let you know as soon as they are. (Can’t wait? Here’s a French lesbian DVD to make you wet wet wet!)

We’re glad it’s a long weekend here in the U.S., to celebrate Presidents’ Day. We get to sleep in, relax some more, enjoy each other. Watch some more sexy movies!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. The #1 Valentine’s Day DVD was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, the sexy lesbian DVD by the inimitable Shar Rednour, S.I.R. Video.

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Q&A: Ask Fanny – How to Have an Orgasm

Saturday, February 18th, 2012

Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

I am 20 years old and have a girlfriend, but I can’t orgasm. She has been really good at helping me try, but I still can’t. I don’t like doing it myself either; it just doesn’t feel good.  I wish I could have an orgasm, but I don’t know what to do and feel I should reach out for some help now.


Dallas, TX

Dear Renee,

I suggest that you make a concerted effort to have your orgasm by yourself first, and give your partner a rest. It is hard on the relationship and a lot of work for the partner, without the reward or pleasure. Better to keep your relationship free of a hard burden that is mostly your affair anyway.

What to do? You can start with these three things:

1. Read this wonderful book on how to have an orgasm. Becoming Orgasmic by Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo–here’s the Powell’s Books link–takes you step by step through the elements of female orgasm and guides you to fitting sexuality into other areas of your life.

Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross2. Check out this new video, Betty Dodson’s Body Sex Workshop.

Betty Dodson is called the Mother of Masturbation because since the 1960s, she has been teaching women how to have an orgasm. Back then, very few woman had orgasms, and it was a feminist mission to change that sad fact. Now 83 years old, she is still going strong! Aided by her younger business partner, Carlin Ross, they just finished another video of Betty’s famous workshop teaching women to ejaculate. Enjoy and learn!

3. Lastly, ask yourself what is it about touching your body that bothers you? Breath and relax into the touch. Notice what keeps you from relaxing into the touch. Be very aware of what crosses your mind, or what images comes up. This is your issue. Take this and work with it, either through simple awareness that this is the problem, or perhaps the help of a therapist.  But first, read the book and watch the video!

Pleasure will be yours! Give yourself time and permission, that’s all.


Female Ejaculation the WorkshopP.S. Check out Female Ejaculation the Workshop by Deborah Sundahl.

Watch three gorgeous women learn to stimulate the G-spot and achieve beautiful orgasms in a workshop setting.


Poll Reminder: Is Romance for You?

Friday, February 17th, 2012

This month, the poll is about romance, and we ask:

Is romance for you?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

P.S. Do you have a special request? Let us know. We fulfill special requests for customers on a regular basis, and answer questions about our films. Call toll-free 888-5-FATALE (888-532-8253). Or e-mail us at, and put “Special Request” in the subject line. We’re happy to help.

P.P.S. Did you know? Order three DVDs and get Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S. Check out these Fatale Media favorites.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Tuesday, February 14th, 2012

Happy Valentine’s Day!

We began celebrating this weekend–staying in and making dinner, watching two Oscar-nominated movies. Romantic! Yesterday afternoon we went off to a beautiful Japanese spa nearby for a soothing, sexy hot tub, a private sauna and cold plunge.

Today, surprises! We’ll see what transpires for this Valentine’s Day.

P.S. The bestselling Valentine’s Day gift was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, a super-sexy vid to get you in the mood right away! Treat yourself!

Talk to Me Baby Makes Top 10 Sex Flicks

Saturday, February 11th, 2012

Thanks to the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health its really useful The Top 10 Sex Education Films. Two Fatale offerings stand out among the Top 10:

Talk to Me Baby
Talk to Me Baby by Shar Rednour.

The Center says in its review: “Shar certainly has a way with words and she can take one of the most terrifying sexual behaviors people have and make it fun. Really, really fun! She’s got one of the best potty mouths in the business…”



Healing SexHealing Sex: The Complete Guide to Sexual Wholeness by Shar Rednour and starring Staci Haines

From the Center’s review: “I don’t know of ANY other video that tackles this difficult subject. Staci Haines is a genius and my go-to woman for healthy sexual functioning after sexual assault….This video should be a staple in your video library.”

5 Surefire Valentine’s Day Gifts

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Valentine’s Day gifts tend to have a predictable rhythm that nonetheless is tried and true, oftentimes expected and not at all dreary in that you can be creative, there’s some variation on the themes.

Chocolates? Yes! Flowers? Definitely!

In our experience, it’s what goes with the chocolates and flowers that can take Valentine’s Day from being just another gift-giving holiday to something special and memorable.

With that in mind, we offer five surefire Valentine’s Day gift ideas:

Where the Heart Is Special Delivery1.  Where the Heart Is. The most romantic of all Fatale’s gift sets, this 3-DVD set also has the worthwhile amateur Afterschool Special mixed in. Carolyn Caizzi’s lovely real-life couples come alive in the other videos included in this set. Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

2. Butch/Femme Rules. This 3-DVD set is a mash-up of romance (Special Delivery by Carolyn Caizzi), classic Nina Hartley with the remarkable Miss Sharon Mitchell (Suburban Dykes) and pure lust (Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by Shar Rednour). Free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.

Talk to Me Baby3. Talk to Me Baby. For an under $30 gift, Shar Rednour’s Talk to Me Baby is perfect for gay or straight, queer or trans, male or female. Everybody should know how to talk dirty, and this is the definitive tape. First class shipping in the U.S. costs only $2.95.

Nostalgia4. Nostalgia. We were talking with an old friend and longtime Fatale Media customer the other day. He told us that his favorite  Courtney Trouble video was Nostalgia. We went back and watched it again and were once again simply delighted! This is an excellent video, a queer porn parody starring all manner of lesbians. Under $30, with domestic shipping starting at $2.95.

5. Sugar High Glitter City. If your sweetie has a sweet tooth, this is definitely the Valentine’s Day gift that will satisfy her yearnings. Nominated for Best Soundtrack, Best All-Girl Feature and Best All-Girl Sex Scene by AVN, this is one of our favorites by far. Another excellent under $30 gift with a reasonable ($2.95) domestic shipping fee.

See all Fatale’s DVDs for even more ideas.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Valentine’s Day gift wrap is now available as an option at Fatale Media, as is birthday gift-wrap. Select your option—it’s free—at checkout.

P.P.S. Want it by Valentine’s Day? Order by Friday, February 3rd 2012 for shipping outside the U.S. Order no later than Friday, February 10th 2012 for shipping within the U.S. For overnight shipping, order no later than 4 P.M. PST Monday, February 13th 2012.

Avoid Sticker Shock

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Happy Valentine's Day!Have you ever noticed how prices seem low at some places, especially big online retailers, but when you get to checkout, they sock you with shipping fees that often begin at $7.50 or more?

Well, we have. And here at Fatale Media we are determined to keep shipping fees low. Fatale Media’s shipping fees are low low low.

So avoid sticker shock, and always check the shipping fees when you’re shopping online.

Our commitment to you:
• Order any three DVDs and you get free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S.
• First Class mail is shipped within 24 hours, and the rate for First Class starts at $2.95.
• Outside the U.S., DVDs ship for at or below international rates via Par Avion Air Mail.

Want it by Valentine’s Day?
• Order by Friday, February 3rd 2012 for shipping outside the U.S.
• Order no later than Friday, February 10th 2012 for shipping within the U.S.
• For overnight shipping, order no later than 4 P.M. PST Monday, February 13th 2012.

Valentine’s Day gift-wrap now available! Plus a free gift card, personalized just for you.

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