Archive for June, 2009

Fatale Gay Pride Special – Last Chance

Friday, June 26th, 2009

Just a reminder that Fatale’s Gay Pride Special – 10% off all items in the store plus free shipping – ends on Tuesday. This is your last chance! Don’t miss out on getting the sexy DVDs you want for a great price.

Did you know…

Bend Over Boyfriend


If you order a gift package you can save even more, 20% off the total on the Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set.




The Crash Pad


That when you buy the Crash Pad Series Gift Set you can get any three Crash Pad DVDs you want. Just tell us in the Comments section of the order checkout. Easy.



You get free, fast shipping on every order from now through the end of June. No minimums. That’s a promise!

And your satisfaction is guaranteed. If you don’t like the DVD you ordered, tell us! You may return your purchase for exchange or a full refund (minus any shipping charges). What have you got to lose? Go for it and find out what everyone is talking about.

We hope this has been a good Gay Pride Month for you. If you’re headed to a Gay Pride Parade this weekend, have fun!

Happy Pride!

Nan & Christi

P.S. Christi is in New York City celebrating Pride this weekend. If you’re around or having a party, feel free to invite her along! E-mail Christi at and put “Gay Pride Invite” in the subject line.

P.P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or PayPal. And remember, you get 10% off and free, fast shipping for the month of June. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

So what’s your fetish?

Friday, June 26th, 2009

By Shar Rednour

Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels

As we head into Pride weekends over the summer, you are no doubt going to be seeing a lot of queer folk in fetish wear. Here in San Francisco we see it all from grown men in fuzzy Pan suits (that’s the pagan Pan) to the typical chaps with some hot asses (hopefully) in full sight. Don’t forget that this isn’t just a fashion statement but related to sexual fetishes.

Do you dream of a motorcycle babe throwing you on her throbbing ride and throttling you away? Do you actually masturbate to the image? If you watch my movies or read my writing you will know that I am pretty obvious in my fetishes: shoes, feet, hands…more hands. I particularly love to indulge others in their fetishes as well doing eyeglass photo shoots, public sex and more. All with photographer artist Phyllis Christopher,

At SIR Productions, we worked together as well. She’s in our outtakes in Talk to Me Baby; she’s in the beginning of How to F*ck in High Heels as well. But my fetishes are not fakes on film. Our fetishy, fantasy-filled orgasms inspired our work to the degree of obsession.

So how about you? Do you really have a fetish? Let’s find out with my handy quiz.

When you jill-off do you think of:

a) Two or even three bodies rubbing together in some sex act?
b) Being tied up with panty hose shoved in your mouth as someone tickles your knees?
c) Being forced to eat a cupcake while Babes-o-rama plow you from behind?
d) Forcing your gal to eat a cupcake while you plow her from behind?
e) I can’t answer right now, Shar. There is a stiletto heel against my temple and I am about to cum. Talk to ya later.

I get most turned on by:

a) The thought of genuine lovemaking and a good orgasm.
b) Titties bouncing.
c) Sniffing dyke hands.
d) Staring at dyke hands…then screaming wildly when they touch my high heels.
e) Sticking my toes in pudding. Butterscotch pudding.

I’m embarrassed to admit that:

a) It’s not only guys buying those naked aerobic videos.
b) There’s nothing wrong with women in headbands (did I mention ’80s naked aerobic videos?).
c) I wish my lover wore a dirty jock strap and talked about locker rooms.


Last but not least no Summer of Pride is complete without party games. Try this one.

Guess My Fetish! This is more fun than it sounds. It’s kind of a group Newlyweds game. Each person has to write her own fetish on a card and keep it hidden so no one can see. Then take turns when as a group you debate what each person’s fetish is. Finally, pick as a group (this makes it fun because you have to argue with each other like Family Feud and make a group decision for your bet on her fetish). Then do the reveal to see who’s right. Pick what your loser–either the trusting lesbian or the misguided group –has to do: drinks, kiss, shows their tits, you know your peeps. Pick something good.

Pin the Feather on the Fetish

Hang up pictures on the wall of items to represent typical fetishes such as a woman’s legs, breasts, high heels, work boots, eyeglasses, leather and lace, boxer shorts, hot hands, armpits, etc.

Blindfold your lucky contestant. Turn her in circles and give a feather with sticky tape on the end. Wherever she sticks it is the fetish she has to try. Either just thinking about it while masturbating or doing it with a lover. Of course you can have a “tryout” closet ready at the party and take down the results onsite if you wish!


So, what’s your fetish?

To see the gorgeous femme Shar Rednour in action, check out Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels and Sugar High Glitter City. (more…)

What’s New and Recommended

Friday, June 26th, 2009

If you haven’t seen these beauties yet, we highly recommend them, especially because of the Gay Pride discount – they’re all 10% off and there is no charge for shipping within the U.S.

We ship worldwide, too. Shipping outside the U.S. is reasonable, not one penny more than it has to be. And most destinations take only one week to arrive. A good deal!

New Lesbian DVDs:

Brooklyn and Carson
The Crash Pad Series Volume 4
— In these five scenes, Houston has put the focus back on gender queer sex with butches and femmes and added a spicy dose of S&M to the mix.

One Night Stand
One Night Stand
Winner, Sexiest Dyke Movie, 2009 Feminist Porn Awards
Sizzling and like no other porn I have seen before. We still ache after seeing this one.”
(San Francisco Bay Times)
— In a dizzying and delectable feast of passion and desire, One Night Stand dishes up five “one night stands,” each showing the intense drama between two first-time lovers who’ve “selected” each other to play out their erotic fantasies.

Recommended DVDs:
Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set
–The #1 bestselling gift set at Fatale
–You save 20% total and get free shipping in the U.S.
–The revolutionary DVDs that changed the way straight couples have sex

Wild Kingdom
–Best Lesbian Porn,
“…funny, entertaining dialogue interspersed with very hot and believable sex scenes, and a multiracial cast of real queer women.” (, “Best Lesbian Porn”)

Carolyn Caizzi’s Coming Home
–Best Lesbian Porn,
–“The first of this series of vignettes features a big, curvy butch-femme couple: the deliciously hot women we never get to see in mainstream porn…” (, “Best Lesbian Porn”)

Click here to see more Best Lesbian Porn . This page puts it all in one place for you!

Gay Pride Special Reminder

Thursday, June 25th, 2009


Last chance! Through the month of June you get:

10% off on all items, no exceptions
Free shipping on all items within the U.S., no minimums

Celebrate Gay Pride!

See all Fatale’s DVDs here.

Romance with Sex * Shaven?

Thursday, June 25th, 2009

In the last poll, we asked: Do you really want romance with sex? 

Not as many responses this time, but adamant responses nonetheless! Check out the results here.

This month we ask: Do you prefer shaven or unshaven?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Happy Gay Pride!

Nan and Christi

Gay Pride Bonanza!

Monday, June 15th, 2009

gay-pride-banner-2009Don’t forget that the Gay Pride Special10% off everything plus free shipping within the U.S. – is on through the month of June. Plan ahead and get birthday gifts or goodies just for you now.

Having sexy movies around is especially good when you head to the beach house or other vacation spot. After a day relaxing at the beach and enjoying dinner, sexy DVDs have a way of putting everybody in the mood…especially if it’s just the two of you! 

Plus, you save even more when you get a Fatale Gift Set.

Like lesbian amateur? Try Where the Heart Is. With the Gay Pride Special, you save 20% and get free Priority shipping within the U.S.

Always wondered about female ejaculation? Adventurous Couples Unite gets you a total of 27% off…and that free, fast shipping within the U.S.

The #1 bestselling gift set is the Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set. You save 20% total, get free shipping in the U.S. and sate your curiosity at last.

And don’t forget the newest lesbian DVDs at Fatale:

The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 – Rope Burn, Fatale’s #1 bestseller for June

One Night Stand, voted Sexiest Dyke Movie by the 2009 Feminist Porn Awards

Several people have asked us how we ship DVDs outside the U.S. We send them Global Priority Mail, which gets packages to their destinations around the world within about a week. Not bad.

Within the U.S., your package arrives in 2-3 days for Priority Mail (which is free when you purchase 3 or more DVDs) and 3-4 days when your package goes First Class Mail. Remember: Shipping within the U.S. is on us, free for the month of June.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. Christi will be in New York City celebrating Gay Pride this year. If you’re around or having a party, feel free to invite her along! Find Christi at Facebook.

P.P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or PayPal. And remember, you get 10% off and free, fast shipping for the month of June. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Facebook Page News

Monday, June 15th, 2009

Fatale on Facebook!Many thanks to our friend Holly Cara for working with us on updating and recategorizing Fatale Media’s Facebook page.

All fans of Fatale, we ask that you go and become a fan on our new Facebook page.

Not yet a fan? Become a Fatale Facebook fan now!

Thank you!

Ask Fanny: Does Age Matter?

Monday, June 15th, 2009

Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,
If you’ve never female ejaculated before, where do you begin? How do you convince a perhaps skeptical partner that this exists? How much time do you need?

Lastly, I’m over 50; does it matter how old you are?


Nervous in Nevada

Dear Nervous,
The first step to begin to learn how to female ejaculate is to inform yourself about what female ejaculation is and where it comes from.  In my experience, half the work of learning how to female ejaculate is done by educating yourself on the subject.

Female ejaculation is prostatic fluid with a little bit of glucose (sugar). This fluid is produced by the female prostate. The female prostate is the G-spot. All women have one, as do all men. Therefore, all women can ejaculate if they want to learn how.

Learning how to ejaculate is fairly easy. Most women can accomplish it in a few months, if not right away, once they realize an important factor: the feeling of needing to pee is actually the urge to ejaculate

What can take many years to learn is how to reawaken the sensations of the G-spot, which are ultrasensitive by nature but numbed out in most women.

A sizable minority of partners does not know about female ejaculation; therefore, if partners are surprised with this information during sex, they get shocked and often react in an angry and/or turned-off manner. So, first thing to do if you ejaculate already, or learn to do so later, is to tell a new partner, “I ejaculate!”

Meanwhile, the best way to convince a skeptical partner that female ejaculation and the G-spot do indeed exist is by ejaculating when making love. Surprise them with the wet towel under their nose, so they take a good, deep sniff. They will smell for themselves that it is not urine. That should take care of the issue of skepticism right then and there.

Lastly, you can learn to ejaculate at any age. Age does not seem to make ejaculating harder or make the amount of ejaculate less. In fact, older women can have an edge on the ease of learning how to ejaculate, because older women are more inclined to want to relax and open their body to more sensuality—a state that makes it easier to ejaculate.

Good luck!


Send your questions to

fe_workshop_150w_optTo learn to female ejaculate, buy Deborah Sundahl’s latest sexy, educational DVD Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.

Watch as Lydia, Wendy and Fass learn to find and stimulate their G-spots to stunning G-spot orgasms. Close-up shots of the G-spot, anatomy charts to help you see and locate your own G-spot in the privacy of your home.

You can also take an in-person workshop with Deborah Sundahl. Her next two workshops are to be held in Santa Fe, New Mexico:

Female Ejaculation Workshop for Women Only, Santa Fe, New Mexico
July 3 – 5, 2009.
Cost $200, plus lodging and food at a lovely Santa Fe resort location.
Registration closes this week, Saturday, June 20, 2009
Contact Deborah now if you are interested at
More info.

Female Ejaculation Workshop for Couples, Santa Fe, NM
September 4 – 7, 2009 (Labor Day Weekend)
Cost $600 per couple, plus lodging and food at a lovely Santa Fe resort location.
Registration closes Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Contact Deborah if you are interested at
More info

In October, 2009, Deborah heads to Canada and Europe. We’ll update you on her fall schedule as we get the information.

Your Letters: Lesbian DVD Review

Friday, June 12th, 2009

Larry M. likes to review movies for Fatale and let us know his and his lesbian friends’ honest opinions. He wrote in this month:

Hi Christi and Nan,

I had the 3 lesbian women who saw One Night Stand watch The Crash Pad Series Volume 4. We all agreed that the best scene was Cash and Stella. The rope bondage scene gets a thumbs down. Score 8. One Night Stand a 10+++. Thanks.

Larry M., Seattle, Washington


Thanks, Larry! Your honest reviews are always welcome.


Cash and Stella in Crash Pad Series Volume 4Buy or find out more about One Night Stand.

Buy or find out more about The Crash Pad Series Volume 4

And don’t forget you get 10% off plus free shipping in the U.S. on all titles at Fatale through the month of June, 2009.

Happy Gay Pride!

Monday, June 1st, 2009

A year ago, we were celebrating the California Supreme Court’s overturning the ban on same-sex marriage. Today we celebrate those pioneers and others who refuse to give up hope.

In the last year, Iowa and Maine have joined Massachusetts in opening their doors to marriage for gays and lesbian. At least California allowed the queers who’d already gotten married to continue to enjoy those privileges. We know several couples who were holding their collective breath.

When the news came last week that California blew it, the Bush v. Gore lawyers hopped right to it with a lawsuit. As the New York Times said, “The David and Ted show is back in business.”

But AP reported right away that “Gay groups call federal marriage suit premature.”

We like NPR’s State-by-State Gay Marriage Map.

Well, whether or not you want to get married, have gotten married, believe in marriage or think it stinks, we celebrate Gay Pride this year and every year, remembering Stonewall, remembering the Stonewall veterans who launched this movement into its latest form.

In honor of those courageous acts, and in celebration of Gay Pride Month, we are pleased to offer 10% off all items here at Fatale Media through the month of June.

Plus, in addition to 10% off all items, this year we’re offering you free shipping in the U.S. No minimums. That’s a promise!

We promise to keep showing sexuality in a real and positive and authentic way, and we thank you for having the courage to stand with us.

Happy Pride!

Nan & Christi

P.S. Christi will be in New York City celebrating Pride this year. If you’re around or having a party, feel free to invite her along! Find Christi at Facebook.

P.P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or PayPal. And remember, you get 10% off and free, fast shipping for the month of June. See all Fatale’s DVDs.