Archive for November, 2010

Fatale Recommends: The Scavenger

Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

Katrina Fox is the amazing editor-in-chief of the online magazine The Scavenger. Each month, she cooks up a brew of articles—about sexual health, sexual life, social justice, the media, feminism and pop culture, “gender diversity” and much, much more. We admire Katrina’s tireless devotion to The Scavenger, a damned good monthly read.

Here are some offerings from the November issue, and just so you know, the monthly issues tend to arrive mid-month:

In defence of stripping and sex work,” an interview with Zahra Stardust by Katrina Fox

Addressing racism and classism in animal rights activism” by Stephanie Lai

Am I genderqueer?” by Tiara the Merchgirl

Snip from this last piece: “My question(s) stem from this: I don’t feel like I can neatly relate to masculinity or femininity (and also butch or femme) as contemporary Western culture, or even Malaysian/Bengali culture, defines them.”

Food for thought and worth reading.

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Full Load queer DVDSpeaking of which, one of the first genderqueer titles Fatale put out was Full Load: Scenes from

We called it an “FTM and lesbian sex video.” It is still one of the best for its explicit views of genderqueers, thanks to the superb camerawork of Barbara DeGenevieve.

Fave Queer Stars * Your Wishlist for Santa

Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

Last month, we asked: Who’s your latest fave queer porn star?

One clear frontrunner emerged! Check out the results here:

This month, we’re curious:
What’s on your wish list for Santa to bring you this year?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex and happy holidays!

Nan and Christi

P.S. Fatale is offering free shipping in the U.S. (and half-price outside the U.S.) through Christmas. Check out the 2010 Holiday Shipping Schedule and specially priced Fatale Gift Sets.

Free Holiday Shipping Now Till Christmas

Saturday, November 20th, 2010

Fatale’s free holiday shipping has started. Free First Class shipping in the U.S., and half-price shipping outside the U.S.

Get it in time for the holidays! Here’s the 2010 Holiday Shipping Schedule.

Fatale Gift Sets offer even more savings. Number-one bestseller is the Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set–a 15% savings.

The bestselling lesbian gift set is Where the Heart Is–a delight for lovers of lesbian amateur.

You can read what our customers say, too.

Questions? Let us know!

Celebration and Letdown

Friday, November 5th, 2010

What a week. First we were absolutely thrilled to see the San Francisco Giants win the World Series over the Texas Rangers. And the parade on Wednesday! That feeling of elation everywhere.

The San Jose Mercury News called it “a party for the ages.” We couldn’t agree more.

Did the parade take the edge off Election Day results this week? Perhaps.

President Obama’s picture on the front page of yesterday’s New York Times was rather shocking, his “shellacking” notwithstanding.

We recommend an article by Timothy Egan, also published in the Times’ Web site, “How Obama Saved Capitalism and Lost the Midterms.” 

Snip: “For no matter your view of President Obama, he effectively saved capitalism. And for that, he paid a terrible political price.”

On a completely other note, we received an e-mail from a reader who asked about Suzy Suburbanite. We’ve linked to Suzy’s main site for a long time and didn’t realize she hadn’t been too active. We found “Suzy’s Travel Blog” but there hasn’t been a posting for years. Hmm.

Anybody know where Suzy has gone? Is she okay? Let us know, and we’ll update you next time.

Ask Fanny: BBW

Friday, November 5th, 2010

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.

Dear Fanny,
My [partner] is a bbw and she just started squirting but it just kind of runs out. What tips do you have to make her squirt longer and harder?


Dear Jason,
Your big beautiful woman ejaculates! Please give her my congratulations!

“Just kind of runs out”? Sir, if you please. Is there a more appreciative way to state this?

Most women do not arc out like a porn star; most women gush or flood, which is what your partner is doing. This is 100% normal.

Strong PC muscles help ejaculate shoot out, so Kegel exercises always help in that regard. This is not the goal, however, which is why I don’t only teach tips on how to “make her squirt longer and harder.”

Rather, the primary goal is expressing love and satisfaction with your big beautiful woman. Then she will ejaculate freely and there will be more of it.


P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, and to watch four women female ejaculate (including arcing), see How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.

P.P.S. To watch Deborah guide three couples through the process of learning to female ejaculate, check out Female Ejaculation for Couples.

October 2010 Bestsellers

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

Fatale bestselling DVDs for the month of October 2010. A few new contenders here.

Bend Over Boyfriend
1. Bend Over Boyfriend
Still the number one authority on pegging and how straight couples can give men anal pleasure.




2. The Crash Pad
The original from director Shine Louise Houston.

Best Lesbian Porn” by



Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels 
3. Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels
This double DVD features a “multiracial cast of real queer girls.”

Named “Best Lesbian Porn” by



4. Female Ejaculation: The Workshop 
Female ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl guides three women in a workshop setting. Lydia, Wendy and Fass learn to find and stimulate their G-spots to stunning G-spot orgasms.



5. One Night Stand
Winner of the Feminist Porn Awards “Sexiest Dyke Movie.”

Courtney Trouble wrote in Curve: “Hot femmes and andro girls all get it on in this movie, with strap-ons, fisting, black gloves and more. This is the new wave of LGBT porn.”


See all Fatale’s videos.

Lusty Masturbator * Fave Queer Porn Star?

Monday, November 1st, 2010

Last month, we asked: 

Are you a lusty masturbator? This on the heels of Christine O’Donnell’s anti-masturbation crusade…one can’t masturbate without lust in one’s heart…

Lots of lust in this crowd! Check out the results here:

This month, we’re curious:

Who’s your latest fave queer porn star?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

P.S. Did you know? Buy three DVDs and you get free shipping via Priority Mail in the U.S. Plus there’s free gift-wrapping and free gift cards. Check it out.