Archive for the ‘Lesbian Life’ Category

Bye-Bye Don’t Ask Don’t Tell

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

It’s official. Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, the Clinton-era compromise on gays in the military, is done, gone, repealed as of midnight last night.

A piece on NPR, “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is Done; Now What?,” about the Don’t Ask Don’t Tell repeal, has some good quotes. One of our faves, from Stacy Vasquez: “I like to say I’m a government-certified homosexual.”

We thank Grethe Cammermeyer for drawing our attention to this issue many years ago. We hope she, like so many of her compatriots, is celebrating a long-awaited victory today.

Sexy September

Thursday, September 15th, 2011

As the weather finally cool down a bit, we’re happy to be snuggling up inside. For some reason, this has been a long, long summer. We’re ready to say enjoy some romantic, cozy days.

We like Deborah Sundahl’s recommendation for parents and couples so busy they can’t find time to enjoy each other’s company. Her new “Ask Fanny” column addresses the issues: “Finding Time for Romance.”

The New York Times had a piece earlier this week—front page, no less—on bullying in Minnesota. It happens everywhere, not just in Minnesota, and we’re glad to see attention brought to this issue of bullying gay kids.

Here is the link to the article:
In Suburb, Battle Goes Public on Bullying of Gay Students” by Erik Eckholm.

The link is posted on Fatale’s Facebook page, too, if that’s easier. For sure the article is worth reading.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

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Summer Sale – It’s Still On – No Minimums

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011

The lake in August 2011

Okay, this is a good deal, and we decided to offer a summer sale because it’s the dog days of summer here, hot and sticky or hot and dry, depending on where you live.

One of the best ways to escape is to retreat to an air-conditioned lair and make wild, beautiful love.

The past couple weeks have seen riots in London, escalated war in Afghanistan and Iraq, escalated violence in Syria. Here in the U.S. the Congress could hardly get itself to its summer vacation for inability to agree on matters of state and economy.

Yet we smile every time we get your notes and letters and know that despite everything there is love here, there is love in the world, and making love is one retreat into pure pleasure. Worthwhile pleasure, too.

On Sunday we walked along a path beside a beautiful lake, just the two of us, and it was like when we first fell in love. Both of us smiling, talking.

Here’s a picture of the lake from that walk on Sunday – we posted it on the Fatale Media Facebook page too, a good thing to like.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Want to know the offer? Enter Summer Sale in the “coupon code” on the checkout page and get 20% off. No minimum. Check out all Fatale Media DVDs.

Lesbian Wedding

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

We can’t wait for Sunday, July 24, 2011, when gay and lesbian weddings are legal in New York State.

Kudos to the New Yorker for this classy cover.

And for classy, sexy wedding gifts, come visit the Fatale Media online DVD store.

 

Summertime Sex Tips

Friday, July 15th, 2011

With heat waves sweeping the U.S. west to east, and with air conditioning not always the answer (we don’t have one), we thought we’d offer up a few summertime sex tips:

–Make love outside (up on the roof or out on the fire escape or out back in a tent)

Sleep outside so you’ll be in the mood for more sex outside

–Take a cold shower together…the cool buzz will last the rest of the night

–Go skinny-dipping, especially good if you’ve got a place by the water or a friend with a pool; you can put cold water in the hot tub too!

–Go to the movies, make out in the back-row seats (this is a time-tested New York City solution to heat waves).

Want to add to this list? Post your comment here. We want to know what you do!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

   P.S. Check out Take Her Down for the naked lesbians outdoor swimming pool scene.

P.P.S. Did you know? Buy three or more DVDs at Fatale Media and get free shipping in the U.S.

Happy Pride 2011

Friday, June 24th, 2011

On the verge of the largest state so far to ratify gay marriage, we wish everyone a Happy Gay Pride. This year saw the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, too, a milestone.

Parades, parties, dances…we’ll be there in spirit, especially at the Dyke Dance in New York City Saturday night.

Reminder, too: One last week to take advantage of Fatale’s Gay Pride Special. Ten percent off and free shipping through June.

Talking Dirty

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Another letter from a friend surprised us when it arrived last week. What about “talking dirty?” he wanted to know.

Surprise! Talk to Me Baby is a DVD from S.I.R. Video that is the crème de la crème for talking dirty. Director and dirty-talk expert Shar Rednour, the “Diva of Dirty Talk,” offers:

Tips on how to use dirty talk to seduce a lover
Pillow talk as a prelude to passion
Sex fantasies played out in scorching detail.

Smut Magazine wrote: “Shar Rednour is, as always, the perfect hostess. She’s her usual vampy, campy and out of control self. What I love about this video is that anyone can get something out of it.”

What gives even more spice to dirty talking is a little added fetish. Our friend writes: “I also like the fetish ( I adore sucking women’s toes) before talking to a woman. I look to her toes, and hands…”

For all the talk of Representative Anthony Weiner—and we do not believe he should resign—and his “dirty tweets,” actual dirty talk is sexier than any tweet or posting.

The tenor of the voice, the smooth soft lure of a honeyed sexy voice… The greatest writers, even those who write great tweets, can’t match the thrill that sparks up and down the spine when the seductive dirty talk starts.

What do you think?

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Talk to Me Baby. Just so you know, the couples who illustrate the dirty talk here about both straight and lesbian.

P.P.S. Fatale Media’s Gay Pride Special is on through June, 2011. Ten percent off everything plus free shipping in the U.S.

Marriage and Its Defenders

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

We’d like to put our hat in the ring and say, “We too defend marriage.” For anybody. For everybody.

All this Defense of Marriage Act back-and-forth has reached, as the New York Times put it, “a tipping point.” Adam Lipak’s article last Sunday, “A Tipping Point for Gay Marriage,” pointed out that the legal community is often ahead of the curve when it comes to forward-thinking ideas and acceptance of those ideas in the general public.

Long before gay marriage becomes legal throughout the United States, legal decisions such as Lawrence v. Texas, decided by the U.S. Supreme Court in 2003, which in essence legalized gay sex (sodomy, to be precise).

Now we have international law firm King & Spalding, based in Atlanta, withdrawing from a case that would have put them in a position to defend the Defense of Marriage Act. Marriage should be between one man and one woman, that act says. The law firm doesn’t want to alienate its law-school recruits, among other things. Good. Let them withdraw.

If it takes the legal community to lead the way in legalizing gay marriage, so be it.

Till next time, yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out Shine Louise Houston’s new lesbian DVD The Crash Pad Series Volume 6. A keeper for sure!

P.P.S. Check out all Fatale’s DVDS.

Frolicking

Monday, April 18th, 2011

Does springtime make you frisky as a colt, wanting to frolic and show off? Wanting to take off all your clothes just because it’s beautiful outside and besides, why not?

Winter blues are gone. There are a thousand sexy moves you want to make. You feel sexier than ever.

Hah! We’re happy just watching the birds trying to make a nest outside Christi’s office window, and admiring the spring flowers all in bloom.

Lots of gift orders are coming in to Fatale, and that makes us think of birthdays and anniversaries and all kinds of fun things.

Nan’s birthday is May 2nd, and already we’re plotting and planning a lovers’ getaway weekend. Hot springs, massages, a completely romantic two days.

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out the latest Crash Pad Series Volume 6. Highly recommended!

Happy Spring

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Spring is here. At last. The tulips are everywhere, as are the daffodils. Trees that may or may not be crabapple trees are blooming with white flowers. The cherry tree next door has got an aura of pink about it.

Cherry Blossoms Spring 2011

We cleaned out the closets this weekend, with the sole purpose of donating Christi’s much-loved but now too small cocktail dresses to a high-school prom dress “auction.” It works like this: people donate old prom dresses, cocktail dresses, bridesmaid dresses and the like—old tuxes are welcome too. The local group that organizes this “promwear recycling” then holds an auction. The money raised goes to charity.

More news: We’re still looking for help with Wikipedia, if you or someone you know has experience in this realm. This is not a volunteer request, by the way. Please contact Christi (christi@fatalemedia.com) if you have a suggestion or referral.

Enjoy the springtime!

Till next time, yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out The Crash Pad Series Volume 6.

P.P.S. Check out  Fatale’s best lesbian videos.