In the midst of all the excitement over the last two weeks, we’ve been following the gay marriage cases before the U.S. Supreme Court.

Our friend Chuck, who lives in Louisiana, sends us good articles and lots of good karma. This week, he sent this, with a note:

“I found a news story to show that there are many changes that need to take place when it comes to being there for the one you love.”

Here is the Huffington Post story, “Gay Man Arrested.”

“When I read this story, I thought about you ladies….This is the reason why the same-sex marriage issue has been taken to the U.S. Supreme Court. This is the reason why same sex couples around the country are fighting for benefits like heterosexual couples.”

Thank you, Chuck, for your kind words and staying on top of this important issue.

Did you know? Your satisfaction is 100% guaranteed when you shop with Fatale Media.

Here’s a recent note from a customer:

I had never watched porn before I bought Sugar High Glitter City from you. I thought it was fascinating…and hot! Thank you for having a good selection of interesting porn for me to explore and a very simple and not-creepy website!

Extended through January 15, 2013, you get free fast shipping from Fatale (half-price outside the U.S.).

If you have any questions or comments, you can always e-mail us:  customer_service at FataleMedia.com

Or call toll-free in the U.S.: 1-888-5-FATALE (888-532-8253)

Check out all Fatale’s sexy movies.

We got an interesting e-mail the other day, from someone asking for a suggestion on ordering his first porn video. He wanted to know what we thought were one of our “better videos.” His friends are lesbian, and he wanted to surprise them.

Here’s what we suggested for a “first lesbian porn video”:

1. Coming Home. This romantic bestseller by Carolyn Caizzi features a big curvy butch/femme couple you won’t soon forget.

2. The Crash Pad. There’s an element of mystery in this bestseller, with the shiver of voyeurism. Felice Newman wrote that The Crash Pad “features the hottest lesbian sex scenes I’ve ever had the pleasure of viewing.”

Then we’d recommend any of these:

3. One Night Stand. The club scene, with great music. Those French dykes know what they’re doing! AVN wrote, “[Emilie] Jouvet, like Goddard before her, dares to capture lightning in a bottle.”

4. Sugar High Glitter City. Glam fun, playful and fanciful.

5. Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels is another good “first” choice if you like it rough. Indeed it’s a Fatale Media bestseller and has a variety of sexy scenes.

What would you recommend for a “first-time” video? Click Post a Comment below and let us know what you think.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. See more about and read reviews of our favorite dyke videos.

One recent comment here on the Fatale Media Blog we wanted to share with you:

I am so grateful to Fatale Media. Just received my DVDs yesterday and “Female Ejaculation: The Workshop” has already changed three women’s lives!

We were so ready for this information, and now we are going to share it with everyone we know!! I watched the first 47 minutes and then went to the shower, used my dildo for 30 seconds and ejaculated!

I have had an ejaculation before, but now I understand how to do it! Hooray! thanks thanks thanks!!!

You are very welcome!

Changing women’s lives—for the better—makes us very, very happy.

Deborah Sundahl’s work on female ejaculation and the G-spot has been groundbreaking and like no other.

In addition to Female Ejaculation: The Workshop, check out another of Deborah’s videos about how to female ejaculate: Female Ejaculation for Couples.

Last month, we wondered if you would masturbate or have sex on a stage, like the people do in Courtney Trouble’s new DVD, Live Sex Show. We asked: Would you ever masturbate or have sex on a stage for an audience?

Lonely Dude, also known as “Straight, single and celibate in the SoCal desert” wrote:

“I most definitely would perform onstage alone,  or with someone else.  But only if there were no video cameras, no still cameras, no cell phones, etc. But in front of a live audience of onlookers, 2 people or 20 or 200,  oh yes, that would be great fun for them and me.  My ideas are far too wild, far too kinky for the dating world,  but I’d put on a great show for spectators if I ever had  the chance.”

Thanks, Lonely Dude. Maybe you want to head to San Francisco for the next Masturbate-a-Thon.

See all the November 2011 poll results.

This month, after having read an interesting article in the New York Times Magazine called “Teaching Good Sex” by Laurie Abraham. Discussing the idea of “introducing pleasure to the peril of sex education,” one seemingly enlightened sex-ed teacher in Philadelphia is quoted as saying: “[T]here is no romanticism or intimacy in porn, porn is strictly sexual.”

We ask: In your opinion, is porn, in the words of one high-school sex-ed teacher, “strictly sexual”?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you happy holidays and deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out one of our favorite, most romantic and intimate porn DVDs, Coming Home by Carolyn Caizzi.

We love your letters and notes, your tweets and retweets, your FB mentions. Thank you.

Here’s a note we received last week:

“Thanks for offering these DVDs for sale. We have difficulty obtaining DVDs with lesbian content in Australia.  Very few titles available. So strange given that Sydney has probably the largest Mardi Gras parade in the world!”

–Priscilla in Australia

Thanks, Priscilla, for your kind words. Much appreciated.

Not long after we wrote about “bushy” last month, we got several e-mails from readers. We thought we’d share them here. (Letters are edited for style and spelling only.)

“I’m a 45 y.o. male from Tulsa OK. I hate bush!!! It just gets in the way of everything !!! If I go out with a lady that has a bush then I’ll do her but won’t go down on her. I love the look, feel, taste & everything about the shaved pussy, it just doesn’t get any better than bald!!!”

“Love the comments today. I love women with hairy bush. Do you have any videos for sale with women with hair?”

“I’ve been on your e-mail list and have purchased films this past Christmas. Do you have more films with bushy women than the one in this month’s e-mail blast? Yes, I’m a sort of kinky straight male, if I have to label myself. Actually a lot more, lol, but more on that later ….thank you.”

Okay, so here goes on the “hairy bush suggestions.” If we’re leaving any off, let us know and we’ll post more next time:
Afterschool Special (a double DVD with Turn Me Up Over and On) – some nice bush in evidence, especially on Ms. Hussy, the star dyke!

In case you’re wondering, that’s Ms. Hussy with the size EEE boobies lying down.

Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com. The last scene is a particularly nice one.

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These two gems by Carolyn Caizzi both have some “bushy ladies,” as Carolyn says, as well as some smooth:
Special Delivery

Coming Home

Our dear friend Tony wrote to us with some more insights into the oftentimes mysterious world of straight kinky relationships.

We’ve known Tony for years, and he has shared his perspectives on sex and politics and the geopolitical shifts that allow our worlds to intersect. In another place and time, our worlds would probably have never met.

But that’s the fun thing about what we do! We meet people from all over the world and from all walks of life. This business offers a wonderful place for intersections.

Our friend’s latest letter was edited slightly to avoid the e-mail censors; this is his original letter to us:

“I would like to see posting the issue of pubic hair. As I told you before, my four girls have bushy pubic hair, which gives me a great sexual appetite for a good fuck.

“I did some surveying here [in Massachusetts], asking many women if they shave or keep growing their cunt hair and why? The women who shave believe that it will be easy for them to masturbate and to be licked from both sexes.

“The other women keep growing their pubic hair, because while masturbating they love to feel the hair and touch it, especially this excites them while they are taking a shower, see the shampoo on their pubic hair, as they believe this makes them feel that their privates are special, different from others’. When it comes to sex, they get more orgasm feeling, from the tongue on their pubic hair and the dick.

“As for me I adore the pubic hair to be bushy, because once my girls finish peeing on my face and in my mouth, I suck dry their pubic hair, while doing that my girls and me, we get extreme sexual excitement.”

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. To see bushy public areas on display, check out Full Load: Scenes from ssspread.com. The last scene, down in the laundry, is a particularly nice one.

P.P.S. To read the letter that preceded this one, see “Advice on a Sexual Issue (Drinking Pee).”

A reader wrote: “I need your advice on a sexual issue. While we are having sex (me and the girls), they enjoy and get excited about peeing on me, which in return I do love. I want to know if it’s okay to drink the pee because on daily basis I drink [several] bottles.”

We discussed this sexual practice, also called “golden showers” if she just peed on you, and decided that it’s probably okay if you drink your girlfriends’ pee. If it doesn’t taste right, then don’t, but assuming they’re healthy and not eating anything that would affect the taste, then you’re probably good to go.

But we also wondered, was it really pee. Perhaps the girls are female ejaculating? Could it be female ejaculate you’re really drinking? Or partially?

When we e-mailed this reader to ask him, he replied, “It’s pee and not ejaculation, because one girl spreads her legs in a way her cunt is a few inches away from my month facing me, and she starts peeing inside my month (the taste is pee) while another is giving me oral sex, then once she finishes peeing and I drink all her pee, the others do the same, and you can now have a clear picture how much pee I drink. To tell you the truth it tastes good.

“The amazing thing is that every time they pee in my month and I swallow all, I feel relaxed, and all the tension that I used to have is gone. Any explanation for that? I drink lots of my girls’ pee, because they get excited and it makes them happy. They do also ejaculate a lot while we are having sex.”

To bolster our understanding of the history and lore around drinking one’s own urine, we turned to the Wikipedia article on urine. Indeed, as we’d always heard, people have been drinking their urine and justifying it for thousands of years.

It follows suit that drinking your girlfriends’ pee would have similar beneficial properties.

If you’re not sure what’s what down there and want to further explore female ejaculation and the G-spot, check out Deborah Sundahl’s accessible and informative Female Ejaculation for Couples. Three couples, under the tutelage of female-ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl, learn to female ejaculate.

In the last month or so we’ve gotten a couple interesting e-mails…not about exhibitionism or voyeurism, per this month’s poll, but about what’s out there now, and what’s new at Fatale.

Here’s one note, from an old friend we’ll call S.:
“It’s been a while. Was just wondering how things were going at Fatale. The last time we conversed was about fisting and the political implications. I’m not sure if the present administration had anything to do with it or not, but the truth is you can find it almost anywhere on the Internet now. I was wondering if you guys had anything new featuring this or any plans for the future.”

It is our understanding that this act–lesbians fisting–is still verboten when it comes to lesbian and specifically lesbian-made explicit films. And from what porn we’ve seen online, the dykes aren’t real. If you know otherwise, let us know.

Here’s a second e-mail that warmed our hearts because we think women in men’s clothes is still a sexy sight. It’s from a fan who wishes to remain anonymous:
“Sometime back I sent you a list of female celebrities who wore men’s clothes (e.g. Madonna, Salma Hayek).”

He goes on to mention several celebrities, including Britney Spears (“Me Against the Music”); Heather Morris, who wore a similar outfit in the Glee episode “Brittany Britney”; Christina Aguilera (“Ain’t No Other Man”); Rihanna; Lady Gaga; singer Janelle Monae (she even wears masculine shoes); and one can find many other photos of women in men’s clothes on Flickr and Youtube.

He adds: “I should point out that sexual orientation doesn’t necessarily play a role when a woman chooses to dress like a man.”

Here’s a follow-up note headed “Women and Neckties” from this same anonymous correspondent:
“You’ve probably seen Anne Hathaway’s skit at the Oscars in which she wore a tuxedo.  I recently found out that Carrie Underwood wore a tux during a performance last year, and that Taylor Swift wore a tux for the cover of a magazine.

Also, actress Robia LaMorte wore a tuxedo in the TV series Silk Stalkings, in the episode called ‘Do You Believe In Magic?’”

Spoiler Alert:
We found the Silk Stalkings episode on YouTube, uploaded this past Valentine’s Day, with this creepy copy: “A ventriloquist’s dummy with its own dark history is the only lead to a tuxedoed serial killer.”

All that said, if you like cross-dressing in porn, check out Sugar High Glitter City or Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels.

Nobody does it quite like Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano, the masterminds behind S.I.R. Videos (Fatale Media is their distributor). The “sugar pimps and dandy hos” in Sugar High are drool-worthy.

Celebrities in the lesbian world of porn for sure!

Send us your notes, and write on our Fatale Media Facebook wall. We love to hear your thoughts.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com