Archive for July, 2008

Gay Marriage * Your Favorite Position?

Thursday, July 31st, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: Do you think gay marriage should be legalized?

By an overwhelming majority, gay marriage should be legalized! Not surprising, given the source of the question. Gay-marriage advocates are doing the right thing!

You can see all the results here.

This month we ask: What’s your favorite position for mind-blowing orgasms?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

Sexy Senior Moments

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

We were heartened to read an article the other day in the Washington Post, “Seniors Having More Sex Than Ever” by Alan Mozes.

The senior set—those men and women in their late sixties, seventies and beyond—have increased not only the frequency of sex, but also the quality of their couplings, according to a Swedish study. This study has been ongoing for 30 years, so there’s a strong basis for comparison.

“Women seemed to make the most headway in terms of increasing their sexual satisfaction,” according to the article. While the study doesn’t go into the whys of this newfound satisfaction, we can take a stab at why women are more satisfied.

For one thing, much more information is out there about female ejaculation and the role of the G-spot in spurring women’s satisfaction. Educators like Deborah Sundahl have been teaching women old and young how to find their g-spots.

Couples, we’ve found, are more adventurous, too. Bend Over Boyfriend, now celebrating its 10th anniversary, has worked for tens of thousands of couples who want to spice up their sex lives.

Gone are the days when men had no options for increasing their virility, and gone are the days when widows and married women just didn’t feel like it. We say kudos to those sexy seniors!

Now, if only next time they’d talk to senior lesbians and gay men. We bet there’d be some real “senior moments” from the queer set!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Lesbian Group Sex

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

We received a letter from a reader recently that said in part:

“I’m not sure if you can help me with this, but I’m looking for a movie or movies that have group sex scenes where butches take turns having their way with a femme (strap-on etc.).”

Here’s a list of Fatale’s top-selling DVDs that feature lesbian group sex scenes:

1. Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels – S.I.R. Video’s tour de force mixes it up with lots of butch/femme action on Hard Love and some nice group scenes in How to Fuck in High Heels.

2. Afterschool Special and Turn Me Up Over and On – Afterschool Special is one of the best amateur group scenes we’ve seen in a long time. On the same DVD as Turn Me Up, a sweet butch/femme moment.

3. Bathroom Sluts – This classic lesbian title has five women who explore group sex in – you guessed it! – the bathroom.

One Night Stand

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

One Night Stand

Fatale’s newest DVD is hot, hot, hot! Shot in Paris and loaded with bonus extras, One Night Stand is a must-see.

Fatale’s Top-Selling DVDs

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008

Several people have asked us what our top-selling titles are. Short and sweet, here you go for the month of June, 2008.

Fatale’s Top 5 Best-Selling DVDs
1. One Night Stand – Fatale’s latest from those sexy girls in Paris.

2. Bend Over Boyfriend – How women can strap on and do their guys. The instructional anal-sex-for-women DVD.

3. The Crash Pad – “Here’s the key to the crash pad” – don’t miss what happens to the dykes inside.

4. Bend Over Boyfriend 2 – “More rockin’ less talkin'”

5. How to Female Ejaculate – The title says it all. If you want to find your g-spot and gush away, this is it!

Thank you for celebrating Gay Pride with us, too, and making Fatale’s June Gay Pride Special a success.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Sex Tips & Tricks – Sex in the Bathroom

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008

By Anactoria Jones, accomplished blogger and a true wit.

Rub a dub dub…

Fun in a Tub

…three men in a tub. They tell this to children?

Remember the sex scene at the end Bull Durham with dozens of candles surrounding an antique claw-foot bathtub?

The bathroom is a wonderful place to refresh and relax, to soak away aches out of muscles and get in the mood. To actually have sex there it helps to prepare in advance: getting the right supplies ready makes the real moment go smoothly. Susan Sarandon’s character in that movie never muttered over a pack of wet matches. You can be sure she kept a Bic lighter within easy reach of that tub.

To recreate the Bull Durham magic try a pack of tea light candles. They’re easy to set up and create a magnificent glow. You can also transform mundane to extraordinary with a bouquet of rose petals floating in steaming water.

The tub can be the ideal place to shave a loved one’s pubic hair—it’s the easiest place to rinse off. The secret is to keep it comfortable. Try an inflatable cushion to comfort the neck and shoulders of the person being shaved, or for the person on the receiving end of oral sex in the bathtub. If you’ll be standing up while intertwined in the tub or the shower, use traction strips or a mat for a safe no-slip experience.

In case you transit to the bedroom (many do), tie up long hair with a scrunchy to keep it dry. Stock massage oils on the nightstand for sensuous post-bathing rubs. And have extra towels handy so the only puddles you leave on the sheets are the right ones.

To check out a fabulous bathroom scene, check out One Night Stand or the classic Bathroom Sluts.

Ask Fanny – Female Ejaculate Smells and Leaves Stains

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Hi Deborah,
My partner of two years has always ejaculated freely and has been a bit despondent that she was not “normal”—her juices flow fantastically when I stimulate her g spot; we are now getting her equally excited with clitoral stimulation. On a recent holiday we made love on our balcony and she really let go and flooded the place!
My only concern with this is that, contrary to much reading on the subject, her juices do smell quite strongly of urine, and do stain my mattress quite badly. Should we be concerned? As the joy I get from pleasing her so is fantastic I want to do it to her all the time.

U.K. Fan

Dear U.K. Fan,
It is not uncommon for ejaculate to occasionally smell like urine, and for some women, the smell of urine can be strong and ejaculate can leave stains on the sheets.

Sometimes a woman’s ejaculate is strong with urine during the second phase of her menstrual cycle. Another factor that can cause this is pushing too hard to try to ejaculate. 

It may be possible to curtail the flow of urine with some practice and an acute awareness of the sensation of ejaculating versus the sensation of urinating. This may take a while—a year or more—to master, and it may not work in all cases.  However, I believe the urine can be decreased by lessening forceful pushing out and with more physical awareness of the difference between body fluids.

A gentle reminder, as well, to you that although female ejaculate is exciting to you and you want to do it all the time, please remember that women’s bodies are indeed delicate and perhaps too much stimulation and her trying to please you with more and more ejaculate could also be causing her to push too hard and too often.

Female ejaculate is best enjoyed when it flows easily from the body as a shower of love and connection and joy…and for a woman, a balcony would be just the thing….


For more advanced tips on how to female ejaculate, check out Deborah Sundahl’s new DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.