G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. You may send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com; please put FE Q&A in the subject line.
Dear Fanny,
My [partner] is a bbw and she just started squirting but it just kind of runs out. What tips do you have to make her squirt longer and harder?
Jason
Dear Jason,
Your big beautiful woman ejaculates! Please give her my congratulations!
“Just kind of runs out”? Sir, if you please. Is there a more appreciative way to state this?
Most women do not arc out like a porn star; most women gush or flood, which is what your partner is doing. This is 100% normal.
Strong PC muscles help ejaculate shoot out, so Kegel exercises always help in that regard. This is not the goal, however, which is why I don’t only teach tips on how to “make her squirt longer and harder.”
Rather, the primary goal is expressing love and satisfaction with your big beautiful woman. Then she will ejaculate freely and there will be more of it.
Fanny
P.S. To learn the basics of female ejaculation and the G-spot, and to watch four women female ejaculate (including arcing), see How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale.
P.P.S. To watch Deborah guide three couples through the process of learning to female ejaculate, check out Female Ejaculation for Couples.
Fatale Recommends: The Scavenger
Tuesday, November 30th, 2010Here are some offerings from the November issue, and just so you know, the monthly issues tend to arrive mid-month:
“In defence of stripping and sex work,” an interview with Zahra Stardust by Katrina Fox
“Addressing racism and classism in animal rights activism” by Stephanie Lai
“Am I genderqueer?” by Tiara the Merchgirl
Snip from this last piece: “My question(s) stem from this: I don’t feel like I can neatly relate to masculinity or femininity (and also butch or femme) as contemporary Western culture, or even Malaysian/Bengali culture, defines them.”
Food for thought and worth reading.
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We called it an “FTM and lesbian sex video.” It is still one of the best for its explicit views of genderqueers, thanks to the superb camerawork of Barbara DeGenevieve.
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