Archive for 2008

Bestselling Gift DVDs

Monday, November 24th, 2008

More than a few people have asked what Fatale’s bestselling gifts are, so we thought we’d give you the top-five rundown. Thanks to Nan for tallying the numbers, making this list and checking it twice.

Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set1. Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set
The #1 instructional video on how to pleasure your guy from behind, matched with BOB 2, “more rockin’, less talkin’.”

Perfect for adventurous couples, a curious uncle or your swingin’ BFF.

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The Crash Pad Series Volume 22. The Crash Pad Series Volume 2
The popular sequel to The Crash Pad and The Crash Pad Series Volume 1 is beautifully filmed and pussy-licking good.

Five scenes for every flavor you can imagine.

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One Night Stand3. One Night Stand
New from Fatale, hot dyke porn from Paris.

Just the gift for the gal who’s got it all and seen it all. Wait till she sees the steamy lesbian sex that happens downstairs in this Paris nightclub! Oh, mama! 

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How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot4. How to Female Ejaculate: Find Your G-Spot
Female ejaculation expert Deborah Sundahl shows you how to find your G spot in this educational DVD. Perfect for couples and solo friends who have always wondered what that gushing is, and how truly wonderful it can be.

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Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels DVD5. Hard Love and How to F*ck in High Heels (double DVD)
From Shar and Jackie of S.I.R. Video, this DVD is packed with handsome butch dykes and sultry high femmes.

A great gift to get your lover in the mood for a night of pure passion.

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Coming Home DVDWondering what to get for your shy friend? Try Coming Home.

Big curvy dykes, tender loving sex, four scenes you won’t easily forget.

Want to see more? Check out all Fatale’s specially priced gift sets.

Until next time, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

What’s the Matter with California?

Monday, November 17th, 2008

We were elated only a month ago when Connecticut became the third state to legalize gay marriage. Now four short weeks later, it’s the second state.

California voters vanquished the right to gay marriage in passing Proposition 8, overturning the state’s Supreme Court ruling in favor of gay marriage.

To Connecticut’s credit, voters there declined to pass a call for a constitutional convention in order to overturn gay marriage.

The Los Angeles Times asked last Tuesday in “Prop 8’s Battle Lessons” where the organized gay groups were before Election Day. Valid question.

Proposition 8 Protests in California
Barbara Davidson/Los Angeles Times

The streets are overflowing with protestors in Los Angeles, San Francisco and other towns and cities across California. People are angry. And what of the 18,000 gay and lesbian couples who have married in the months since the state’s Supreme Court ruling?

Equally disturbing were the anti-gay-marriage measures passed in Arizona and Florida. Florida went so far as to ban civil unions. Tough luck, Floridians, if you thought a civil union would give you the same legal rights as married people. The Florida measure flies in the face of religious arguments. This is pure homophobia.

In Arkansas, what the New York Times “a disturbing measure” was passed by 57% of the state’s voters. No kids for you, queers!

Dan Savage’s “Anti-Gay, Anti-Family” is worth reading.

Our favorite commentary, “Gay Marriage is a Question of Love,” comes from Keith Olbermann, in which he says, “This is about the human heart, and if that sounds corny, so be it.”

Watch Keith’s valuable commentary here on MSNBC.

Gavin Newsom is no Harvey Milk. We need a new Harvey Milk, one of our own, on the issue of gay marriage. Are you out there?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

Fatale on Facebook!

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Fatale on Facebook!

Fatale is now on Facebook! 

Many thanks to our good friend Holly for helping Fatale get set up in Facebook.

Come be a fan of Fatale Media’s Facebook page.

Become a fan, write on the wall, start a discussion. Tell us what you’re thinking about.

Gifts, Gifts, Gifts!

Monday, November 17th, 2008

“The Crash Pad Gift Set” is a new gift set from Fatale. You can save 10% and get free shipping when you order “The Crash Pad Gift Set.”

Coming Home DVD, Where the Heart Is Gift SetWhere the Heart Is, Butch/Femme Rules and many more offer free shipping and lesbian hot romance! Your satisfaction guaranteed.

You can check out all Fatale’s DVDs here.

Until next time, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

Obama!

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008

President-Elect Barack Obama

It’s a beautiful day. There’s a giddiness in the air. It’s as if we, as a country, are heaving a tremendous sigh of relief. We went to bed last night knowing we have our country back, knowing democracy is here again.

We don’t often talk politics, but this is a great day for all lesbians, queers, gays, trans, bi and open-minded straight folks. At last we are part of the conversation once again. At last we are permitted to sit at the table.

Last night, as we watched the electoral votes roll in for Obama, first we were laughing and high-fiving, then laughing some more, and suddenly we were crying. We knew this was history being made, right before our eyes.

Thank you to all who worked on Barack Obama’s presidential campaign. Thank you for the inspiration, and for spreading the inspiration and hope into every town and city in America. Thank you all our friends outside the U.S. who have supported us here in the States.

Deborah Sundahl shared this letter from Terje in Norway, owner of Cupido:

What a night! We didn’t go to bed before we got Barack’s speech 6.30 Norwegian time this morning. We spent the night with good friends, a delicious duck, good wines, fine champagne, CNN and the U.S. electoral map.

Greet all Americans from us and thank them for taking responsibility and spreading inspiration and hope.

Congratulations!

Halloween Fantasies

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

Is Halloween your favorite holiday? Is dressing up part of your wildest fantasies? Or maybe it’s just the profusion of candy and little trick-or-treaters at your door.

When we were kids, no grownups dressed up except one  holiday? Is dressing up part of your wildest fantasies? Or maybe it’s just the profusion of candy and little trick-or-treaters at your door.

neighbor lady who always dressed as a witch…in full regalia and green pancake makeup, one or two large warts on her nose. Scariest grownup we ever saw.

Of course, Wicked has become one of our favorite Broadway plays.

Here’s Christi’s Josephine Baker fantasy costume:

Josephine Baker

About a far a cry from Sarah Palin masks – sure to be popular this year – as we can imagine.

No matter what you think of Sarah Palin, the Republican Vice Presidential Beehive who’s now “dressing down” in jeans, Josephine Baker epitomizes sexy.

Sexy, sultry, playful. What’s your fantasy? 

If you could be anyone, anything at all, for Halloween, what would you be? Tell us here at the blog comments section. 

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

One Night StandP.S. One Night Stand got a fabulous review in AVN. Three and a half stars for Fatale’s latest DVD! Read the One Night Stand review.

P.P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or with PayPal. And remember, you get free shipping when you order 3 or more DVDs. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

Ask Fanny: Is It Female Ejaculation?

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation ExpertG-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Do you have a question for Ask Fanny? Send it to askfanny@fatalemedia.com.

Dear Fanny,

I have an issue. When I masturbate and reach an orgasm, I ooze out and it’s thick and clear. Also there’s a massive volume of it. I do massage my g-spot and I don’t know why it’s like that, but when it happens it’s really intense. But mine doesn’t come out like water, nor does it squirt out. I know it’s not female lube; this only happens when I massage my g-spot and then cum. What is it? Is it still FE?

Terry

Dear Terry,

Female ejaculation is clear and watery. It doesn’t always arc out; often it just gushes or floods. Vaginal lubrication, as you stated, is thick, creamy and white.

Therefore, even though you are stimulating your G-spot, and it sounds as if you are having a wonderfully intense G-spot orgasm, you are not ejaculating. You are creating a large amount of vaginal lubrication.

Some women create copious amounts of vaginal lubrication. But you can tell it is from the vagina and therefore not female ejaculation, which emits from the urethra, because it is thick and white. You can’t always see the white by looking at it, but it is not clear and watery like female ejaculation.

Smell will help decide it for you. Female ejaculation smells fresh and light, basically odorless. Vaginal lubrication is heavier, with a slight, musky odor.

Fanny

Female Ejaculation: The WorkshopFor tips on how to female ejaculate, check out Deborah Sundahl’s new DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.

Dressing Up vs. Real Life

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

We’ve been corresponding for the last couple of months with an old friend and customer about women dressing as men.

Was this merely a passing fashion? Madonna, Annie Lennox, Salma Hayek, Geri Halliwell… The list goes on.

Aimee Mann June 2008

Even Aimee Mann has been known to wear men’s neckties. Here she is in a June 2008 performance at the Pabst Theater in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

Celebrities – women in particular – change their looks and images all the time. They have to. And face it, these celebrities are all femmes. Even in menswear, they keep the makeup and earrings and women’s panties. Chances are good there are no jockey shorts under their getups.

Dressing up for your lover is fun. And dressing up for sex is a tradition in BDSM—one of our favorite sex costumes is that of Mistress Cobra in Full Load.

But real life is another matter. Most butches we know wear only men’s attire. This is not “women dressing in men’s clothes” the way Madonna and Annie Lennox have been known to do when the mood strikes.

Nan Kinney

For butches, menswear is a way of life. It is part of who they are, and Nan counts herself among them. Here is Phyllis Christopher’s head shot of Nan. Not quite the same look as Aimee Mann’s, is it?

Then we think of Ellen. She too wears men’s clothing. An out dyke, Ellen DeGeneres falls into both the Celebrity and Butch Dyke camps.

Categories morph. Mores change. What’s permissible now was not always the case. Passing women took huge risks in the last centuries. We love Madonna, but she had nothing to fear by gigging herself up in men’s garb.

Have You Come Out? * Dressing Up?

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: Have you come out?

As we said in the last piece, categories morph. Things change. And you were right to say there weren’t enough categories. Amanda probably said it best:

“I selected the option that I’d come out to my partner (my husband) since it was the closest to accurate. My husband knows that I’ve always been bi-curious, as do some of my closest friends. None of my family does, however, and probably never will.

“It would have been nice to have a couple more options there.”

Thank you, Amanda, and those who e-mailed and posted their comments.

You can see all the results here.

This month we ask: Do you dress up for sex?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

Connecticut’s Queers Celebrate Ruling

Wednesday, October 15th, 2008

Plaintiffs from the Connecticut Supreme Court Same-Sex Marriage Case 

Fred Beckham/AP 

Woo-hoo! Connecticut has become the third state in the U.S. to approve same-sex marriage. Connecticut follows Massachusetts and California in permitting same-sex marriage.

Read the New York Times report.

This is a victory for progress. “Civil unions” mean little when you’re face to face with bureaucracy or even just trying to answer a survey. Are you married, or not really?

We agree with Justice Richard N. Palmer, who said in part, “The institution of marriage carries with it a status and significance that the newly created classification of civil unions does not embody.”

As gays and lesbians who have already gotten married illustrate, we can live up to the responsibility of the institution of marriage as much as anyone. 

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com