Archive for March, 2012

In the Spring

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Christi and Nan's apricot tree March 2012Easily a month earlier than usual, trees and flowers are blooming.

“In the Spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.”

So wrote Alfred, Lord Tennyson, the great Victorian poet, in “Locksley Hall.”

Here are our favorite frolics to celebrate springtime, good for lovers, good for romance, good for hookups!

• Corny as it sounds, our favorite way to welcome spring is to take a walk. Hold hands. Sip an iced coffee along the way. Say hello to the neighbors…or not…

• Have lunch at the beach. Pretend it’s your first date.

• Talk to Me BabyNo beach in sight? Find a low-lit Italian place and talk dirty to each other. It’s even more fun during the day.

• Borrow a friend’s dungeon. Okay, everybody doesn’t have a friend with a dungeon. But making love in somebody else’s “crash pad” is terribly sexy. Bring your own toys.

• Single and randy? Pick up a girl. Hit your favorite bar or coffee shop, make contact and take her home. Indulge yourself in a one-night stand.

• Go dancing. All that heat and sweat and oozing energy feeds the libido like nothing else.

• Special Delivery Do yourself. To celebrate springtime, you have all the power in your hot little hand.

Don’t’ forget to post your sexy moments on Facebook. Fatale Media’s Facebook wall welcomes your posts too. Be coy. We love a tease!

Happy spring!

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Don’t forget to check out Live Sex Show starring Jiz Lee and Nina Hartley—a springtime inspiration if there ever was one!

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDs.

Deborah Sundahl on Tour

Friday, March 30th, 2012

Deborah Sundahl Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert and female-ejaculation queen Deborah Sundahl—you may also know her as Fatale Media columnist “Ask Fanny”—is headed on tour, beginning in California on April 3, 2012 at the Pure Pleasure Store in Santa Cruz, California.

After California, she heads up the West Coast to Oregon and Washington. More information about these free, informative lectures is available at .

In addition to these lectures, there are one-day G-spot workshops for women. These all-day workshops are very reasonable at $95.

Female Ejaculation Workshops:

April 7, 2012
Sonoma County, CA
9:00 am – 5:00 pm Cost $95
Contact: Deborah Sundahl

April 22, 2012
Portland, OR
10:00 am – 5:00 pm
Cost $95
Lotus Heart Center

For more information, contact: Deborah Sundahl

Later in the year Deborah is headed to Germany. Stay tuned for more information!

Female Ejaculation for CouplesP.S. Deborah’s bestselling DVDs Female Ejaculation: The Workshop and Female Ejaculation for Couples give you a great way to experience a G-spot workshop from the comfort of your home.

New Poll: Reason for Porn?

Thursday, March 29th, 2012

Shar Rednour with Glasses and Wine BottleMonogamy, threesomes, polyamory! Last month we asked, “What’s your ideal?” Check out the results.

This month, we’re curious:

Do you need a reason to watch porn?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

P.S. For the third month in a row, the bestselling lesbian favorite is…drum roll, please…Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels. Clearly a butch/femme favorite!


Butches We Love

Friday, March 16th, 2012

The past week suddenly found us in a convergence of butches that was utterly fun and, for Christi, utterly glorious.

An e-mail came through saying, “Butch Sightings (@butchsightings) is now following you on Twitter.” Logging in to Twitter @FataleMedia, we returned the follow and proceeded to Whoa! Nice blog.

Started as an “social interactive art project” and written by a “fat queer sort-of Jewish white femme from the West Coast,” Butch Sightings was inspired by “butches & studs (females and/or women who appear masculine, queer, old school, dyke, bulldagger, aggressive [AG] and other terms to be added.”

The photos are great, and we hope one day this photographin’ femme comes to take a picture of Nan!

Nan Kinney and Kim Airs on the Big VibeHere’s a picture from last Saturday of Nan on the Big Vibe—with Big Vibe owner Kim Airs of Grand Opening playing the instigator. After this we headed to the beach, Paradise Cove in Malibu…heaven in springtime.

When We Were Outlaws by Jeanne CordovaSaturday evening found us at the beautiful home of Jeanne Cordova and Lynn H. Ballen in Los Angeles. It had been many years since Christi had seen them, and the first time Nan had met them. Jeanne is the author of the critically acclaimed When We Were Outlaws (Spinsters Ink, 2011), which we quite enjoyed. Here are some reviews of the book at Jeanne’s blog, This Lesbian Life.

It was a lovely weekend in Los Angeles. Next time we’ll plan a visit to Oakland to visit another exquisite butch, our friend Jackie Strano.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

Hard Love Starring Jackie StranoP.S. Jackie Strano is the star, with director and femme extraordinaire Shar Rednour, of  the sexy lesbian DVD Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

For the second month in a row, Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels–it’s a double DVD–has been Fatale’s #1 bestseller.


Top 5 Favorite Butch Porn Movies

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Shine Louise HoustonSexy dyke movies that star butches—we can’t get enough of butch-femme scenes, and when you’re in the mood, the butch-butch scenes are delicious.

There is no question that Jackie Strano and Shar Rednour’s S.I.R. Video and the one and only Shine Louise Houston feature more butches in their movies than other directors.

It was hard to pick our favorites, but here goes—our Top 5 Favorite Butch Porn Movies:

The Crash Pad1. The Crash Pad. By now the standard-bearer and the place to begin if you’re new to the movies of award-winning Shine Louise Houston. Winner of “Hottest Dyke Sex Scene” from the Feminist Porn Awards, the DVD was also named “Best Lesbian Porn” by

There are so many beautiful butches in here, and such exquisite butch-femme sex, we can watch this again and again and again…It’s a turn-on every time.


Hard Love Starring Jackie Strano2. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels. Hard Love stars the gorgeous butch Jackie Strano and her lover and femme-in-arms Shar Rednour. Also named “Best Lesbian Porn” by, they said:

“This super sexy double DVD from S.I.R. videos features a multiracial cast of real queer girls, plenty of dildo action, real orgasms…”



Sexy Dallas Stars in Champion3. Champion. Another winner from Shine Louise Houston, Champion stars Syd Blakovich and takes us right into the Mixed Martial Arts ring, up against sexy, feisty, passionate Dallas. Fleshbot wrote:

‘Champion’ delivers, and it delivers in style. The film follows the story of fighting champion Jessie (played by newly discovered Crush Object Syd Blakovich), a dyke Casanova who’s conquered as many women out of the ring as she has in. But despite her history of success, things start to get rocky for Jessie. Will her hard dyke image ruin her career?”


Butch Fire from Full Load4. Full Load. Director Barbara DGenevieve trains her camera on butches with an unerring eye–she loves the butch bottoms, the butches who love their femmes, the butches who aren’t afraid to play.

Butch Fire” is a scene that dives right into the butch-butch rough-and-tumble, with no holds barred.

“This is a tasty video,” wrote Greta Christina in On Our Backs. “Butch and FTM fans, load up.”


The Crash Pad Series Volume 25. The Crash Pad Series Volume 2. It was really hard to pick among the Crash Pad Series DVDs…Shine Louise Houston peppers her casts with butches who are so handsome and self-possessed it’s hard to say which one is “best.” Jake and Wilder, way to go!

But after The Crash Pad, we love The Crash Pad Series Volume 2 for its real butch action. Butch-butch and butch-femme scenes make this a must-see!


Nan on the Big Vibe

Thursday, March 15th, 2012
Nan Kinney and Kim Airs on the Big Vibe

Nan Kinney and Kim Airs on the Big Vibe, Culver City, CA

Poll Reminder: Is Monogamy Your Ideal?

Wednesday, March 14th, 2012

This month, the poll is about monogamy, threeways, multiple partners and polyamory. We ask:

What’s your ideal?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex! Nan and Christi

P.S. Order three DVDs and get free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S. Check out these Fatale Media favorites.


Saturday, March 3rd, 2012


Throughout the years, we’ve met people in open relationships. Call it polyamory or, as some people prefer, polyfidelity.

A few years ago “polyamory” piqued the interest of journalists. The Daily Beast wondered if polyamory was the “next sexual revolution.Big Love was big on HBO, and while the Book of Mormon was still in development, Mitt Romney was already planning his 2012 comeback as a presidential candidate.

Polyamorous Percolations is a blog that focuses on polyamory in the news. If you’re curious, it’s a good place to get the gist of poly “issues,” and there are issues. But clearly there’s also a lot of pleasure.

What struck us was the way some triads and foursomes (and moresomes) identified as straight, lesbian or bisexual.

We also stumbled upon a good article reprinted from Autostraddle called “Queer Polyamory for Lesbians.”

Speaking of Autostraddle, congratulations to them for winning three 2012 Webbies last Sunday and scooping up the coveted “Weblog of the Year.”

We love especially their NSFW Lesbosexy Sundays.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. One of our favorite flicks with a steamy dyke threeway is Shine Louise Houston’s Superfreak. Here’s a blog post listing the others, Good Lesbian PolyPleasure7 must-see movies.


Good Lesbian PolyPleasure

Friday, March 2nd, 2012

Here is a list of 7 lesbian movies, in no particular order, that celebrate polyamory, or feature group sex, in one or more scenes:

Superfreak Best Dyke Sex SceneSuperfreak. Shine Louise Houston’s steamy flick starring Madison Young won the Feminist Porn Awards “Best Dyke Scene,” and we know why. In the last scene, when Lorelei Lee arrives late to this all-queer party, and Dana DeArmond and Princess Donna jump her bones “as if they’re starving for sex and she’s and the last woman on Earth….One of the hottest scenes I’ve ever seen in a porn.” – All Sex Reviews


The Wild Search threeway with Jiz LeeThe Wild Search. Also from Shine Louise Houston is the retitled Wild Search (formerly In Search of the Wild Kingdom). “Funny, entertaining dialogue interspersed with very hot and believable sex scenes, and a multiracial cast of real queer women,” wrote, naming Wild Search in its lineup of “Best Lesbian Porn.” Wil and Papi take the delectable Jiz Lee in an orgasm-inducing threeway worth every moment.


Sugar High Glitter CitySugar High Glitter City. Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano star in this sci-fi fantasy that culminates in a wild femme-femme-butch menage a trois. wrote: “Laced with massive dildos and luscious candy, Sugar High Glitter City is sure to keep you tuned in and turned on from erotic and impassioned love-making to down-and-dirty, kinky sex.”


Afterschool Special. Lesbian gangbang at its finest.

FHM said it best: “This video was so excellent, I couldn’t believe it was filmed by amateurs (but I’ve been promised that’s the truth). There’s a schoolgirl gangbang, more dildos than you can shake a stick at, and dykes masturbating in every corner. The star of the film is an adorable, innocent-looking schoolgirl with enormous size-E boobies…”


Seven Minutes in HeavenSeven Minutes in Heaven. Courtney Trouble’s queer gonzo is wall-to-wall sex. These girls are hot!

From Viviane’s Sex Carnival: “Where one scene ends, the other begins and  the sex and play seems to go on forever, with bodies changing places, a new  strap-on here, a new twosome, threesome or foursome reveling in hot, sexy, authentic, queer, smoldering, diverse,  inter-racial hardcore sex.”


Suburban DykesSuburban Dykes. The classic lesbian threesome starring Nina Hartley, Pepper and Miss Sharon Mitchell. The sweet suburban, curious couple (Nina and Pepper) decide to hire a lesbian escort…and the fun really begins when Miss Sharon Mitchell shows up!


New Poll: Your Ideal in Life?

Thursday, March 1st, 2012

Last month, we asked if romance was for you. Romance rules! Check out the results.

There’s been some mumblings about monogamy in the Twitterverse and the news lately, which got us to thinking:

What’s your ideal in life?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

P.S. Check out the new Courtney Trouble DVD Live Sex Show.

Starring Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee, this is one hot tamale from the evermore interesting Courtney Trouble.