G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.
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Dear Fanny,
What color is female ejaculate?
Curious
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Dear Curious,
Female ejaculate is clear and odorless to all but the most discerning noses. To those intimately familiar with their female ejaculate, it can have a very fresh and uplifting fragrance, perhaps best described as an “essence.”
It appears that some women try too hard to ejaculate, and that could be the cause of occasional discoloration in their ejaculate, a cloudiness or pale hue. There is no need to worry when this occurs, just quit trying too hard!
Also, the temperature and amount of ejaculate changes with the menstrual cycle. During the time from ovulation to menstruation, female ejaculation is “hotter” and “saltier” if you taste it. Plus there tends to be more of it. It is during this time when traces of urine may show up. This only happens to some women, not all.
After menstruation and before ovulation, female ejaculate is “cooler,” clearer, and there is less of it.
Happy gushing!
Fanny
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Send your questions to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.
Forbidden Fruit
September 1st, 2007There’s a subtle difference between getting what you want and getting what you can’t have. Getting what you want, even a seemingly unattainable object of your desire, brings a frisson of excitement, a tingle to the belly. The chase is as delicious as the getting.
Fantasies play a strong role here. You can picture exactly what you want—the cutest girl in the room, a real female ejaculation, getting pegged or hard lesbian love like you’ve never had it in your life. So far.
What you can’t have, that’s another matter, forbidden fruit. If you’re obsessive about it, fantasies can also play a role. Like Deb Shooter in Special Delivery, you get out that vibrator and dream on and on, wishing you could be elsewhere, getting what you just can’t have right now.
Lusting after forbidden fruit seems impractical or silly to some people. But sometimes things change. Or you make them change. Hope blooms inside you. Carrying that torch, be it for weeks, years or decades, was worth it after all.
What do you think? You can tell us here.
Yours in good love and sex,
Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com
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