In the last poll, we asked: Have you ever had sex in public?
We got well over 100 votes this time, and it seems most people have indeed had sex in public…especially on the beach!
Check out all the results here:
http://www.fatalemedia.com/polls/past_polls.html
This month we ask: What are your favorite dyke sex scenes in movies?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
And we’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
We heard the news when Courtney Trouble sent a tweet to Émilie Jouvet, director of One Night Stand.
One Night Stand won “Sexiest Dyke Movie” at the 2009 Feminist Porn Awards last Friday evening. Wow! What big news!
The official announcement of winners had us jumping up and down, so happy for not only Émilie but Shine Louise Houston too, who took several honors.
Here are the award winners we highly recommend:
“Sexiest Dyke Movie” – One Night Stand
“Steamiest Trans Scene” – Crash Pad Series Volume 2 – Unlocked
“Movie of the Year” – Champion
Greta Christina reviewed One Night Stand last week on her blog too, calling One Night Stand:
“A queer/ dyke/ tranny-boi porno from France, One Night Stand is an intense, authentic, raunchy porno, with a kinky sensibility, an emphasis on immediacy and heat, and a gritty, arty, urban feel….One Night Stand is a clear winner…”
So if you haven’t seen One Night Stand, go for it!
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
Speaking of masturbation, some couples forget that this can be one sexy turn-on, especially if one of you has her period or wants to try something different. So we’re bringing back a very popular sex tips column.
Masturbating side-by-side with your lover can be one of the sexiest entrees to lovemaking or a just a great way to relax and enjoy each other without the pressure to perform.
You can masturbate while your partner watches, or watch as your lover masturbates. Or you can both just lie there and enjoy listening as her breathing quickens.
Some couples like to get in the mood by watching a sexy DVD. Other couples talk dirty to each other.
Use your vibrator or your hand. You can also lie on your belly and ride a pillow, which works great especially if your vibrator is plugged in and humming.
Rules or no rules? Some couples like to have set guidelines. Do you have to ask permission? Do you like being touched while you’re masturbating? If you’re not sure, just roll with it.
If your lover touches you—perhaps stroking your breast or belly, perhaps putting her hand on top of yours while you masturbate—see how you feel. Is it a pleasant sensation? Distracting? Do you like it? Talk with your lover about the experience.
If you’re shy, the best way to try masturbating with your partner is to get under the covers, turn off the lights and close your eyes. Relax and let your fantasies take you where you will. Touch yourself and let yourself feel the sensations of skin and hair. Then gradually touch yourself between your legs and explore.
Masturbating together in the shower or bathtub can be a real turn-on, too. You’ll need some lube, no doubt, so make sure you’ve got some nearby.
If you’ve got a Jacuzzi, hot tub or sauna, position yourself over one of those jets of water and tease your lover by masturbating for her. She can choose to just watch or please herself over another water jet.
Most of all, have fun! If it’s not fun, then there’s no sense continuing. Instead, ask your lover for what you want. Talk to her. Find out what’s holding her back or why she doesn’t like to see you masturbate.
For a sexy side-by-side masturbation scene with Nina Hartley and Pepper (Miss Sharon Mitchell stars as well), check out Suburban Dykes, still one of Fatale’s faves and a classic.
We mourn the loss of pioneer porn star Marilyn Chambers, who died on April 12.
“My very first porn movie was Behind the Green Door, in 1975, shown on a friend’s wall on a Super 8,” Nan says. “I loved it. Later, I wanted to make porn for lesbians, and I remembered that experience of seeing real porn for the first time. Behind the Green Door, and Marilyn Chambers’ performance, were real inspirations for the founding of Fatale.”
Marilyn Chambers was 56.
Read the Los Angeles Times obituary.
Read the New York Times obituary.
Until next time, we wish you dazzling hot sex,
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
In the last poll, we asked: Have you ever paid for sex?
Not a whole lot of folks have paid cash money for sex… Paying in other ways, however, seems a familiar scenario.
Check out all the results here.
This month we ask: Have you ever had sex in public?
Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.
And we’ll give you the results next month.
Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,
Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com
Emilie Jouvet
Great news! One Night Stand, shot by the brilliant Parisian filmmaker Emilie Jouvet, has been nominated for the 2009 Feminist Porn Awards.
Curve said of One Night Stand: “Hot femmes and andro girls all get it on in this movie with strap-ons, fisting, black gloves and more. This the new wave of LGBT porn.”
Other 2009 Feminist Porn Award nominations include these lesbian DVDs from Shine Louise Houston:
Champion –From the boxing ring to the bedroom, this is rough-and-ready queer dyke porn.
The Crash Pad Series Volume 3 –Wall-to-wall, with five hot sex scenes.
Really, if you haven’t seen One Night Stand, we encourage you to check it out. These girls are oh, so delicious.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
Hi Fanny,
I started ejaculating about a year ago, but only while I was masturbating, and then it was about an ounce of odorless clear liquid, always from clitoral stimulation.
Now, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two months, and I am having prolonged, intense orgasms accompanied by, literally, cups of ejaculate fluid. I would say four ounces per ejaculation, and I can do it as many times as she stimulates me. It could probably be up to twenty ounces or more per session.
It’s great that it’s so intense, and I feel kind of lucky, but also pretty embarrassed when we’re in the middle of getting it on and suddenly, we’re in a lake. She’s not grossed out at all by this and is really, really supportive. It was hot at first, but it’s getting kind of ridiculous. Now, almost any kind of stimulation from her gets me wet and makes me come, hard. I’m starting to wonder if this is highly unusual or unhealthy in some way.
I could really use any kind of advice in how to minimize ejaculation (and hold onto the orgasms if possible) without having to invest in a kiddie pool. If not, are there products out there to control the level of messiness involved?
Thanks,
Betsy Wetsy
Dear Betsy,
Once some women learn how to ejaculate, it is a shock for them at how much, and how easily, the ejaculate can flow out! The fact that you used the words “embarrassed” and “supportive” suggests to me that you are still not quite comfortable with your ability to ejaculate, and/or sharing it with another. I suspect that this is the underlying reason why you are concerned with the amount, or if you are hurting your health in some way.
There is nothing wrong at all with feeling a bit shy about being able to ejaculate so profusely, as you are doing with your new honey. More than that, I suspect you are ejaculating so much because of your new relationship! Many women ejaculate easily with someone new whom they really feel comfortable with and who they really like a lot. The reverse is true as well; women who are not that happy in their relationship sometimes stop ejaculating for a while, or do a less amount.
It is not easy to express your gushing self so easily in front of someone new, and so please give yourself a pat on the back for allowing it and not clamping down on everything!
So, you have things to celebrate, girl! A full and flowing ability to ejaculate, and a wonderful new love in your life! You can learn to control your ejaculate a little bit, but I really don’t recommend that for you at this stage. You have just learned to open the floodgates, and it appears to have brought you a wonderful lover. So, just enjoy for now…let nature take its course, as it most assuredly will.
Meanwhile, the best and only thing I can suggest for the bed is the wonderful, plush throw by Liberator. Please check it out through my site.
But most of all, get out of the bed, grrrl! Spring is here, go out to the garden and water the plants! Do it in the shower, on the tile floor! Let it rip. Love your Wild Woman Self! Be a “Woman Who Runs with the Water”!
Deborah
To learn how to female ejaculate, check out Deborah’s DVD How to Female Ejaculate.
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Amanda Palmer
Thursday, April 16th, 2009We had the amazing good fortune to see the delicious Amanda Palmer recently. It was a small club, one we’d never been to before.
If you don’t know this dazzling performer with a big, big voice and biting wit (not to mention concert-hall-worthy piano-playing), we recommend you check her out. Formerly of the Dresden Dolls, Amanda Palmer has been out on her own promoting Who Killed Amanda Palmer, and what an album it is.
Now, not everybody likes to make love to cabaret, but Amanda Palmer makes us shiver, producing major clit jolts in us.
Most of our lesbian friends in New York adore her. They’d no doubt get down on the floor and do most anything for this woman, given the chance.
And yes, we have a six-degrees-of-separation situation with Amanda Palmer. Apparently she’s good friends with Kim Airs, the woman who introduced us.
Amanda looked lovely in a long green gown with skinny straps. She wandered into the space and through the audience strumming a little ukulele. Given the profusion of porkpie hats in the room—a tribute to the cabaret style of Dresden Dolls’ Brian Viglione–we weren’t sure which porkpie was going to bow down first.
What we did notice was the effects of the music on the packed crowd. Wandering through a nearly empty backroom to hit the ladies’ room, Christi noticed a big boy in a suit—he could have been Tony Soprano risen from the dead, from the looks of him.
Tony there was sitting back in the shadows at a corner table…a look of pure bliss on his face as he glanced at the ceiling. Then, the slightest movement from his lap. Dark hair.
Ah, Christi had wondered why he was wearing his overcoat. He was getting a little head while Amanda Palmer sang “Coin Operated Boy.” She is good music for sex.
Here’s Amanda Palmer performing “Coin Operated Boy”:
(Or, if you can’t see this, watch Amanda Palmer here at YouTube.)
What about you? Have you ever had public sex? Take the public sex poll on Fatale’s home page.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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