Archive for June, 2008

Female Ejaculate * Gay Marriage

Monday, June 30th, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: Have you or your partner ever female ejaculated?

We got over 100 votes this month—thank you for voting! It seems that quite a few readers are experienced and going strong!  You can see all the results here.

This month we ask: Do you think gay marriage should be legalized?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

Honoring Gay Pride

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

Gay Pride Special – 10% Off

Recently, someone asked us, “What’s Stonewall?” It was a fair question. This curious soul hadn’t yet been born when the raids in New York City’s Greenwich Village came to a head one late June night in 1969 at the Stonewall Inn just off Sheridan Square. Thirteen men were arrested. By the next morning, hundreds of gay men and lesbians were protesting in the streets. Stonewall was the dawn of Gay Pride.

Most LGBT people remember hiding in their lives, whether as a kid in school just coming to terms with being gay, or as an adult working in corporations where a wedding ring – whether or not you’re legally married – is de rigueur. It still happens.

It takes courage to bare your sexuality to the outside world. Sometimes it takes courage to practice your sexuality at all. It takes special courage to stand up for the rights of other people to openly practice their sexuality.

So we salute those high-school students in the small town of Clovis, New Mexico, who had the courage to include gay couples in their yearbook.

We salute the courage of all the people, gay and straight, who call and write to us from all over the world where “deviant sexuality” is not tolerated – from small towns in Arkansas and Texas and Trinidad to cities in Poland and Lebanon.

We salute the California Supreme Court for overturning the ban on same-sex marriage.

In honor of those courageous acts, and in celebration of Gay Pride Month, we are pleased to offer 10% off all items at Fatale Media through the month of June. Order three or more DVDs and you get free shipping in the U.S.!

We are as committed as ever to showing sexuality in a real and positive and authentic way, and we thank you for having the courage to stand beside us.

Happy Pride!

Nan & Christi

One Night Stand Review

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

Just in case you missed it, Fatale has a new DVD out. One Night Stand is a sexy lesbian DVD with good music, wow-inspiring real lesbians and mouth-watering hot scenes.

The San Francisco Bay Times wrote, “Sizzling and like no other porn I have seen before. We still ache after seeing this one.”

In a dizzying and delectable feast of passion and desire, One Night Stand dishes up five “one night stands,” each showing the intense drama between two first-time lovers who’ve “selected” each other to play out their erotic fantasies.

Don’t miss One Night Stand — it’s a must-see.

Ask Fanny: Learning to Female Ejaculate

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

Dear Fanny
My wife has been just learning [to female ejaculate] and can’t fully get it to spray yet, but she does have it come out, but not a lot yet. It’s all new to us so far.


Tony in New York

Dear Tony in New York,
Congratulations! Your wife is ejaculating!  I’d love to hear from her how that feels, but I can guess it feels tremendous.

Not all women spray out, or even want to spray out if they can. Most women just “gush” and this “gushing” amount is sometimes overlooked as excessive vaginal lubrication. For sure, it is still ejaculation, because the amount of ejaculate has nothing to do with the act of ejaculating.

So therefore, your wife is definitely ejaculating. The quantity of ejaculate can increase over time – a few years – as a woman learns to feel comfortable with ejaculating, and also integrates ejaculating into her normal lovemaking routine. So, perhaps over time you MAY find this lovely spray upon your arms and chest – smile – but for now, celebration is in order!

I say MAY because not all women will arc out, and remember, many women cannot arc out or even ejaculate if there is something in their vagina at the moment of ejaculation, so let your penis, fingers or toy come out of her vagina when she starts to push out the ejaculate.

Good luck!

Deborah, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale
P.S. See Deborah’s latest DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.