Archive for November, 2007

Special Gift-Giving Note

Friday, November 16th, 2007

As promised, we’re sending you this special gift-giving note to let you know the holiday shipping schedule is posted…

Holiday Shipping Schedule

…and tell you we’ve got some new gift packages available you might like…

Fatale Gifts

You asked for it, and we listened. You can order BOB and BOB2 and save $10. An all-new lesbian special gift set, “Where the Heart Is,” includes three Carolyn Caizzi flicks. And all female ejaculation DVDs by Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, are now on special for $20.95 each until December 22, 2007.

Plus, there’s free gift-wrapping—your choice, Christmas or non-Christmas wrapping paper—and free gift cards. And free shipping when you order three DVDs or a gift set with three or more DVDs.

Not quite ready to start shopping for the holidays yet? We aren’t either, but we did sit down the other night and start making a list. Some people are really hard to buy for! So we’ve been researching, poking around the Internet and narrowing down some ideas for friends and family.

Plus there are birthdays to consider. Christi’s birthday is in December, and for some reason we have lots of friends with birthdays around the same time.

In the mean time, we’re getting ready for Thanksgiving, which we celebrate here in the U.S. on November 22 this year.

We have a lot to be thankful for this year, not least of all you. Keep writing to us; keep telling us what you think. We read every word, try to respond in a timely manner, and we always do our best to help you find what makes you happy, keeps your sex life hopping.

So thank you.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Fatale’s Bestsellers

Friday, November 16th, 2007

More than a few people have asked what Fatale’s bestsellers are, so we thought we’d give you the top-five rundown. Thanks to Nan for tallying the numbers, making this list and checking it twice.

1. Bend Over Boyfriend
By far the #1 instructional video on how to pleasure your guy from behind

2. Bend Over Boyfriend 2
The hard-driving sequel to the BOB with “more rockin’, less talkin’”

3. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels (double DVD)
Handsome butch dykes and sultry high femmes in one of our faves from Shar and Jackie of S.I.R. Video

4. Special Delivery
Carolyn Caizzi’s latest offering…and the dreaming fantasies of a dyke sex-shop worker

5. Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On (double DVD)
Winners of Fatale’s Real Lesbian Sex amateur lesbian video contest.

Want to see more? Check out all Fatale’s videos at

The Spanking Poll

Friday, November 16th, 2007

Don’t forget to vote in the November Spanking Poll. We added one more option, per your comments, the “switch” option.

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page:

And we’ll give you the results on December 1st in the next regular newsletter.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi


Thursday, November 1st, 2007

What is it about spanking that is so deliciously titillating? Certainly spanking—like a lot of previously taboo delights—has come out of the closet. There are Web sites and Web communities and blogs dedicated solely to this new old art.

One of our favorite sites is Vintage Spank. Old photos of women getting spanked by other women, in a variety of settings, hint at the lesbian liaisons to come. The women are for the most part dressed, too, another titillation. What lies underneath? The stages are set so that you can’t help but make up your own stories about the players, the spanked and the spanker.

The lesbians in our movies delight in spanking—as a tease and prelude to sex in Turn Me Up Over and On, as role-playing “punishment” or just giggly fun in Full Load.

Spanking is fun! Let’s admit it. And in the right setting, spanking can make you feel like you’re on fire…and not just your bottom!

What do you think? You can comment here.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

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Sex Tips & Tricks: Sex Party Etiquette

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

Sex parties or play parties even today are usually still quiet affairs…meaning you don’t advertise, you don’t tell your neighbors, you don’t tell all your friends.

If you want to host a sex party, remember to provide plenty of room for sex play and space too for downtime. Be selective about who you invite and determine your own rules, but don’t make too many rules that will stifle spontaneity.

As at any party, you provide the food and drink. It’s a good idea to buy extra lube and condoms, but your guests should bring their own toys. Turn the heat up if it’s cold outside. You don’t want to see your guests freezing and covered with goose bumps as they try to get in the mood for sex. (more…)

Give the Gift of Porn

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

Fatale offers lots of creative solutions to your gift-giving needs.

• Free shipping in the U.S. when you buy any three items

• Free gift-wrapping

• Free gift cards

Watch for a special gift-giving edition of the Fatale Media Newsletter on November 15th.

Click here to see all Fatale’s DVDs and videos

Q&A: Ask Fanny – What is Squirting?

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

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Dear Fanny,

I see a lot of videos with women “squirting.” Is that female ejaculation? What’s the difference in terms?

Nancy, USA

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Dear Nancy,

Yes, squirting is female ejaculation. The term squirting comes from the porn industry, and is their name for it. It is a show term.

I personally do not care for the word squirting outside the porn industry, meaning in our bedrooms, because it does not convey the full experience, and seems a bit adolescent, and therefore limiting, in its description.

Female ejaculation—the thing—is inherently feminine, clear and odorless to all but the most discerning noses. To those intimately familiar with their female ejaculate, it can have a very fresh and uplifting fragrance, perhaps best described as an “essence.”

Female ejaculation—the expression—conveys a woman deeply in touch with herself and her sexuality, and her ability to feel sexual love, connection and excitement with her partner.

Yes, a woman can squirt. She can also gush, flood and flow like a fountain.


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Anal Sex * Spanking During Sex?

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

You may have noticed that you can now comment on any story in the newsletter. You should still feel free to e-mail us, but we encourage you to share your stories and experiences with others at the blog.

In last month’s poll, we asked: Do you enjoy anal sex with a strap-on dildo?

Surprise, surprise! Not all of you like anal sex. But for those who do, big ones anyone?

See all the results here.

This month we ask: Do you like spanking during sex?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi