Posts Tagged ‘tantric sex’

Ask Fanny: Tantra and Female Ejaculation

Friday, July 15th, 2011

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,
What is tantra? Is it all New Age sex stuff? What does it have to do with female ejaculation?

Caroline in New York

Dear Caroline in New York,
Tantra is about sexual energy. Tantra is also a religion and a science that goes back about 3,000 years or more.

Tantric Journey to Female OrgasmPeople then believed that sex was sacred. Their temples were carved with statues from floor to ceiling, depicting individuals, couples and groups in every imaginable sexual position and behavior. They developed hours-long rituals to set every nerve on erotic fire. And because they were meditation and yoga masters, they could hold these positions a very long time.

Margot Anand, M.A from Sorbonne University in France, is responsible for bringing this knowledge to the west in early 1980s. Her book, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, is the sourcebook of Tantra and I highly recommend it. (These links are both to her site,

Where Tantra enters the picture with female ejaculation – and which I talk about in my lectures and classes – is using the Tantra technique to reawaken the dulled sensations of the G-spot, the female prostate. Men know the prostate is ultrasensitive; why can’t women feel theirs? Numbed out due to the way we ram it in, in Western culture.

Tantra teaches us to use the breath and energy to develop exquisite sensations of erotic pleasure, pleasure that the G-spot is capable of and is the source of.

Good luck!


P.S. Check out Deborah Sundahl’s DVD Tantric Journey to Female Orgasm.


Tantric Evening with Deborah Sundahl

Tuesday, April 5th, 2011

Female-ejaculation expert and Tantric goddess Deborah Sundahl is offering a “Level II” Tantra workshop and evening experience in Santa Fe, New Mexico on Saturday, April 16, 2011. The program begins at 4 p.m. and runs till 11 p.m. The evening program includes instruction and practice, plus cocktails, dinner and a hot tub soak for anyone wishing to unwind after the program.

Preregistration is required by end of day Sunday, April 10, 2011. Register online at Santa Fe Tantric Arts.

Deborah Sundahl writes the “Ask Fanny: About Female Ejaculation” blog Q&A for Fatale Media; is the director and star of instructional female-ejaculation DVDs, including Female Ejaculation for Couples; and author of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot.

For more information and to register, go to Santa Fe Tantric Arts: