Archive for April, 2010

Facebook Invite Redux

Friday, April 30th, 2010

Just when we put out a real invitation to “become a fan” of Fatale Media on Facebook, Facebook changed its language.

So now we invite you to like us at Facebook.

Please, like us.

If you’ve heard about Facebook’s new “instant personalization” program and have any privacy concerns, here is a link to an article worth reading:

“How to Opt Out of Facebook’s Instant Personalization,” The New York Times, April 23, 2010:

And don’t forget to like us at Fatale Media!

Do You Go Down * Public Masturbation

Friday, April 30th, 2010

In the last poll, we asked: Do you go down on your girlfriend?

Lots and lots of votes on this one, and guess what the big answer is?

Check out the results here:

This month we ask a two-part question:

Part 1: How often do you masturbate?

Bonus question: What is the most public place you’ve masturbated?

Vote now! The first poll question is on Fatale’s home page.

The bonus question appears after you vote on the first question.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

Reawakening Desire

Thursday, April 15th, 2010

Springtime is truly here. The trees are blooming, baseball has started, and temperatures are rising. We’ve been thinking about sex, how the springtime air and the shedding of heavy coats and sweaters makes the body sing again.

Our friend Deborah Sundahl was visiting over the Easter holiday and subsequent week that many take as spring break. And she got us thinking about rediscovering the G-spot, and rediscovering the power of female sexuality.

There are still some people who deny the existence of the G-spot and the ability for women to female ejaculate. But Deborah’s longtime dedication to showing the G-spot on video should leave no doubt in anyone’s mind.

If you’re a novice when it comes to the G-spot, start with Deborah’s bestselling classic, How to Female Ejaculate.

If you’re in a couple and want to explore female ejaculation and the G-spot together, try Female Ejaculation for Couples and watch as Deborah guides three straight couples through the steps to achieve this most spectacular of orgasms.

Really, there’s nothing quite like it. And what better time than springtime to allow your body to open up and rediscover pure orgasm like no other in the world.

Till next time, yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. “Adventurous Couples Unite” is a female-ejaculation gift set with three Deborah Sundahl videos. You save 17%.

P.P.S. You can see all Fatale’s DVDs here.

Curing Homosexuality

Thursday, April 15th, 2010

Thanks to our friend Chuck, who sent this link along with the comment, “Who in the hell are these people? This law should be gone. This is a 50-year-old law. There are laws in many states being removed every day. The laws were wrong then. It is still wrong in 2010.”

“Law to ‘Cure’ Homosexuality Refuted.”

Datelined Sacramento, California, no less.

Thanks, Chuck. We do appreciate the clips and links!

And in case you missed this gem, check out “Can Animals Be Gay?” by Jon Mooallem in the April 4, 2010, issue of the New York Times Sunday Magazine, about “The science of same-sex pairings in the wild.”

Invitation to Become a Fatale Media Fan

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

We’ve struggled with some of the technical aspects of Facebook, but we’re getting there, slowly but surely!

Would you like to become a fan of Fatale on Facebook?

This is a special invitation, because we know we have lots of fans in real life, but we want to crank up the “Facebook numbers.”

Here’s our Facebook link:

Here’s a huge thank-you for becoming a fan!

Do You Go Down?

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Don’t forget to vote in this month’s poll!

This month we ask: Do you go down on your girlfriend?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results in a couple weeks.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

P.S. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Happy Spring!

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Happy Passover!

Happy Easter!

Happy Springtime!

No matter where you are in the world, no matter if you celebrate holidays or not, we hope you are happy and reveling in the change of season.

Interesting comment from Stacey on last month’s Fatale blog post “Let’s Pretend to Be Lesbians”:

“Not to mention, Jones New York is one of the worst ranked (at least by HRC) places for LGBT folks to work.”

In our opinion, any self-respecting LGBT would have fought tooth and nail against this dumb-ass image.

Okay, rant over.

We’re looking forward to having Deb Sundahl visit for Easter and a few days more, now that she’s back from her European workshops and lecture tour. We’ll get more Ask Fanny columns for sure!

If you have questions about female ejaculation, you can e-mail Please put “Ask Fanny question” in the subject line.

Happy Spring. Happy April.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. If you ordered a Fatale catalog to be mailed to you, hang in there. We’ve run out and are sending out photocopies, but we’re running late. So we appreciate your patience.

P.P.S. You now get super low-cost shipping and complimentary gift-wrapping and gift cards. We ship worldwide, and you can order securely online with your Visa, MasterCard, American Express or PayPal. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Sex Tips: How to Go Down on a Girl

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

The first time might be a little scary, but don’t worry. If there’s a musky aroma at first, it goes away the more you lick and suck and her natural juices come to life.

Each woman is different, and she may or may not like what you’re doing, so you can always peek up and ask, “Do you like this? Is this all right?”

Some women like to experience a finger or two or three inside while you suck her clitoris, but for some the sensations are so different that some women prefer to focus. Start with the clit, then gently ease a finger in and see if she still likes it. As she becomes more aroused, her G-spot may start begging for some curved finger action inside. Go for it!

As for her butt, some women like a finger inside her butt, and for some women it distracts from the main event. Just remember never to put a finger in her butt and then in her cunt. That’s a no-no. You want to avoid infection. You can go in the other direction, from her vagina to her anus, but don’t reverse direction.

Wear gloves. That’s always good advice. But we know that even the best-intentioned lovers don’t always come prepared. And longtime lovers may think foregoing gloves is okay. It may be; just be aware of what you’re doing and where you are.

Lick to your heart’s content! The taste should be clean and delicious as she becomes more aroused. Ditto the smell, as mentioned above.

If she has her period, you can still perform that most delectable act of cunnilingus if she wants it and if she permits it. Move the tampon string aside and keep your fingers out of her unless she specifically requests it.

Be gentle, and let her moans of pleasure guide you.

To see one of the loveliest lesbian cunnilingus scenes on film, check out One Night Stand. And the scene with Anja and Eva in Coming Home features a great scene with real lesbian 69 with close-ups.

Slutgrrl Loves One Night Stand

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

One Night Stand is the porn for you if you like your lesbians real, your fucking diverse, your pussies wet and your tranny boys hung.”

So says Slutgrrls’ Miss Zooey, and we couldn’t agree more.

Check out One Night Stand.