Archive for September, 2007

Forbidden Fruit

Saturday, September 1st, 2007

There’s a subtle difference between getting what you want and getting what you can’t have. Getting what you want, even a seemingly unattainable object of your desire, brings a frisson of excitement, a tingle to the belly. The chase is as delicious as the getting.

Fantasies play a strong role here. You can picture exactly what you want—the cutest girl in the room, a real female ejaculation, getting pegged or hard lesbian love like you’ve never had it in your life. So far.

What you can’t have, that’s another matter, forbidden fruit. If you’re obsessive about it, fantasies can also play a role. Like Deb Shooter in Special Delivery, you get out that vibrator and dream on and on, wishing you could be elsewhere, getting what you just can’t have right now.

Lusting after forbidden fruit seems impractical or silly to some people. But sometimes things change. Or you make them change. Hope blooms inside you. Carrying that torch, be it for weeks, years or decades, was worth it after all.

What do you think? You can tell us here.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Sex Tips & Tricks: Flirting with Your Lover

Saturday, September 1st, 2007

We’ve written before about The Art of Flirting, but how do you flirt with your own sweetheart?

You might wonder, why bother flirting with your own lover? Isn’t flirting only for strangers?

No way! Flirting leads to dirty talk, which leads to steamy, passionate sex.

Plus, flirting with your sweetie—especially if you’ve been together a long time—shows her how much you love and respect her, you think she’s sexy and you want her more than anybody else.

Don’t vary your usual behavior too much at first. If you’re a gruff, “don’t bug me” type of person when you get home from work, suddenly acting the Casanova when you pop in the door will arouse her suspicions.

Instead, start simple. Get out of the house. Take her out for a drink or dinner. Make sure the place has a warm, romantic atmosphere. (more…)

New Titles Now at Fatale

Saturday, September 1st, 2007

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Q&A: Ask Fanny – The Next Level

Saturday, September 1st, 2007

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

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This post has been revised and updated: “Is She Ready to Have a Squirting Orgasm?” by Deborah Sundahl.

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Fantasies Poll * Dirty Talk?

Saturday, September 1st, 2007

You may have noticed that you can now comment on any story in the newsletter. You should still feel free to e-mail us, but we encourage you to share your stories and experiences with others at the blog.

In last month’s poll, we asked: What’s your latest fantasy?

Lesbian sex, anyone? What’s really interesting is what you don’t want.

See all the results here.

This month we ask: Do you talk dirty to your lover(s)?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi