Archive for 2008

How Many Fingers? * Sexy Resolutions?

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: How many fingers?

Wow! This question elicited a lot of votes last month. And only a few people eschew fingers. Go for it!

You can see all the results here.

This month we ask: What are your sexy resolutions this year?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

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Monday, December 15th, 2008

We were in New York not long ago, and over an Italian dinner in Chelsea, a friend told us this story:

“Years ago, I was living down in the West Village with my boyfriend. We had an apartment on Bleecker Street between Christopher and Grove. One Saturday morning we were out grocery shopping. On the way home, climbing up the stairs, we got as far as the second floor. Suddenly we just dropped the grocery bags and did it right there in the hallway of our apartment building. Five minutes! And it was utterly invigorating.”

One Night StandIt struck us that December is a month filled with holiday parties, racing around, shopping, more parties, gift-wrapping, family dinners…did we say parties? When so much holiday activity is swirling around, it’s easy to forget to treat yourself.

Quickies are the perfect escape…and so invigorating, as our friend discovered that day in the hallway.

Give your sweetie a quickie this season, and you won’t regret it!

Need some inspiration? Check out the dykes in the red bathroom in One Night Stand.

Happy Hanukah! Merry Christmas! Enjoy your December!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. Speaking of quickies, you get free, fast shipping on all Fatale titles. No minimums. Promise. Check out the holiday shipping schedule to make sure you get your gifts on time. 

Vue Weekly Interviews Nan Kinney

Monday, December 15th, 2008

Nan KinneyTamara Gorzalka wrote a dynamite piece about Fatale for Vue, Edmonton’s weekly alternative newspaper. Her interview with Nan probes the difference between girl-girl and the real thing, the old days of On Our Backs and Nan’s favorite new porn.

Read “Queermonton: She’s a Femme Fatale,” the interview with Nan at Vue.

SexGeek Review of One Night Stand

Monday, December 15th, 2008

The SexGeek has written a blow-us-away most excellent review of Fatale’s latest DVD, One Night Stand.

One Night Stand“The film’s various scenes are downright delicious, definitely a cut above what I’ve come to expect of queer porn… The chemistry in the final scene is electrifying… Really the whole film is beautifully shot, with lots of great angles, especially impressive considering it’s a DIY… All in all, One Night Stand is a true treat, and definitely a must for the collection of any queer porn connoisseur.”

Read the whole review: “Finally a One Night Stand.”

Check out the sexy lesbian DVD One Night Stand.

Good Gifts at Good Discounts

Saturday, December 13th, 2008

When you’re looking for sexy, good gifts but want a good deal too, check out these special gift packages from Fatale: 

Bend Over Boyfriend
Bend Over Boyfriend Gift Set” – for the couple who’s got everything and wants more. Fatale’s bestselling gift set.

The Crash Pad
The Crash Pad Gift Set” – New! – Already have one of these and want to add the brand new Crash Pad Series Volume 3 ? Simply make a note in the Comments section of your order form, and you can get any three Crash Pads you like.

Anja and Eva, Coming Home
Where the Heart Is” – for the friend who likes amateur, this is one sexy 3-DVD gift set.

You can check out all Fatale’s DVD gift sets here.

Until next time, we wish you happy holidays and dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

New Crash Pad DVD – Free Shipping on All

Monday, December 1st, 2008

Yes, it’s true! The Crash Pad Series Volume 3 is out and if you love this series like we do, it’s a must-see as the saga of the crash pad rendezvous continues. The Crash Pad Series Volume 3

Director Shine Louise Houston reprises her role as the hidden voyeur, devouring the scenes before her. Butches, femmes, bois and transfolk all come to the crash pad for private trysts filled with delicious dyke sex.

This queer cornucopia has a little something for everyone—bondage in scene one, a luscious threeway in scene three, tender transmen in the fourth scene. The busty Red and her goateed lover Javier share the most romance, and a whole lotta passion in a surprising role reversal, in the last scene, which is in our opinion the second best one of the five.

Dylan in Crash Pad Series Volume 3Our favorite scene by far stars the femme Dylan. Lying in the dirty sheets Dallas and Shawn have just vacated, Dylan is magnificent in this solo self-love moment. And she doesn’t just stop at one orgasm!

If you too want “the key to the crash pad,” we recommend you start with The Crash Pad, a good introduction to what’s in store with these insatiable dykes. This is one sexy DVD.

Here’s a letter we received this past month from Janice M., in Clarksdale, Mississippi:

“Thank You just doesn’t express my gratitude for such an amazing product. I received The Crash Pad today and after viewing only part of the first scene, I was overjoyed at the beautiful women! It was like these women stepped out of MY dreams. Real lesbians, having real orgasms. O M G!!!

“Thank You. I can hardly wait till payday to begin building my own little ‘love library’ of scorching hot movies. You gals Rock.”

The Crash Pad Series Volume 2The Crash Pad Series Volume 1 picks right up where The Crash Pad left off. Next comes The Crash Pad Series Volume 2, with one of our favorite scenes, starring Dallas and Vai.

The Crash Pad Gift Set gives you the first three Crash Pad DVDs at a nice discount.

And don’t forget—you get free shipping on all DVDs through Christmas. No minimums!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or PayPal. And you get free gift-wrapping and free shipping through Christmas. See all Fatale’s DVDs.  

Ask Fanny: “Love Juice”

Monday, December 1st, 2008

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot. Deborah Sundahl - Female Ejaculation Expert

Hello, Fanny,

I was wondering if it is possible to improve the taste/smell of my ejaculate. My partner says that it is quite acidic and burns her throat. Upon tasting it myself I quite agree, and now understand why she chokes sometimes. Also, the scent is quite strong, bordering on unpleasant for both of us.

I am aware that my ejaculate should be light and fresh, and mine is not even in the ballpark. I am also quite positive it is not urine, since I have tasted that as well. I don’t push really hard (when I ejaculate), because I don’t have to (so I am not leaking urine). Mostly, I am receiving oral sex when I ejaculate (hence her choking). Sometimes it squirts out a bit, and other times (my female ejaculate) just gushes out.

I ejaculate almost every time I orgasm. I can have many orgasms in a session, so therefore I ejaculate a lot. I’m 39 now, and started to ejaculate in my 30s.

I have taken prescription medication for many years, but none of it is new, nor has it changed in many years, except Cymbalta, which I started in April, 2007. I don’t use illicit drugs. Of course, my diet could use improvement, but it’s not terrible.

The medications I currently take are:

Cymbalta 60 mg – depression
Zoloft 75 mg – depression/anxiety
Avapro 75 mg – high blood pressure
Lipitor 80 mg – high cholesterol
Trazodone 50 mg – sedative for bedtime
Clonazepam – anxiety for bedtime
Acidophilus – GI infections

I wouldn’t even say that urine smells as unpleasant as my ejaculate. What can I do or try?


Jane & Natalie

Dear Jane and Natalie,

I have not heard of this problem before, so initially I was completely stumped. Female ejaculate, like other bodily fluids such as tears, vaginal lubrication, etc., have certain tastes and smells that are “normal” or have a normal range. Your ejaculate falls out of the normal range. Therefore, what’s wrong?

I suspect the prescription drugs you are taking. It is an extensive list and you have been taking them for quite some time. I would see your doctor, and tell him or her about this side effect of burning, acidic ejaculate that you are experiencing. Also, consider getting a second and third opinion on your medical diagnoses and treatment plan—a standard practice in the health care industry.

I’m sorry, I don’t know of any natural remedy, food, tea or hydrosol to correct this problem. Should I stumble upon one, I will let you and the Fatale readers know. If anyone has any suggestions, please write in.

I feel compelled, as an herbalist, feminist and Goddess feminist, to comment here about pharmaceutical drug use.

1) As Goddess juice (female ejaculate), your ejaculate is, I believe, telling you—quite loudly—that these drugs aren’t that great for your body.

2) As a feminist, I believe it is worthwhile for us as a culture to take a look at the drugs we are taking in record numbers today. In the 1950s, women were popping sedatives in unprecedented numbers. Marilyn Monroe’s pill popping was not unusual for her gender and her time. As well, women were also undergoing lobotomies in record numbers. The complaints were for a “problem that has no name” as Betty Friedan made famous in her book, The Feminine Mystique. This is the book that started the 1960s feminist movement.

3) As an herbalist, these days the future is about going Green, and that includes what we put into our bodies. Natural alternatives support the body like food does, rather than overburden it with pharmaceutical chemicals—possibly destroying the utterly divine, fresh and light smell that is our female ejaculate.

In next month’s column, we will talk about toxic sex toys, plastics and phthalates.


Female Ejaculation: The WorkshopFor tips on how to female ejaculate, check out Deborah Sundahl’s new DVD, Female Ejaculation: The Workshop.

Dressing Up * How Many Fingers?

Monday, December 1st, 2008

In last month’s poll, we asked: Do you dress up for sex?

Yes and no. Judging from the results, dressing up isn’t number one on your hit list, although most people like it now and then.

You can see all the poll results here.

This month we ask: How many fingers?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

And we’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex.

Nan and Christi

Finger Fucking

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

The Crash Pad Series Volume 3Watching The Crash Pad Series Volume 3, this beautiful sex act is as relevant as ever. Not one scene goes by in the new Shine Louise Houston DVD without a good dose of the time-honored staple of dyke sex.

So on that note, we’re reposting this Sex Tips piece, which was originally published in the June 2006 newsletter.

Straight folks: If you haven’t tried it, don’t knock it.

Straight gals: Check out Bend Over Boyfriend for how to finger-fuck your boyfriend.

When we were younger, much younger, finger fucking could upon occasion produce major anxiety—were our nails clipped just so, no hangnails or raspy edges? Would she like it? Should we use a condom? Were there such things as “finger condoms”?

After exploring dozens if not hundreds of lesbian bodies, finger fucking seems as natural as kissing.

One of the best ways to get started is to go down on your girlfriend and lick her good. After she’s wet and open to you, gently ease your finger inside.

If you find you need some lube, the bottle should be next to the bed where you put it before you got all hot and horny with your girlfriend.

Full Load Butch-Butch Finger-FuckingSlowly explore the ridges—feel her G spot just inside and along the roof of her vagina? Don’t press it at this point, but if she’s bucking like a rodeo horse, go for it!

As she begins to respond to your finger inside her, you can quit with the cunnilingus—your neck is probably stiff by now anyway—and move up alongside her, and keep stroking her with one finger. You’ll find your rhythm.

Slide a second finger inside. She’ll let you know if she’s open to it. You can try a third finger too, but often, one or two fingers do the trick.

By now you may really need the lube, or not. If she’s wet enough, you may not.

(More sex tips about fisting.)

Many lesbians view finger fucking as a prelude to “real sex” with a strap-on dildo. But it can also be the finger-fucking that brings her right to her first orgasm.

If she likes to have multiple orgasms, then consider more stroking with your fingers or donning your strap-on.

We’re assuming here that you’re both lying down, but try sitting up behind her. You can play with her breasts and nipples, stroke the inside of her thighs and get off on feeling her leaning up against you.

Finger fucking her doggy-style—an act you probably like a lot—is another way to reach her G spot and let her spew.

Just remember: Don’t ram her too hard. Your fingers should be loosely curled around to her natural shape.

You can also ask her if she likes it. Be willing to ease up a little and look at her face, kiss her. Is she enjoying herself?

If you’re the one getting finger fucked, remember to talk to your partner and let her know what you like and what you don’t. You can just say, “That hurts” or “Too hard” or “Harder.”

You can also guide your partner’s hand toward or away from your vagina. Take her wrist and push or pull her where you want her.

You can also finger fuck each other at the same time, a delightful experience if you like mutual, concurrent sex.

What’s your advice? Post a comment here.

A Special Note – Fatale’s Gift to You

Monday, November 24th, 2008

If you’re like us, the holidays seem to creep up fast, and this year is no different. Except that this year we wanted to give you something special –

Free shipping on all orders in the U.S., and half-price shipping outside the U.S.

No minimum orders. No minimum amount. Whatever you want, you get it fast, and now through December 25, 2008, the shipping’s on us.

Free Shipping and Gift-Wrapping from FatalePlus, there’s free gift-wrapping—your choice, Christmas or non-Christmas wrapping paper—and free gift cards.

That’s right. Why should you worry about all the jaw-dropping extra “gift-wrap fees” and minimum orders and shipping costs when you’re simply trying to find the best gift for the right person?

Most important, it’s easy to find the right gift for your best friend or lover when you come to Fatale. (Scroll down and see our picks for your shy friend, your out-loud-and-fun best friend, your straight but curious uncle…)

At Fatale, you get not only fast, free shipping, gift-wrapping and gift cards, but you get personalized, discreet service.

Have a question? Let us know. We’ll answer you right away. You won’t waste a minute wondering if or when your gift shipped, and to the right person.

The Crash PadWant to know which Crash Pad DVD you should buy? Or if the Special Delivery DVD will play in France? (It will.) Or if your package will be discreetly shipped? (It will.)

Check out the new Favorite Lesbian DVDs page, too. It’s jam-packed with reviews and good gift suggestions.

Make the holidays easy for yourself. Here’s the new holiday shipping schedule.

It’s easy to change your order, too, if you change your mind. Just shoot us an e-mail or call us at 888-5-FATALE (888-532-8253) or +1-415-454-3291. We’ll respond within 24 hours, and usually right away. Your time, after all, is valuable.

We have a lot to be thankful for this year, not least of all you. On Thanksgiving we’ll be raising a toast to those people, like you, who take joy in their sexuality. Know that we always do our best to help you find what makes you happy, keeps your sex life hopping.

Happy Thanksgiving! We’ll be back again on December 1st.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

P.S. You can pay securely at Fatale by credit card or with PayPal. And remember, you get free shipping through Christmas. See all Fatale’s DVDs.

P.P.S. Your 100% satisfaction is guaranteed. You may return or exchange any DVD that doesn’t suit your fancy. We want you to be happy!