Archive for March, 2010

Is Anal Sex Your Bag * Do You Go Down?

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

In the last poll, we asked: Is anal sex your bag?

Lots of votes on this one, and it’s really rather astounding when you add up the always, sometimes and it’s okay answers, versus the “never” answers. A lot of wide open butts out there!

Check out the results here:

This month we ask: Do you go down on your girlfriend?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

P.S. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Snorkeling and Scandalous

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Former Congressman Eric MassaWe’ve watched with amusement over the last week as the media has grappled with the notion of former Congressman Eric Massa “snorkeling” and tickling his fellow housemates—interns and others—in his Washington, D.C., townhouse…or perhaps that should that be bunkhouse.

Even comedian Bill Maher, a guest on MSBNC’s Countdown with Keith Olbermann, was stumped on the snorkeling, not having heard the term.

Here’s a clip from Huffington Post of Bill Maher ragging on Massa

Maybe Massa should have checked out Bend Over Boyfriend for a little fantasy-comes-to-life fun.

He’s not gay, right? (Here’s what he told Larry King.)

The luscious women at Scandalous Women did a fabulous review of Bend Over Boyfriend in the article, “Bending Your Boyfriends Over.”

“If your bag of carnal tricks doesn’t include “pegging” yet, rest assured this bedroom role reversing power play will soon be appearing in one of your upcoming booty calls!

“[U]seful tips and advice on building your confidence to approach your men about anal sex, how to find the right strapon (size matters!) and how to fuck him so it doesn’t hurt…much. Role-playing and fantasy are also explored to a degree and it asks the all important question, ‘what do women get out of this?’ The answer – when a dildo is strapped on it’s usually positioned right over your clit and you have rhythmic sensations right where it counts.”

Thanks, ladies!

Till next time, yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. If you haven’t checked out Bend Over Boyfriend yet, do it! You can also get Bend Over Boyfriend and Bend Over Boyfriend 2 together and save 15%.

Your Letters

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

Thanks to a reader for this comment to “Skirts and Strapons”:

“Surely you’re not suggesting Marlene Dietrich was straight?”

Okay, point well taken. (Bashful gulp.)

Constance McMillanNext up, thanks to our friend Chuck for sending along the news of yet another GLBT high-school student who’s been ragged on. But this time the ACLU is coming to the rescue.  We were saddened to see that the teen’s Jackson, Mississippi, high school cancelled its senior prom because 18-year-old Constance McMillen, a lesbian, wanted to not only take her girlfriend, a student at the same school, but also to wear a tux. What’s wrong with a tux? Geez.

Apparently wearing a tux violates school policy. In 2010?! They can’t be serious. But they are. The ACLU has filed a suit on McMillen’s behalf to have the school reinstate the senior prom. According to the AP report, “Lesbian Teen Sues to Force School to Hold Prom,” a fellow student said to McMillan, “Thanks for ruining my senior year.”

Lastly, thanks to our friend Ruth for sending along this op-ed by none other than the venerable Desmond Tutu, the Nobel Prize-winning peace activist, about gays and lesbians: “Love all God’s children, gay or straight.”

Snip: “Hate has no place in the house of God. No one should be excluded from our love, our compassion or our concern because of race or gender, faith or ethnicity — or because of their sexual orientation.”

The Washington Post ( is not very user friendly, and you’ll have to sign in, but you can sign in using your Facebook account to access the article. Well worth the read. Thanks, Ruth.

Let’s Pretend to Be Lesbians

Monday, March 15th, 2010

Rather shocking ad, a double-page spread, in the latest Martha Stewart Living appears to advertise the Jones New York clothing line available at Macy’s. Huh?

Why are these two straight girls holding hands and looking as if they’ve just eaten forbidden fruit?

Here’s the picture (don’t choke):

Skirts and Strapons

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

An old friend and customer wrote to us lately asking for statistics on strapons.

He wants to know how many butches are out there really—he calls butches “manly women,” but he may well mean exactly that, straight women who wear a suit and tie. We don’t know of too many straight women who go in men’s clothes. Been a while since Marlene Dietrich did her thing.

He also wants to know how many older women are out trolling for younger men. And how many women who wear strapons like to stroke their strapons.

For all these questions, we have no answers, not being sociologists or even sexologists but rather pornographers.

Here’s our favorite question:
“Are skirts still popular, or are they going out of style? They seem old-fashioned to me. I would prefer to a woman in a pantsuit any day.”

For this we must ask a femme…or a drag queen. And the answer is resoundingly no! Skirts are not going out of style.

Hard Love and How to Fuck in High HeelsThe most popular butch/femme DVD we carry is Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels by the gorgeous femme Shar Rednour and her handsome lover Jackie Strano.

Anybody check out Fashion Week last month? “Calf-grazing skirts.”

Lady Gaga in her Muppet SkirtOf course, don’t tell Lady Gaga.

Or her Muppet skirt.

If you have answers or commentary, please let it all out! Click the Comments button here.

We want to know what you think, too.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

What’s Romance * Is Anal Sex Your Bag?

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

In the last poll, we asked: What’s romance to you?

Not as many votes this time, but of those who did, romance has a lot to do with staying at home and cuddling up.

Check out the results here:

This month we ask: Is anal sex your bag?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi