Archive for August, 2009

Short and Sweet

Friday, August 28th, 2009

This week we mourn the deaths of two very different but influential people, whose lives were sweet and too short.

Senator Edward KennedyEdward Kennedy, the United States senator from Massachusetts known to all as Ted, championed access to healthcare, anti-apartheid and many other important causes. His colleagues genuinely liked him, whether or not they agreed with him.

“This is the cause of my life…to guarantee that every American…will have decent, quality health care as a fundamental right and not just a privilege. For four decades I have carried this cause—from the floor of the United States Senate to every part of this country. It has never been merely a question of policy; it goes to the heart of my belief in a just society.”
       –Senator Edward Kennedy

RIP Ted.

Ellie GreenwichEllie Greenwich died later the same day, Wednesday, August 26, 2009. She was 69, and if the name doesn’t ring a bell, her music no doubt does. “Be My Baby,” “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home),” “Da Doo Ron Ron,” “Chapel of Love,” “River Deep – Mountain High” and, perhaps best known, “Leader of the Pack.”

Here’s Ellie Greenwich singing her song “Sunshine after the Rain,” from YouTube with pictures of the singer/songwriter:

It was to this music we learned to dance and to love and to make love.

RIP Ellie.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Sizzling Summer Savings – Only 3 More Days

Friday, August 28th, 2009

Three more days for the Sizzling Summer Savings at Fatale. Save 10% – 20% now through Tuesday.

For ideas, check out these top sellers for August at Fatale:

One Night Stand


1. One Night Stand – Winner! 2009 Sexiest Dyke Movie






2. Bend Over Boyfriend 2 – more rockin’, less talkin’  and AVN winner






3. How to Female Ejaculate – the classic how-to from Deborah Sundahl





The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 - Rope Burn


4. The Crash Pad Series Volume 4 – Rope Burn – Ooh, talk about sizzling!




The Crash Pad


5. The Crash Pad – the DVD that started it all – “Here are the keys to the crash pad.”




For lesbian flicks, check out this page of recommended Favorite Lesbian DVDs.

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Sex Tips: Back-Door Positions

Friday, August 28th, 2009

It’s a lazy late-summer day, so we thought we’d bring back a classic Sex Tips column that originally appeared in the March 2007 issue of the newsletter. It’s as relevant today as it was then for anyone who likes anal pleasure.

Back-Door Positions
Anal sex isn’t as complicated as it might seem when you’ve never tried it, but discovering the pleasures of anal sex is an unexcelled delight.

For women who like to take it, there’s nothing quite like the feeling of fingers inside and another finger poking in the back door. It’s also an utter turn-on for stimulating the G-spot.

For those who like it with a dildo, there are three main positions that come in handiest when you’re in the mood.

Missionary position: Anal sex in the missionary position (one of you lying on your back, the one with the dildo facedown on top) takes lifting your legs higher in the air, and some strategic kneeling if you’re on top. Put a pillow under your butt. This helps raise your pelvis and provide a “good opening” for that anal dildo.

bob2_pic02Doggie-style: This position is the easiest for first-timers. That butt is right in front of you and you can stand up while your partner leans over the edge of a bed, couch, chair…or even the kitchen table! Try it. If you’re the bottom and trying this for the first time, spread your arms out and grab hold of whatever you can find. And relax! This is the easiest entry for mind-blowing fun.

Sitting up and facing backwards: This position doesn’t really have a name. We used to think of it as “girl on top,” but really if you’re the one who’ll be getting it, you’ll be facing away from your partner, not facing each other. We think this works best if you’re using a butt plug or dildo—they have good smaller ones for this type of activity—but it’s great for a finger or two, too.

Gay guys no doubt have a zillion more positions to enjoy this most enjoyable sex act, but these three are, in our opinion, good for starting out.

And remember the three bending over “bare necessities” whether you’re on the top or the bottom:
1. A condom or latex glove
2. Lots and lots and lots of water-based lube
3. Relax and talk to each other

Bend Over BoyfriendTo learn more about anal pleasure, check out Bend Over Boyfriend.

How Important * Favorite Positions?

Friday, August 28th, 2009

In the last poll, we asked: How important is porn in your life?

Well, this was a no-brainer, and the answers leaned heavily in favor. Check out the results here:

This month we ask: What are your favorite positions for sex?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,

Nan and Christi

In Memorium: Ted Kennedy

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

That Door to Your Temple

Friday, August 14th, 2009

Karen Williams
“Kick open that door to your temple and let people in!”

So says Karen Williams, and watching once again her 2008 live show from the Knitting Factory in Hollywood is a good wakeup call.

We say yes! It’s time. Forget that moan-and-groan, I-don’t-wanna-have-sex attitude. Sex is good, and good for you. Sex is fun. Sex is real.

So quit whimpering and get inspired. Dress up. Get loose. Strap on. Try something you’ve never tried before.

And if you need some true inspiration, watch a sexy DVD. You won’t regret it.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Sex Tips: Where’s My Pole???

Friday, August 14th, 2009

by Shar Rednour
I remember Fanny Fatale doing “Stripping for Your Lover” classes back before every reality star on Earth was installing a pole in her living room. I was at my son’s preschool the other day and all the straight moms were discussing which pole-dancing class to take! They were actually embarrassed that the new mom on the block (me) overheard them. Hilarious.

Dancing to entice your prey is so sexy. My favorite part of One Night Stand is the beginning when they are dancing at the club and end up in a hot bathroom make-out. I love it.

In Hard Love we have a femme Renee stripping for a butch and–I think the first ever butch (Devon) to strip on screen. You can easily watch her moves for tips on how to do this at home. She is not perfect–I actually taught her in the moment on set. And that is a good learning tool.

The pros make it look easy, then you try it and fall down getting off your panties!

Tip 1: Don’t wear panties. Joking. Lie down on your back and stretch your legs above your head to take off your panties. Butches or masculine folks: have your babe or boi pull down your briefs for you to find a big surprise waiting!Finger Sucking JPG_opt

I find the anticipation of sex one of the best ways to get yourself eaten alive.

Tip 2: When doing a striptease, judge your audience. Is your lover (or lovers) going to be able to sit there and wait until the show is over with? Try tying her up to a kitchen chair (with no arms) with your bathrobe sash if think she is going to scoop you up and carrying you off to bed before the show is over with. Did you see how Renee and Devon ravaged each other after the heat factor went up from the stripping?

glove fisting JPG_optI KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING–what’s so bad about being dragged off to bed before the tease is done? Or better yet thrown right down and fucked silly right there on the floor? Well, it is better. If you make them wait, and squirm, and salivate, and make their fists open and close, fingers and cocks rising waiting. Trust me. It’s better.

Tip 3: For those wearing combat boots or any boots: Untie or loosen your laces before you get started. Our PA loved loosening Johnny Fremont’s (Devon’s) laces. I had to slap her to get her out of the shot.

Tip 4: Front-closure bras. That does help.

Tip 5: Zippers not buttons. Whether it’s a long zipper down your back that you need help with or a dykedick hiding under Levi’s fly.

Note: intermediates and pros can handle some buttons of course. Just practice. When there’s no time, grab the clothes with zippers. And if they stick–be prepared to lose the dress forever because you’ll want to just rip it off!

Bonus Tip: You don’t need a pole to strip for your lover.


hard_love_dvdShar Rednour is the femme diva who runs S.I.R. Video with her partner, Jackie Strano. She is also the director of Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, Sugar High Glitter City and many other sexy DVDs.

Reminder: Sizzling Sale is On!

Friday, August 14th, 2009

As a token of our appreciation, we’re offering a Sizzling Summer Savings of 10% – 20% off when you order during August. The discounts automatically show up in your shopping cart when you drop items in. One DVD is 10% off, two DVDs gets you 15% off and three or more is 20% off plus free shipping.

See all Fatale’s DVDs.

What’s Porn to You?

Thursday, August 13th, 2009

Don’t forget to vote in the current poll.

For August we ask: How important is porn in your life?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex,

Nan and Christi