This month, the poll is about monogamy, threeways, multiple partners and polyamory. We ask:

What’s your ideal?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex! Nan and Christi www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. Order three DVDs and get free Priority Mail shipping in the U.S. Check out these Fatale Media favorites.

Superfreak

Throughout the years, we’ve met people in open relationships. Call it polyamory or, as some people prefer, polyfidelity.

A few years ago “polyamory” piqued the interest of journalists. The Daily Beast wondered if polyamory was the “next sexual revolution.” Big Love was big on HBO, and while the Book of Mormon was still in development, Mitt Romney was already planning his 2012 comeback as a presidential candidate.

Polyamorous Percolations is a blog that focuses on polyamory in the news. If you’re curious, it’s a good place to get the gist of poly “issues,” and there are issues. But clearly there’s also a lot of pleasure.

What struck us was the way some triads and foursomes (and moresomes) identified as straight, lesbian or bisexual.

We also stumbled upon a good article reprinted from Autostraddle called “Queer Polyamory for Lesbians.”

Speaking of Autostraddle, congratulations to them for winning three 2012 Webbies last Sunday and scooping up the coveted “Weblog of the Year.”

We love especially their NSFW Lesbosexy Sundays.

Yours in good love and sex,

Christi and Nan
nan@fatalemedia.com
christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. One of our favorite flicks with a steamy dyke threeway is Shine Louise Houston’s Superfreak. Here’s a blog post listing the others, Good Lesbian PolyPleasure—7 must-see movies.

Here is a list of 7 lesbian movies, in no particular order, that celebrate polyamory, or feature group sex, in one or more scenes:

Superfreak. Shine Louise Houston’s steamy flick starring Madison Young won the Feminist Porn Awards “Best Dyke Scene,” and we know why. In the last scene, when Lorelei Lee arrives late to this all-queer party, and Dana DeArmond and Princess Donna jump her bones “as if they’re starving for sex and she’s and the last woman on Earth….One of the hottest scenes I’ve ever seen in a porn.” – All Sex Reviews

The Wild Search. Also from Shine Louise Houston is the retitled Wild Search (formerly In Search of the Wild Kingdom). “Funny, entertaining dialogue interspersed with very hot and believable sex scenes, and a multiracial cast of real queer women,” wrote LesbianLife.About.com, naming Wild Search in its lineup of ”Best Lesbian Porn.” Wil and Papi take the delectable Jiz Lee in an orgasm-inducing threeway worth every moment.

Sugar High Glitter City. Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano star in this sci-fi fantasy that culminates in a wild femme-femme-butch menage a trois.

GayReading.com wrote: “Laced with massive dildos and luscious candy, Sugar High Glitter City is sure to keep you tuned in and turned on from erotic and impassioned love-making to down-and-dirty, kinky sex.”

Afterschool Special. Lesbian gangbang at its finest.

FHM said it best: “This video was so excellent, I couldn’t believe it was filmed by amateurs (but I’ve been promised that’s the truth). There’s a schoolgirl gangbang, more dildos than you can shake a stick at, and dykes masturbating in every corner. The star of the film is an adorable, innocent-looking schoolgirl with enormous size-E boobies…”

Seven Minutes in Heaven. Courtney Trouble’s queer gonzo is wall-to-wall sex. These girls are hot!

From Viviane’s Sex Carnival: “Where one scene ends, the other begins and  the sex and play seems to go on forever, with bodies changing places, a new  strap-on here, a new twosome, threesome or foursome reveling in hot, sexy, authentic, queer, smoldering, diverse,  inter-racial hardcore sex.”

Suburban Dykes. The classic lesbian threesome starring Nina Hartley, Pepper and Miss Sharon Mitchell. The sweet suburban, curious couple (Nina and Pepper) decide to hire a lesbian escort…and the fun really begins when Miss Sharon Mitchell shows up!

Last month, we asked if romance was for you. Romance rules! Check out the results.

There’s been some mumblings about monogamy in the Twitterverse and the news lately, which got us to thinking:

What’s your ideal in life?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page and is completely anonymous. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until next time, we wish you deliciously hot sex,

Nan and Christi
www.fatalemedia.com

P.S. Check out the new Courtney Trouble DVD Live Sex Show.

Starring Nina Hartley and Jiz Lee, this is one hot tamale from the evermore interesting Courtney Trouble.

Was February ever this romantic and sexy? It feels like a thaw, some sort of easing of tension. Everything is relaxed suddenly. How did that happen?

We had a lovely Valentine’s Day – here’s our Valentine’s Day blog posting, short and sweet about how we celebrated.

Then we watched two new DVDs just in from France. Oooh-la-la. Nice. They’ll be available soon, and we’ll let you know as soon as they are. (Can’t wait? Here’s a French lesbian DVD to make you wet wet wet!)

We’re glad it’s a long weekend here in the U.S., to celebrate Presidents’ Day. We get to sleep in, relax some more, enjoy each other. Watch some more sexy movies!

Yours in good love and sex,

Nan & Christi

nan@fatalemedia.com

christi@fatalemedia.com

P.S. The #1 Valentine’s Day DVD was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, the sexy lesbian DVD by the inimitable Shar Rednour, S.I.R. Video.

P.P.S. Thank you for liking Fatale Media on Facebook and following @FataleMedia on Twitter. It means a lot to us. We want to know what you think. So post away! What have you got to say?

G-spot expert Deborah Sundahl, a.k.a. Fanny Fatale, answers your questions about female ejaculation and the g-spot.

Dear Fanny,

I am 20 years old and have a girlfriend, but I can’t orgasm. She has been really good at helping me try, but I still can’t. I don’t like doing it myself either; it just doesn’t feel good.  I wish I could have an orgasm, but I don’t know what to do and feel I should reach out for some help now.

Renee

Dallas, TX

Dear Renee,

I suggest that you make a concerted effort to have your orgasm by yourself first, and give your partner a rest. It is hard on the relationship and a lot of work for the partner, without the reward or pleasure. Better to keep your relationship free of a hard burden that is mostly your affair anyway.

What to do? You can start with these three things:

1. Read this wonderful book on how to have an orgasm. Becoming Orgasmic by Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo–here’s the Powell’s Books link–takes you step by step through the elements of female orgasm and guides you to fitting sexuality into other areas of your life.

2. Check out this new video, Betty Dodson’s Body Sex Workshop.

Betty Dodson is called the Mother of Masturbation because since the 1960s, she has been teaching women how to have an orgasm. Back then, very few woman had orgasms, and it was a feminist mission to change that sad fact. Now 83 years old, she is still going strong! Aided by her younger business partner, Carlin Ross, they just finished another video of Betty’s famous workshop teaching women to ejaculate. Enjoy and learn!

3. Lastly, ask yourself what is it about touching your body that bothers you? Breath and relax into the touch. Notice what keeps you from relaxing into the touch. Be very aware of what crosses your mind, or what images comes up. This is your issue. Take this and work with it, either through simple awareness that this is the problem, or perhaps the help of a therapist.  But first, read the book and watch the video!

Pleasure will be yours! Give yourself time and permission, that’s all.

Fanny

P.S. Check out Female Ejaculation the Workshop by Deborah Sundahl.

Watch three gorgeous women learn to stimulate the G-spot and achieve beautiful orgasms in a workshop setting.

This month, the poll is about romance, and we ask:

Is romance for you?

Vote now! The poll is on Fatale’s home page.

Stay tuned. We’ll give you the results next month.

Until then, we wish you dazzling hot sex!

Nan and Christi

www.fatalemedia.com

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

We began celebrating this weekend–staying in and making dinner, watching two Oscar-nominated movies. Romantic! Yesterday afternoon we went off to a beautiful Japanese spa nearby for a soothing, sexy hot tub, a private sauna and cold plunge.

Today, surprises! We’ll see what transpires for this Valentine’s Day.

P.S. The bestselling Valentine’s Day gift was Hard Love and How to Fuck in High Heels, a super-sexy vid to get you in the mood right away! Treat yourself!

Thanks to the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health its really useful The Top 10 Sex Education Films. Two Fatale offerings stand out among the Top 10:

Talk to Me Baby by Shar Rednour.

The Center says in its review: “Shar certainly has a way with words and she can take one of the most terrifying sexual behaviors people have and make it fun. Really, really fun! She’s got one of the best potty mouths in the business…”

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Healing Sex: The Complete Guide to Sexual Wholeness by Shar Rednour and starring Staci Haines

From the Center’s review: “I don’t know of ANY other video that tackles this difficult subject. Staci Haines is a genius and my go-to woman for healthy sexual functioning after sexual assault….This video should be a staple in your video library.”