Archive for May, 2012

New Poll: Your Favorite Way to Celebrate Gay Pride?

Thursday, May 31st, 2012

Last month was National Masturbation Month, or so the story goes, and we asked: When do you masturbate? A few fanciful answers, wishful thinking in some cases, caught your fancy. Check out the results.

Rainbow Flag GermanyGay Pride always inspires a sense of how far we’ve come since Stonewall. So this month, we want to know:

What’s your favorite way to celebrate Gay Pride?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

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The Best Interracial Real Dyke Sex Scenes

Friday, May 18th, 2012

Shine Louise Houston, Crash Pad director, as the Ghost of Rick James

Thinking a lot about race lately, maybe because President Obama came out in favor of gay marriage this past week. In the hullaballoo that followed, we were struck by how not that long ago, interracial marriage was illegal too.

In fact, interracial dyke sex scenes are not as prevalent as one might think.

Just to see what else was out there, we did a quick search. Did we really think we’d find real dyke porn ranked high on Google? But there was nothing real in the results searching best interracial dyke sex scenes.

There were pictures of professional (straight) porn stars pretending to make love, and really it was all for the camera. Alas.

But hey, that’s why Fatale Media exists.

So without further ado:

The Best Interracial Real Dyke Sex Scenes

– a completely subjective list –

Ray hitchhikes in The Crash Pad Series Volume 6

Ray, The Crash Pad Series Volume 6

1. The Crash Pad Series Volume 6 by Shine Louise Houston.

The hitchhiker scene is one of our favorites, certainly one of the best scenes in the movie, wherein Carson picks up the beautiful Ray and takes her to the Crash Pad. Yum.




Coming Home

2. Coming Home by Carolyn Caizzi.

The real-life interracial couple Miss Angelene and Chance play a lovely Peter Pan and Tinkerbell fantasy.



Jiz Lee and Papi Coxxx in The Wild Search

Jiz and Papi in The Wild Search

3. The Wild Search, also by Shine Louise Houston. Here we get a threeway with Wil and Papi, who take the willing Jiz Lee. This scene won a Feminist Porn Award, and rightly so. The choo-choo train is one of the most memorable scenes in queer dyke porn!



Tina Horn and Jae in Seven Minutes in Heaven

Tina Horn and Jae, Seven Minutes in Heaven

4. Seven Minutes in Heaven by Courtney Trouble.

Viviane’s Sex Carnival called this nonstop sex flick “A  fantastic fuck-fest featuring strap-ons and gang-bangs, spanking, role-play and  power exchanges….

“Where one scene ends, the other begins and the sex and play seems to go on forever, with bodies changing places….reveling in hot, sexy, authentic, queer, smoldering, diverse,  inter-racial hardcore sex.”






Ava and Luke in Turn Me Up
Ava and Luke in Turn Me Up Over and On

5. Turn Me Up Over and On. Does this olive-skinned beauty Ava and her pale-skinned butch lover Luke qualify as interracial sex? We think it deserves another look.

Amateur porn at its best, with a touch of suspense, romance and two gorgeous bodies have wild, heady sex. Coupled with Afterschool Special, which features a diverse cast, Turn Me Up Over and On still makes us tingle.


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Gay Marriage

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

Spectrum of Light by Bob Staake New Yorker

“I wanted to celebrate the bravery of the President’s statement—a statement long overdue—but all the more appreciated in this political year. We  are on the right side of history,” says artist Bob Staake on “Spectrum of Light,” the cover of the May 21, 2012 issue of the New Yorker.

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Satisfaction…Getting No?

Friday, May 4th, 2012

Wendy Delorme Sexual Satisfaction and Female EjaculationThe issue of women’s satisfaction in bed has been of more than passing interest to us since the beginning. After all, that’s how Fatale Media came of age.

Our friend Deborah Sundahl, known also as “Ask Fanny,” is our very own female-ejaculation expert who knows a thing or two about women’s satisfaction in bed. After all, she teaches women and couples how to expand their relationships and how to achieve sexual satisfaction they couldn’t have dreamed of before.

Curious, we asked Deborah what questions she gets most often about sex. In response, she sent us a new “Ask Fanny” column.

  • What is “the urge to female ejaculate”?
  • Why can’t a woman have G-spot orgasms each time she and her partner make love?

These are the questions Deborah addresses in her Q&A “The Urge to Female Ejaculate,” and in her female-ejaculation workshops.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan

P.S. Deborah’s next female ejaculation for couples workshop is to be held in Seattle, June 1-3, 2012. You can also experience one of Deborah’s workshops in Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDs.

Ask Fanny: The Urge to Female Ejaculate

Friday, May 4th, 2012

Deborah Sundahl G-Spot ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

My partner ejaculates now and then, and we are wondering how to make it happen all the time. We have been together about 12 years now, and she often feels “uncomfortable” in her pelvis area after lovemaking.

Jacob from Olympia, WA

Dear Jacob,

You are not alone in wanting to know how to make female ejaculation happen all the time, or at least when you’d like it to. This is a common question for many couples. The uncomfortable feeling of pressure that she is experiencing after you make love is female ejaculate that has not had a chance to be released. What to do?

First off, remember it is okay if a woman does not ejaculate every time she makes love. To put that kind of pressure on her—really, on both of you—is to run the risk of making the female ejaculate stop altogether, which it will.

Next, here are some of the possible reasons why your partner is not ejaculating every time the two of you make love:

• Oftentimes, women mistake the urge to ejaculate as the urge to pee and therefore clamp down on the urge to ejaculate.

• Women don’t always trust that this is indeed female ejaculate, and therefore (almost instinctively), they don’t let go, physically and emotionally.

• Most women are not aware of the many sensations inside the vagina, including the G-spot’s erotic sensations. In order to ejaculate, a woman needs to be more aware of these varied sensations. It may seem counterintuitive, but this lack of awareness actually can lead a woman to control her ejaculate so it won’t release; she holds back; she doesn’t trust the urge to ejaculate.

The best way that I have determined from teaching my female-ejaculation and the G-spot workshops for many years now is to do a meditation massage session, at least five of these in the space of 2-3 weeks.

G-spot massage allows a woman to connect with the vaginal and G-spot sensations of pleasure. This is not about masturbating per se, stimulating the G-spot to pleasure; this is about getting acquainted via touch with one’s G-spot in a deeper way than just knowing how to stimulate it to create pleasure.

The end result is of course more pleasure and more control in a good way over the ability to female ejaculate.

And, just as importantly but far more overlooked, you and your partner benefit from gaining an intimate knowledge with what the G-spot feels like when it is not in high-gear, erotic performance mode.

By trying massage, women feel so much more connected to their G-spots and to the “urge to ejaculate.” Through this process, a woman becomes conscious of her ability to control her ejaculate. This means she no longer holds back, but understands how to ejaculate whenever she wants (or not)!

Next time, we’ll discuss how to massage your G-spot. Stay tuned!


P.S. Deborah Sundahl teaches these skills to couples in her annual weekend workshop for couples, taking place this year on a lovely island just west of Seattle, June 1-3, 2012.

P.P.S. Experience a workshop with Deborah Sundahl’s bestselling Female Ejaculation: The Workshop and Female Ejaculation for Couples.


New Poll: When Do You Masturbate?

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

We urge you to comment on your experiences–simply click “Post a comment” below.

Last month, the notion of not watching porn was mostly a nonstarter when we wondered if you needed a reason to watch porn.

Check out the results.

This month, it’s up to you to guess where we were when we came up with this sex poll question:

When do you masturbate?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous.

We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi

Dylan masturbating in Crash Pad Series Volume 3

P.S. The superb Dylan provides one of our favorite masturbation scenes in Shine Louise Houston’s The Crash Pad Series Volume 3 – Through the Keyhole.