Archive for the ‘Masturbation’ Category

Celebrate Masturbation Month: New Poll

Wednesday, May 22nd, 2019

Me me me

In Fatale’s last poll, we asked:

Do you actively work to improve your sex life?

Lots of determined souls here!

Check out these results!

May is Masturbation Month!

Will you mix it up by trying something new this year? Such as…

Vote now!

The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.

Till next time…happy hand-holding!

Nan and Christi

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New Poll: International Masturbation Month

Tuesday, April 24th, 2018

Special Delivery sexy masturbation scene






May is International Masturbation Month!

In Fatale’s last poll, we asked:
How do you increase your sex smarts?

Seems like we have quite the educated voter population here at Fatale!

Check out these results!

For the new poll, we ask:
How do you celebrate International Masturbation Month?

Vote now!

The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.

Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.

Christi & Nan

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P.P.S. One of our favorite masturbation scenes was shot in beautiful Santa Fe, New Mexico. The “Mystery Masturbator” finds her way into several scenes in Take Her Down! Another sexy lesbian masturbation special is Special Delivery!

Selfie Love

Friday, May 20th, 2016

Elizabeth Doyle









Selfie love doesn’t get much sweeter than this.

Elizabeth Doyle is a budding burlesque dancer and lesbian porn star. She is a dancer with an amazing eye.

Imagine our surprise to find this lovely photograph of her, sent to us in celebration of National Masturbation Month.

Like and share this photo. It’s so sexy.

Thank you, Elizabeth!

Like Elizabeth on Facebook too! There are even more sexy photos there.

Till next time, we wish you fabulous solo sex, self-admiration and selfie love,

Nan & Christi

Solo Sextravaganza

Thursday, May 19th, 2016


Special Delivery






It’s National Masturbation Month! Celebrate with these fabulous lesbian flicks featuring very sexy masturbation scenes.

Plus, when you buy 3 or more DVDs, you get free shipping!

Our favorite classic is Special Delivery, with Deb Shooter’s active lesbian imagination coming to life before your eyes. Also starring Benito and Flora and Anja and Eva.

Woven throughout the slippery exploration of lesbian oil wrestling, the anonymous Mystery Masturbator makes her presence known, bringing the scene to a rousing climax. Take Her Down was nominated Best Specialty Video by AVN, and comes from director Sandra Goodwin.

Lastly, if you’ve never seen the video that started the lesbian porn revolution, buy a copy of Clips and get ready to enjoy this butch-femme classic. Fanny’s solo G-spot orgasm is something to behold!

And be sure to check out what’s hot at Fatale Media: My Best Friend’s Perfect Pussy, Lesbians in the Wild 2: Rooftops and Rebels, Lesbian Strap-On Fantasies.

Buy 3 or more, you get free shipping!

Shop now!

Poll Reminder: Solo Sex?

Thursday, May 19th, 2016

Me me me




Quick reminder to vote in the Fatale poll!

To celebrate May, National Masturbation Month, tell us which is your favorite for solo sex.

Vote now!

The poll is on Fatale’s home page and 100% anonymous.

Till next time, we wish you fabulous sex.

Nan and Christi

P.S. Find out what calls “the best lesbian porn.”

Ask Fanny: Female Ejaculation During Pregnancy

Thursday, September 18th, 2014

Deborah SundahlG-spot expert and author Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the G-spot.

Dear Fanny,

Thank you so much for enlightening us with your knowledge on female ejaculation. My partner has been able to ejaculate effortlessly for the past number of years due to the beautiful insight from people such as yourself, Shannon Bell, Carol Queen and Susie Bright to name a few. She is currently 8 months pregnant and already lactating. It was just until recently she started clit pumping to make the clitoris as erect as possible for maximum pleasure, and then finishing with an Hitachi Magic Wand to spray everywhere. Since the past few weeks we have noticed an increase of ejaculate, and lactation occurring without even masturbation of the tits. How come there is more ejaculate when a woman is in her third trimester? Is it normal for a pregnant woman to masturbate herself 3-4 times daily this late in one’s pregnancy? What damage if any will occur from clit pumping?

Thanks for your time, and many blessings.

Regards, Pjr


Dear Pjr,

Since the female prostate was only sanctioned as an anatomical term by the medical profession three years ago, very few studies have been done on female ejaculation. Therefore, studies during pregnancy are many years away. What we rely on are personal experiences, so in that regard I thank you for writing in to tell us your experiences as your partner brings her baby to term.

Therefore, it would be interesting to hear from your partner about why she is pleasuring herself so often, and how it feels to be ejaculating so profusely. I surmise her ejaculate is very clear and exquisite in its “energetic taste and smell” during this special phase in her life.

I would encourage you to drink it, because her ejaculate is likely very full of vitamins, minerals and hormones. Ejaculate is a healthful elixir even without the supposed added benefit of pregnancy.

I am not surprised to hear that ejaculate increases during pregnancy, as do all fluids in the female body. Pregnancy is the prime “fertility goddess” phase in a woman’s lifecycle. Juicy, erotic, full, ripe… all pregnant women should be loved up and honored for the feminine archetype that they represent: fertility and abundance, creation, motherhood and love eternal. Flowing female ejaculate is its symbol. I encourage both of you to spend a little time reflecting on this higher meaning of pregnancy by digging a little deeper into its sacred mysteries.

The erotic sensation created by enlarging the clitoris with a sucking pump device can be appealing for some women. With such an exquisite ability to ejaculate so freely during pregnancy, I encourage her to back off a bit from the clitoral stimulation and focus visually and sensationally on the G-spot. The G-spot orgasm triggers 2/3 of the pelvic muscles, whereas the clitoral orgasm triggers only the first 1/3 of the pelvic muscles. Having stronger G-spot orgasms can help keep those important muscles fit for childbirth. In addition, it is much harder to ejaculate with a strictly clitoral orgasm, so if there is a lot of ejaculation now, there would be even more! Also, the G-spot’s natural orgasmic sensation is one of deep love—a wonderful heart opening in which to bring a new child into the world.

I’m sure the baby is benefiting now from all the endorphins running around in your partner’s body from all the good loving she is gifting herself with. You might want to consider going all the way; i.e., birth your child in the ejaculate waters. This practice was commonplace in ancient times, and some midwives today are reviving it. Since your partner is feeling so completely erotic—and it’s great that she is free enough to let go into ejaculating freely—why not embrace also the erotic feeling that is the inherent nature of pregnancy. The baby’s head will bear down upon that G-spot and ejaculate will flow along with birth blood and fluids, so have the orgasm to ease the pain, and birth your baby in the ejaculate waters! The child will surely be blessed.

Best wishes,



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P.S. The revised 2nd edition of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl (Turner Publishing, 2014) is in stock and available now.

P.P.S. Learn more about female ejaculation and the G-spot! Sign up now for Deborah’s webinars–Feminine Fountain Webinar Workshop for Women or Webinar Talk for Men.


Celebrate National Masturbation Month

Friday, May 16th, 2014

Thank you for all your warm birthday wishes for Nan! We had a fabulous time and spent the day celebrating.

It’s springtime! It’s National Masturbation Month! What a great way to celebrate the sexy change of seasons than with solo shots.

You know our favorite has always been the anonymous scene in Take Her Down. This is a standout…and the oil wrestling isn’t too bad either! Slippery and sexy!

Queer Manor Sadie Lune

Another favorite is Queer Manor from Madison Young. Each star uses fingers only…no vibrators need apply for these self-loving scenes.

Special Delivery, anyone? Deb Shooter is the star here, and two real-life lesbian couples bring her fantasies to life. Director Carolyn Caizzi is a lesbian porn priestess.

What’s your fave masturbation scene?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S.  Want a classic? Pepper and Nina Hartley set the standard for classic lesbian love in Suburban Dykes. If you haven’t seen it, don’t wait!

P.P.S. See all Fatale’s lesbian titles, what calls “the best lesbian porn.”

Ask Fanny: The Urge to Female Ejaculate

Friday, May 4th, 2012

Deborah Sundahl G-Spot ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

My partner ejaculates now and then, and we are wondering how to make it happen all the time. We have been together about 12 years now, and she often feels “uncomfortable” in her pelvis area after lovemaking.

Jacob from Olympia, WA

Dear Jacob,

You are not alone in wanting to know how to make female ejaculation happen all the time, or at least when you’d like it to. This is a common question for many couples. The uncomfortable feeling of pressure that she is experiencing after you make love is female ejaculate that has not had a chance to be released. What to do?

First off, remember it is okay if a woman does not ejaculate every time she makes love. To put that kind of pressure on her—really, on both of you—is to run the risk of making the female ejaculate stop altogether, which it will.

Next, here are some of the possible reasons why your partner is not ejaculating every time the two of you make love:

• Oftentimes, women mistake the urge to ejaculate as the urge to pee and therefore clamp down on the urge to ejaculate.

• Women don’t always trust that this is indeed female ejaculate, and therefore (almost instinctively), they don’t let go, physically and emotionally.

• Most women are not aware of the many sensations inside the vagina, including the G-spot’s erotic sensations. In order to ejaculate, a woman needs to be more aware of these varied sensations. It may seem counterintuitive, but this lack of awareness actually can lead a woman to control her ejaculate so it won’t release; she holds back; she doesn’t trust the urge to ejaculate.

The best way that I have determined from teaching my female-ejaculation and the G-spot workshops for many years now is to do a meditation massage session, at least five of these in the space of 2-3 weeks.

G-spot massage allows a woman to connect with the vaginal and G-spot sensations of pleasure. This is not about masturbating per se, stimulating the G-spot to pleasure; this is about getting acquainted via touch with one’s G-spot in a deeper way than just knowing how to stimulate it to create pleasure.

The end result is of course more pleasure and more control in a good way over the ability to female ejaculate.

And, just as importantly but far more overlooked, you and your partner benefit from gaining an intimate knowledge with what the G-spot feels like when it is not in high-gear, erotic performance mode.

By trying massage, women feel so much more connected to their G-spots and to the “urge to ejaculate.” Through this process, a woman becomes conscious of her ability to control her ejaculate. This means she no longer holds back, but understands how to ejaculate whenever she wants (or not)!

Next time, we’ll discuss how to massage your G-spot. Stay tuned!


P.S. Deborah Sundahl teaches these skills to couples in her annual weekend workshop for couples, taking place this year on a lovely island just west of Seattle, June 1-3, 2012.

P.P.S. Experience a workshop with Deborah Sundahl’s bestselling Female Ejaculation: The Workshop and Female Ejaculation for Couples.


New Poll: When Do You Masturbate?

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

We urge you to comment on your experiences–simply click “Post a comment” below.

Last month, the notion of not watching porn was mostly a nonstarter when we wondered if you needed a reason to watch porn.

Check out the results.

This month, it’s up to you to guess where we were when we came up with this sex poll question:

When do you masturbate?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous.

We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

Dylan masturbating in Crash Pad Series Volume 3

P.S. The superb Dylan provides one of our favorite masturbation scenes in Shine Louise Houston’s The Crash Pad Series Volume 3 – Through the Keyhole.

In the Spring

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Christi and Nan's apricot tree March 2012Easily a month earlier than usual, trees and flowers are blooming.

“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.”

So wrote Alfred, Lord Tennyson, the great Victorian poet, in “Locksley Hall.”

Here are our favorite frolics to celebrate springtime, good for lovers, good for romance, good for hookups!

• Corny as it sounds, our favorite way to welcome spring is to take a walk. Hold hands. Sip an iced coffee along the way. Say hello to the neighbors…or not…

• Have lunch at the beach. Pretend it’s your first date.

• Talk to Me BabyNo beach in sight? Find a low-lit Italian place and talk dirty to each other. It’s even more fun during the day.

• Borrow a friend’s dungeon. Okay, everybody doesn’t have a friend with a dungeon. But making love in somebody else’s “crash pad” is terribly sexy. Bring your own toys.

• Single and randy? Pick up a girl. Hit your favorite bar or coffee shop, make contact and take her home. Indulge yourself in a one-night stand.

• Go dancing. All that heat and sweat and oozing energy feeds the libido like nothing else.

• Special Delivery Do yourself. To celebrate springtime, you have all the power in your hot little hand.

Don’t’ forget to post your sexy moments on Facebook. Fatale Media’s Facebook wall welcomes your posts too. Be coy. We love a tease!

Happy spring!

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Don’t forget to check out Live Sex Show starring Jiz Lee and Nina Hartley—a springtime inspiration if there ever was one!

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